If having a dramatic life is an excuse to call someone a prostiture, a dog, that our heads are filled with fesses, to tell someone that he or she has taken pleasure in the death of peopel in the earthquake then maybe I should start speaking like sev.  I tried to understand her but to no avail. 

I have had a hard life but I do not act like sev, I have to much dignety and respect to do so.  I took offense when she called me a prostitute, I took offense when she called me a dog but I tried very hard to stay calm with her.

The straw that broke the camel´s back, Gokuyum, is when sev told me that I took pleasure in the deaths of peole in the earthquake.  I lost friends in the earthquake in question. 

So no, having a dramatic life does not permit you to treat others the way sev has and does not exempte you from following the rules implemented on TC.