General/Off-topic |
|
|
|
Missing persons at tc...
|
330. |
01 Oct 2007 Mon 10:08 pm |
Quoting KeithL: Quoting Elisabeth: Quoting KeithL: these foreign girls are with 5 or 6 waiters a week! I don't blame him for not believeing you... |
5 or 6 on a slow week!! |
I'm going to quit my job at Enka and become a turkish waiter!!!! |
Hehehehe....you only need to say a few things in Turkish to convince the foreign girls!! Then say them over and over and over and over again.
|
|
331. |
01 Oct 2007 Mon 10:09 pm |
Quote: Quote: Quoting Elisabeth:
Dont you need us to translate anything? |
yeah, i think lisa could do a good work here  |
Of course! I know all the translations..I love you, I want you , I miss you....ect.....My Turkish is perfect!! |
i do believe in you, canim, you mastered the terminology, anyway, mrs waiter wont need other unnecessary rubbish words.
|
|
332. |
01 Oct 2007 Mon 10:09 pm |
Quoting femme_fatal: Quoting KeithL: Quoting Elisabeth: Quoting KeithL: these foreign girls are with 5 or 6 waiters a week! I don't blame him for not believeing you... |
5 or 6 on a slow week!! |
I'm going to quit my job at Enka and become a turkish waiter!!!! |
you wont be as good as turkish |
yes...its a pity turkish women don't like foreign men....
|
|
333. |
02 Oct 2007 Tue 12:52 am |
Quoting KeithL:
yes...its a pity turkish women don't like foreign men....
|
why dont hey like foreign men? are the foreigners less attractive?
|
|
334. |
02 Oct 2007 Tue 03:33 am |
Quoting femme_fatal: Quoting KeithL:
yes...its a pity turkish women don't like foreign men....
|
why dont hey like foreign men? are the foreigners less attractive?  |
Many women I know prefer males with a slightly dark complexion. They tend to like males with strong personalities. In other words, they run after leaders. They both run into problems with those macho characters and yet still like it that way for reasons beyond my understanding.
While not strictly a rule, a typical European male will probably be too polite to leave any kind of impression on our women who are used to males of another sort. After all, it is not very surprizing that part of the male image in the minds of the females is shaped in the childhood by observing their fathers who are very different in manners, reactions and traits from their European counterparts.
There are absolutely quite a lot of people both males and females who have a different taste in this regard. Actually I have heard of all kinds of women attracted to all kinds of men in this society though in much smaller percentages.
Women getting married to or living with foreigners go through a brief cultural shock. A friend of ours got married with a German guy and they began living in a small German town in a single house. When showing her the house where they would live together, the girl notices, her new husband makes all sorts of weird warnings about how to behave in the house and treat their neighbors. Most notably, he tells her after explaining that their neighbors feed rabbits, not to ever catch and eat those rabbits even if they come near her. This might be seen as a result of a deep rooted xenophobia but I think the intercultural marriage shock. also plays a role in this. The guy obviously likes his new wife but he doesn't know how to deal with her.
|
|
335. |
02 Oct 2007 Tue 03:46 am |
Quoting vineyards: Quoting femme_fatal: Quoting KeithL:
yes...its a pity turkish women don't like foreign men....
|
why dont hey like foreign men? are the foreigners less attractive?  |
Many women I know prefer males with a slightly dark complexion. They tend to like males with strong personalities. In other words, they run after leaders. They both run into problems with those macho characters and yet still like it that way for reasons beyond my understanding.
Most notably, he tells her after explaining that their neighbors feed rabbits, not to ever catch and eat the those rabbits even if they come close to her. |
I agree with the slightly dark complexion and strong personalities .. hehehe .. all women like to be controlled TO AN EXTENT .. note I put this in LARGE LETTERS ..
why would she catch it and eat it? am I missing something here?
|
|
336. |
02 Oct 2007 Tue 04:42 am |
Obviously, he loves his wife but he is also a bit worried about the cultural distance there is between the two of them. While the most logical deduction here should not be eating the rabbit, it is worthwile both as a joke and as a telltale sign of his fear of the unpredictable aspects of his wife's sociocultural background. He therefore prefers to be on the safe side and warns her beforehand.
On the other hand, we might also be suspicious of a burning desire in his subconscious to eat that rabbit. Rabbit symbolizes some sort of a bounty a winnable asset. It might have gone through his own mind beforehand, maybe in childhood.
The rabbit and wife duality could also be symbolizing a mental process. Accrdingly, the rabbit might be symbolizing the freedom he enjoyed before his marriage, his younger days which he is afraid of parting now, as a result of this abrupt radical change in his life. That his wife could eat the rabbit might actually be associated with his fear about her taking over the rest of his life. The choice of rabbit as the symbol of as something that is in jeopardy might either indicate a deep rooted homosexuality or a sever lack of compassion in childhood. Children who crave for affection in childhood are afraid of losing their belongings. They never discard objects belonging to them even if they have become completey unuseful through extensive use. They may also develop obsessive feelings towards their family members or friends. In many situations a split personality might also develop. I would like to draw your attention to the similarity between a rabbit and a bridal gown. Chances are that his other personality might be planning to harm his wife and as tpyically happens in these situations, it attempts to put the blame of that offense on another person. She therefore becomes both the victim and the murderer in his thoughts.
|
|
338. |
02 Oct 2007 Tue 05:58 am |
Wow Keith...you really have gotten into some heavy analysis of this. Then you know the couple. I hope he isn't that bad.
It is odd his feeling the need to warn her not to eat the rabbits. I don't know many women who would catch a rabbit slaughter and dress it, then eat it, unless they are in a desperate situation, or raise rabbits.
There are a lot of Canadian Geese where I am. I have had goose for dinner and find they are very tasty, but I'm not that desperate, or I'm lazy. Maybe if people would start "harvesting" them, they would cease to be the problem they have become. I can't imagine any woman I know eating them in the wild....
Quoting vineyards: Obviously, he loves his wife but he is also a bit worried about the cultural distance there is between the two of them. While the most logical deduction here should not be eating the rabbit, it is worthwile both as a joke and as a telltale sign of his fear of the unpredictable aspects of his wife's sociocultural background. He therefore prefers to be on the safe side and warns her beforehand.
On the other hand, we might also be suspicious of a burning desire in his subconscious to eat that rabbit. Rabbit symbolizes some sort of a bounty a winnable asset. It might have gone through his own mind beforehand, maybe in childhood.
The rabbit and wife duality could also be symbolizing a mental process. Accrdingly, the rabbit might be symbolizing the freedom he enjoyed before his marriage, his younger days which he is afraid of parting now, as a result of this abrupt radical change in his life. That his wife could eat the rabbit might actually be associated with his fear about her taking over the rest of his life. The choice of rabbit as the symbol of as something that is in jeopardy might either indicate a deep rooted homosexuality or a sever lack of compassion in childhood. Children who crave for affection in childhood are afraid of losing their belongings. They never discard objects belonging to them even if they have become completey unuseful through extensive use. They may also develop obsessive feelings towards their family members or friends. In many situations a split personality might also develop. I would like to draw your attention to the similarity between a rabbit and a bridal gown. Chances are that his other personality might be planning to harm his wife and as tpyically happens in these situations, it attempts to put the blame of that offense on another person. She therefore becomes both the victim and the murderer in his thoughts. |
|
|
339. |
02 Oct 2007 Tue 08:59 am |
Just joking.
|
|
340. |
02 Oct 2007 Tue 04:15 pm |
You worry me sometimes vineyard. Any relation to Pag here?
|
|
|