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MY LIFE IS IN DANGER
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18 Jun 2006 Sun 12:57 pm |
please translate this for me so i can explain to my bf what happened here last night.
a lot of you here also know the background info to what i am about to write, so here you go, here is part two...
i will try not to make it too long.. thanks so much in advance...
"ok, you know the group of girls from school, who were terrorising me for months.. and ultimately forced me to leave school...?? well, we have had a visit from them.
i was laying on the sofa last night,i had just woken up and heard screams, shouting and swearing coming from outside. i run to the front door and saw three of the girls, my dad was outside trying to make them go away but they were all drunk and screaming to him to send me outside so they could "sort me out".
it was obvious from the way they were that they were not going anywhere, leaving my dad to have to physically remove them. there was one main girl there, she is the one who previously started on my mum when she picked me up from school one day. she is only 15 and its unbelievable to think that a 15 year old can be like this. i know nothing like this happens in turkey so, to understand me, you will just have to imagine the worst area possible..anyway, when my dad managed to remove the girl.. she started screaming "go on then, hit me hit me" and my dad just replied by saying that its not worth it.
this girl had such a smirk on her face that i will never forget it, it pierced right through me and i was so scared for my dad, i know that they all carry knives and i thought he was going to get stabbed.
then, the bitch started to get physical, and my dad ended up picking her up and throwing her against our neighbour's fence. she got up straight away. i couldnt believe it. if i saw someone who looks as scary as my father coming after me i would run away! i dont know where she found her strength but the same thing happened 3 times, it looks like she couldnt get enough of the fighting. imagine that i thought that when i was at school, if one of them hit me i could hit them back and then stand a good chance of them backing off.. i was really mistaken.
the girl had a bottle of vodka in her hand, half gone and was totally in a world of her own, still screaming for me to come out of the house so she could lay her hands on me. at one point i thought she was gonna get passed my dad and attack me. even glass me with her bottle, luckily she didnt.
after much swearing and more unnecessary screaming, my dad finally managed to come back in the house and firmly close the front door behind him. but in less then 3 seconds later, a step away from where i was standing, the front door was kicked in. the whole inside of our house was covered in glass, i was so afraid. i didnt know what was going to happen next. i sat on the stairs behind the opened door, shaking from fear. my dad ran back outside and grabbed the girl he thought had done it (pne of the quiter ones), holding her firmly with his arm so she couldnt run away, he wanted the police to arrest her when they arrived. then, my mum phoned the police and in the mean time this girl was screaming that it wasnt her. my dad looked at the main girl and realised that everywhere she moved, there was a dark stain following her. it was quite dark by this time although it was still obvious that it was blood. my dad let the other tart go and then they started to phone up their boyfriends and friends.
in no time we had about 20 of the worst people around here, at our front door.
then the police and the ambulance came. a piece of the girls foot was in the road, because the glass was thick it didnt shatter as she put her foot through it so as she pulled it back out it cut into her foot really deep. her blood is all over our front door, all in the glass, and all up the street. i cant believe that there was that much blood. it looks like there has been a murder. all the neighbours were looking out of the windows, not one could come and ask if we were ok.
we then had the forensics come, i felt like i was in a film. and was in so much shock that i couldnt even believe what had just happened.
my dad and i stayed up all night in case they came back. the police refused to stay here, so it could happen again at any time.
i wish i was still coming to turkey, i dont wanna be here anymore.. if only your mother hadnt created all these problems for me.. i would have said that id be there in 5 days..!! do you now understand another of my reasons for wanting to be in turkey?
thanks to your mother, something might happen to me here this summer.. if i have my neck broken or if im stabbed, dont be shocked."
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18 Jun 2006 Sun 01:21 pm |
one more thing..
id like to say that "i feel like a prisoner in my own home"
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18 Jun 2006 Sun 01:37 pm |
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18 Jun 2006 Sun 01:39 pm |
Quoting Aenigma: Miss Ceyda I am sorry I can't help with your translation, but I am so shocked at your message. Have sent you a PM... |
there is a new member on TC, my friend ilker has become a member under the name of Bir_Türk.. he is translatin at the moment..
maybe some other people can do some too??
maybe starting from the last paragraph working upwards so two people dont have to do the same bit..??
thank you for your pm aenigma.. xxx
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18 Jun 2006 Sun 01:50 pm |
ilker has done the first paragraph...
"Okuldan ayrılmam için bana baskı yapan kızları okuldan biliyosun.
Geçen akşam sofada uzanırken bağırma cığlık ve küfür sesleriyle uyandım.
Kapının önüne gittiğimde 3 kız vardı ve babamda bu kızları gitmesi icin uğraşıodu kızlar sarhoş ve babama ben ewden cağırması için bağırıyolardı.
Tum cabalara ragmen kızlar hıcbıreye gıtmedıler.babam onları uzaklastırmak ıcın artık fızıksel yola basvurmak zorunda kaldı.iclerınden bır kız annem bigun annem benı okuldan alırken anneme satasmıstı.O kız sadece 15 yasında bu yastakı bı kızın boyle olabılcegını dusunebılıomusunuz?.Biliyorum Turkıyede buna benzer olaylar olmaz.Sadece en kotu durumu dusunmen lazım.Herneyse, babam kızları uzaklastırdıgı zaman kız babama bagırıp vurmaya basladı babamın dedıgıyse sadeceâ€kızım buna deymez†di.Kızın yuzunde unutamadıgım bır gulumseme vardı.Kızların bıcak tasıdıgını bılıodum we babama zarar werecekler dıe cok koktum."
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18 Jun 2006 Sun 02:01 pm |
Sorry, I cannot do it now, because I have really very little time, but in the evening if noone has done it still, I will try my best.
And I don't know your story there. What's the problem of the girls with you? Why are they so crazy and wild? Now, I understand why you want to come to Türkiye so much. I'm sure here you'll have a lot of friends. The girls you describe look like they're completeyly out of control.
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18 Jun 2006 Sun 02:05 pm |
Quoting mltm: Sorry, I cannot do it now, because I have really very little time, but in the evening if noone has done it still, I will try my best.
And I don't know your story there. What's the problem of the girls with you? Why are they so crazy and wild? Now, I understand why you want to come to Türkiye so much. I'm sure here you'll have a lot of friends. The girls you describe look like they're completeyly out of control. |
thank you mltm.. i appreciate your concern.. my friend is translating right now.. hes not online at tc at the moment.. maybe he will finish it all by this evening.. i dont know..
if you can help later though, it would be great.. thank you xxx
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18 Jun 2006 Sun 02:32 pm |
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18 Jun 2006 Sun 02:38 pm |
miss ceyda you are in my thoughts.
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18 Jun 2006 Sun 02:39 pm |
Quoting Aenigma: I just can't stop thinking about your ordeal last night Ceyda. What the hell is happening to the world? Society is breaking down so much - but where does this cruelty come from?
There has always been bullying between peers, but kids used to have a certain respect and fear of adults. Where has that gone, and why? What kind of children are being raised now, and what the hell will they grow into? People who have no compassion, no respect for law, no respect for people, animals.... in fact the medical definition is PSYCHOPATH - a person with no compassion. Is that what we have to look forward to? A country of psychopaths? |
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GÜNAYDIN!! dünyaya hoş geldin canım..!!
it has gone so far hasnt it..?? its now impossible to do anythng about it..
only the government can fix this problem and they wont.. maybe they cant..
i mean, this bitch who has kicked my door in and scared the shit out of my family, has kicked me out of school just as i am preparing for my gcses.. her and her friends can do this look. the school say that they are powerless, the police say that they are powerless... we are powerless.
it is clear that we are all under the government's thumb, so why dont they do somethng about it?
why cant they change the laws so that girls like that are put in a special unit or school, if not, forget their education, they will only end up in a womens prison anyway. let them stay at home, if they choose to roam the streets, let it be, let them be arrested and put away in a cell. where they deserve to be.
i dont want to be in a country where the government allows things like this to happen. i want to be in turkey more than ever right now, because at least i will be able to feel safe.
im sure many of you have read my other thread about the turkish women who gossip, and how my summer has been ruined because of my "mother-in-law-to-be", but, i would even prefer to be there with all of them right now because i would feel safer than i do now...!!
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18 Jun 2006 Sun 02:39 pm |
Quoting deli: miss ceyda you are in my thoughts. |
thank you cnm
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18 Jun 2006 Sun 02:43 pm |
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18 Jun 2006 Sun 02:46 pm |
Quoting Aenigma: Quoting miss_ceyda: im sure many of you have read my other thread about the turkish women who gossip, and how my summer has been ruined because of my "mother-in-law-to-be", but, i would even prefer to be there with all of them right now because i would feel safer than i do now...!! |
Me too Ceyda. I want to live somewhere where there are still values. I hope all young people how crave the kind of freedom English kids have here, and moan about their parents being so strict will realise it is because they care about them so much. Kids who are free to do as they please, are kids who are not loved, so they learn not to love or feel compassion either. |
yes, i can see where you are coming from...
and i hate to say this, but, the only thng we can do, is escape from a place like this.
i would love so much to have the power to change everything, so that not just my family is safe, but also everyone else.
i am however, like i said, POWERLESS, so all i can do is leave this shit place and try and forget about everythng that has happened.
i will be 16 in august people, im still young.. these years are supposed to be some of the best in my life.
i should be focused on college now, and turkey and the turkish language.. but i cant be.. i have to worry about how the government is not doing its job properly...
this isnt right.. i have to do something... :'(
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18 Jun 2006 Sun 02:54 pm |
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18 Jun 2006 Sun 02:56 pm |
Quoting Aenigma: Quoting miss_ceyda: . i have to worry about how the government is not doing its job properly...
this isnt right.. i have to do something... :'( |
I realise that I am very lucky to be living where I do, because we don't see this kind of behaviour...yet. But how long before it reaches here too? Yep Ceyda...time to get the hell out!!!!  |
i could contact the government i suupose.. i have done it before..
i went on strike at school because of the iraq war.. ahh the amount of trouble i got into because of tht.. surely the school should be encouraging such behaviour??
after that i emailed the gov. head office with my war poem which im sure you have read.. not surprisingly, there was no reply but soon after we had them trying to hack our pc..!!
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18 Jun 2006 Sun 02:56 pm |
well,nowhere is heaven friends,always goods and bads on everywhere,just we have to know that things changing bad way day by day,and youth in big problems about the changes which called modernisim and freedom
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18 Jun 2006 Sun 02:58 pm |
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18 Jun 2006 Sun 02:59 pm |
Quoting MrX67: well,nowhere is heaven friends,always goods and bads on everywhere,just we have to know that things changing bad way day by day,and youth in big problems about the changes which called modernisim and freedom |
i wouldnt call this freedom you know..
freedom is where people can live peacefully, with laws of course; but fair ones.. where people can comfortably sit in their own home without the fear of a group of yobs attacking their house... freedom is where you can go to bed and not have to worry about your younger brothers and sisters being in danger when they are sleeping in their beds... its not living with the fear of society having no morals and thus acting like this...!!
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18 Jun 2006 Sun 03:03 pm |
i totally agree with you Ceyda,but crowded cities and demoralizations on family lifes,makes worse things day by day.And i think goverments not enough interested in the problems of youth,and they just thinking to keep longer their chairs
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18 Jun 2006 Sun 03:06 pm |
here is the rest of the translation from ilker, bir_türk...
"kız babama saldırmaya basladıgında babam en sonunda dayanamayıp kız karsı komsunun cıtlerıne fırlattı gozlerıme ınanamadım babamın bu halını gorunce.Eger o an babam kadar korkunc bakan kımseyı gorseydım nereye kaççagımı sasırırdım.Kızın bu gucu nerden bulduguna sasırmamak elde degıl ve bu 3 kez oldu.Kıza kavga etmek yetmıyor.Bir dusunsene ben okuldayken basıma bole bır sey gelse elımden gelen hıc bırsey olmucaktı.
Kızın elınde yarım sıse vodka vardı ve o kadar sarhosu kı sadece kendı dunyasındaydı sankı.Benım dısarı cıkmam ıcın bagırıp duruyodu fırsatını bulur bulmaz babamı gecıp benım ustume saldırdı elındekı sısyle wurmaya kalktı aama wuramadı.
O kadar gereksız laf ve kufurden sonra babamla ewe gırmeyı basardık we kapıyı kapadık.Fakat 3 sanıye gectı gecmedı kapı tekmeldı kapının arkasındada ben wardım ıcersı hep camıdı ben cok korkmustum.Ne olcagını bılmıodum we kapının arkasındakı merdıvenlere oturmus beklıodum babam tekrar geldı we kızı kacamasın dıe tuttu bu arada annem polisi aradı.Bu sırada o bagırıp cagıran kızdan eser kalmamıstı o an kzın uzerınde koyu bır leke fakedıldi kız kan ıcınde kalmıstı.Babam kızın dıger arkadaslarını erkek arkadaslarını aramıs ıcın serbest bıraktı.Kısa bır zaman ıcınde etraıfmızı kızın arkadaslarından 20 kısı toplanmıstı daha sonra polis ve ambulans geldı.Kız kapıyı tekmelerken ayagı camdan ıcerı gırmıs ve derınce kesılmıstı bu kadar kan akacagını hıc tahmın etmemıstım sankı etrafta cınayet ıslenmıs havası wardı.Tum komsular camdaydı ve hıc bırısı ne oldu ıyımısınız dıye sormaya bıle gelmedı.Sonra adli tıptan geldıler,sankı kendımı fılmde hıssedıordum şoktaydım...
Polis burda durmayı kabul etmedı we hersey tekrardan olabılırdi tum gece ayakta kaldım tekrar gerı donerler dıye.
Turkıye’ye gelmeyı cok ıstıyorum artık burda duramam.Keske annem butun bu sorunları yaratmasaydı en fazla burda 5 gun daha kalırım.sımdı benım Turkıyeye neden bu kadar cok gelmek ıstedıgımı anlayabılyor musunuz? Yazın bu olanlardan sonra anneme cok tesekkur ederım.Eger bır gun boynum kırılırsa yaralanırsam sakın şok olmayın "
thank you everyone.. i will be back online later... xXx
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18 Jun 2006 Sun 03:09 pm |
Dear Miss_ceyda...I was shocked to read what happened to you and your family. I am sorry for you and I hope that there is a way for your parents to get a meeting between themselves and the parents of the girls with the presence of social authorities.
It is, in my opinion, necessary for all of you involved to not run away but to confront the problems. I understand that it must be terribly hard and that these girls have some mayor problems going on that most likely have nothing to do with you and your family what so ever, but still it is important to not leave it like that. The girls would probably feel like winners if you only ran away...and they are not. They are of course big time losers in many ways. And it is not the case that you and the girls are the responsibles to act on this matter. Your parents (the other girls parents too of course) and the social authorities are the ones to act - and work things out.
Of course it is sad that your parents have to be involved in this but the truth is that as adults and parents we many times get involved in messes we would have preferred to stay out of - but then again...being a parent and adult also include a responsibility to act when things like this happen. If there are not persons willing to take a stand like your parents did last night - we can give up every value there is!
I wish the best for you, miss_ceyda...and I am sorry that you and your family had to go through this.
kisses from Aslan
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18 Jun 2006 Sun 03:36 pm |
its like a movie...
so shocking...
god bless you and your family...
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18 Jun 2006 Sun 03:49 pm |
HERE İS THE WHOLE TRANSLATİON.. İS İT ACCURATE??
Okuldan ayrılmam için bana baskı yapan kızları okuldan biliyosun.
Geçen akşam sofada uzanırken bağırma cığlık ve küfür sesleriyle uyandım.
Kapının önüne gittiğimde 3 kız vardı ve babamda bu kızları gitmesi icin uğraşıodu kızlar sarhoş ve babama ben ewden cağırması için bağırıyolardı.
Tum cabalara ragmen kızlar hıcbıreye gıtmedıler.babam onları uzaklastırmak ıcın artık fızıksel yola basvurmak zorunda kaldı.iclerınden bır kız bigun annem benı okuldan alırken anneme satasmıstı.O kız sadece 15 yasında bu yastakı bı kızın boyle olabılcegını dusunebılıomusun?.Biliyorum Turkıyede buna benzer olaylar olmaz.Sadece en kotu durumu dusunmen lazım.Herneyse, babam kızları uzaklastırdıgı zaman kız babama bagırıp vurmaya basladı babamın dedıgıyse sadeceâ€kızım buna deymez†di.Kızın yuzunde unutamadıgım bır gulumseme vardı.Kızların bıcak tasıdıgını bılıodum we babama zarar werecekler dıe cok koktum
kız babama saldırmaya basladıgında babam en sonunda dayanamayıp kız karsı komsunun cıtlerıne fırlattı gozlerıme ınanamadım babamın bu halını gorunce.Eger o an babam kadar korkunc bakan kımseyı gorseydım nereye kaççagımı sasırırdım.Kızın bu gucu nerden bulduguna sasırmamak elde degıl ve bu 3 kez oldu.Kıza kavga etmek yetmıyor.Bir dusunsene ben okuldayken basıma bole bır sey gelse elımden gelen hıc bırsey olmucaktı.
Kızın elınde yarım sıse vodka vardı ve o kadar sarhosu kı sadece kendı dunyasındaydı sankı.Benım dısarı cıkmam ıcın bagırıp duruyodu fırsatını bulur bulmaz babamı gecıp benım ustume saldırdı elındekı sısyle wurmaya kalktı aama wuramadı.
O kadar gereksız laf ve kufurden sonra babamla ewe gırmeyı basardık we kapıyı kapadık.Fakat 3 sanıye gectı gecmedı kapı tekmeldı kapının arkasındada ben wardım ıcersı hep camıdı ben cok korkmustum.Ne olcagını bılmıodum we kapının arkasındakı merdıvenlere oturmus beklıodum babam tekrar geldı we kızı kacamasın dıe tuttu bu arada annem polisi aradı.Bu sırada o bagırıp cagıran kızdan eser kalmamıstı o an kzın uzerınde koyu bır leke fakedıldi kız kan ıcınde kalmıstı.Babam kızın dıger arkadaslarını erkek arkadaslarını aramıs ıcın serbest bıraktı.Kısa bır zaman ıcınde etraıfmızı kızın arkadaslarından 20 kısı toplanmıstı daha sonra polis ve ambulans geldı.Kız kapıyı tekmelerken ayagı camdan ıcerı gırmıs ve derınce kesılmıstı bu kadar kan akacagını hıc tahmın etmemıstım sankı etrafta cınayet ıslenmıs havası wardı.Tum komsular camdaydı ve hıc bırısı ne oldu ıyımısınız dıye sormaya bıle gelmedı.Sonra adli tıptan geldıler,sankı kendımı fılmde hıssedıordum şoktaydım...
Polis burda durmayı kabul etmedı we hersey tekrardan olabılırdi tum gece ayakta kaldım tekrar gerı donerler dıye.
Turkıye’ye gelmek cok ıstıyorum artık burda duramam.Keske annen butun bu sorunları yaratmasaydı en fazla burda 5 gun daha kalırdım.sımdı benım Turkıyeye neden bu kadar cok gelmek ıstedıgımı anlayabılyor musun? Yazın bu olanlardan sonra annene cok tesekkur ederım.Eger bır gun boynum kırılırsa yaralanırsam sakın şok olma!!
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18 Jun 2006 Sun 04:24 pm |
well miss...
i cant really say that this is the correct translation...
but it will be able to make your bf understand in what kinda horror you are...
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18 Jun 2006 Sun 04:26 pm |
Quoting SuiGeneris: well miss...
i cant really say that this is the correct translation...
but it will be able to make your bf understand in what kinda horror you are... |
could u correct it then pleasE?? because i want him to read an exct transltion of what i wrote...
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18 Jun 2006 Sun 04:39 pm |
Quoting miss_ceyda: HERE İS THE WHOLE TRANSLATİON.. İS İT ACCURATE??
Okuldan ayrılmam için bana baskı yapan kızları okuldan biliyosun.
Geçen akşam sofada uzanırken bağırma cığlık ve küfür sesleriyle uyandım.
Kapının önüne gittiğimde 3 kız vardı ve babamda bu kızları gitmesi icin uğraşıodu kızlar sarhoş ve babama ben ewden cağırması için bağırıyolardı.
Tum cabalara ragmen kızlar hıcbıreye gıtmedıler.babam onları uzaklastırmak ıcın artık fızıksel yola basvurmak zorunda kaldı.iclerınden bır kız annem bigun annem benı okuldan alırken anneme satasmıstı.O kız sadece 15 yasında bu yastakı bı kızın boyle olabılcegını dusunebılıomusunuz?.Biliyorum Turkıyede buna benzer olaylar olmaz.Sadece en kotu durumu dusunmen lazım.Herneyse, babam kızları uzaklastırdıgı zaman kız babama devam et vur bana vur bana diye bağırmaya basladı, babamsa buna değmez dedi.Kızın yuzunde unutamadıgım bır gulumseme vardı.Kızların bıcak tasıdıgını bılıodum we babama zarar werecekler dıe cok koktum
kız babama saldırmaya basladıgında babam en sonunda dayanamayıp kız karsı komsunun cıtlerıne fırlattı gozlerıme ınanamadım babamın bu halını gorunce.Eger o an babam kadar korkunc bakan kımseyı gorseydım nereye kaççagımı sasırırdım.Kızın bu gucu nerden bulduguna sasırmamak elde degıl ve bu 3 kez oldu.Kıza kavga etmek yetmıyor.Bir dusunsene ben okuldayken basıma bole bır sey gelse elımden gelen hıc bırsey olmucaktı.
Kızın elınde yarım sıse vodka vardı ve o kadar sarhosu kı sadece kendı dunyasındaydı sankı.Benım dısarı cıkmam ıcın bagırıp duruyodu. bir an babamı geçip benim uzerine gectigini sandım elindeki siseyle bana vurabilirdi ama sansa yapamadı
O kadar gereksız laf ve kufurden sonra babamla ewe gırmeyı basardık we kapıyı kapadık.Fakat 3 sanıye gectı gecmedı kapı tekmeldı kapının arkasındada ben wardım ıcersı hep camıdı ben cok korkmustum.Ne olcagını bılmıodum we kapının arkasındakı merdıvenlere oturmus beklıodum babam tekrar geldı we kızı kacamasın dıe tuttu bu arada annem polisi aradı.Bu sırada o bagırıp cagıran kızdan eser kalmamıstı o an kzın uzerınde koyu bır leke fakedıldi kız kan ıcınde kalmıstı.Babam diger arkadasını erkek arkadaslarını araması ıcın serbest bıraktı.Kısa bır zaman ıcınde etraıfmızı kızın arkadaslarından 20 kısı toplanmıstı daha sonra polis ve ambulans geldı.Kız kapıyı tekmelerken ayagı camdan ıcerı gırmıs ve derınce kesılmıstı bu kadar kan akacagını hıc tahmın etmemıstım sankı etrafta cınayet ıslenmıs havası wardı.Tum komsular camdaydı ve hıc bırısı ne oldu ıyımısınız dıye sormaya bıle gelmedı.Sonra adli tıptan geldıler,sankı kendımı fılmde hıssedıordum şoktaydım...
Polis burda durmayı kabul etmedı we hersey tekrardan olabılırdi tum gece ayakta kaldım tekrar gerı donerler dıye.
Turkıye’ye gelmek cok ıstıyorum artık burda duramam.Keske annen butun bu sorunları yaratmasaydı en fazla burda 5 gun daha kalırdım.sımdı benım Turkıyeye neden bu kadar cok gelmek ıstedıgımı anlayabılyor musun? Yazın bu olanlardan sonra annene cok tesekkur ederım.Eger bır gun boynum kırılırsa yaralanırsam sakın şok olma!! |
i corrected some places that mistaken to me...
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18 Jun 2006 Sun 04:41 pm |
thank you cnm... is it accurate to mine now??
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18 Jun 2006 Sun 04:45 pm |
let your bf know what happened to you
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18 Jun 2006 Sun 05:54 pm |
it really doesnt seem that accurate to me.. i dont wanna sound ungrateful but i really want it to be just how i said it...??
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18 Jun 2006 Sun 05:56 pm |
Quoting miss_ceyda: one more thing..
id like to say that "i feel like a prisoner in my own home" |
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18 Jun 2006 Sun 06:01 pm |
Quoting miss_ceyda: Quoting miss_ceyda: one more thing..
id like to say that "i feel like a prisoner in my own home" |
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evimde bir mahkum gibi hissediyorum (?)
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18 Jun 2006 Sun 06:11 pm |
he will be online soon.. please can someone make sure the translation is exctly like i wrote.. please...
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19 Jun 2006 Mon 12:57 am |
this part A bit rewrited:
Okuldan ayrılmam için bana baskı yapan kızları okuldan biliyosun.
Dün gece sofada uzanırken bağırma cığlık ve küfür sesleriyle uyandım.
Kapının önüne gittiğimde 3 kız gördüm ve babam kızların gitmesi icin uğraşıodu kızların hepsi sarhoştu ve babama beni dışarıya göndermesi için bağırıyolardı, böylece beni "halledeceklerdi"
Hallerinden hıcbıreye gıtmeyecekleri belliydi.babamı onları uzaklaştırmak için fiziksel yola başvurmak zorunda bıraktılar.iclerınde özellikle bir kız vardı, annem benı bir günokuldan alırken anneme satasmıstı.O kız sadece 15 yasında bu yastakı bı kızın boyle olabılcegıni düşÃ¼nmek inanılmaz.Biliyorum Turkıyede buna benzer olaylar asla olmaz. o yüzden beni anlayabilmen için en kotu durumu dusunmen lazım.Herneyse, babam kızları uzaklastırdıgı zaman kız babama "hadi hadi bana vursana" diye bagırıp vurmaya basladı babamın dedıgıyse sadece†buna değmez" oldu..Kızın yuzunde unutamadıgım bır gulumseme vardı.Babam için çok korktum.Kızların bıcak tasıdıgını bılıodum we babam bıçaklanacak diye çok korktum.
kaltak babama saldırmaya basladı, babam en sonunda dayanamayıp kızı karsı komsunun cıtlerıne fırlattı. hemen ayağa kalktı.gozlerıme ınanamadım babamın bu halını gorunce.Eger o an babam kadar korkunc bakan birini gorseydım nereye kaççagımı sasırırdım.Kızın bu gucu nerden bulduguna sasırmamak elde degıl ve bu 3 kez oldu.Kıza kavga etmek yetmıyor.Bir düşÃ¼n, ben okuldayken onlardan biri bana saldırdığında onlara karşılık verebileceğimi ve onları geri püskürteceğimi düşÃ¼nüyordum. Ama gerçekten yanışmışım.
Kızın elınde bir sıse vodka vardı, yarısı gitmişti ve o kadar sarhostu kı sadece kendı dunyasındaydı sankı.Benım dısarı cıkmam ıcın hala bagırıp duruyodu. fırsatını bulur bulmaz babamı gecıp benım ustume saldıracağını düşÃ¼ndüm. elındekı sısyle wuracağını bile düşÃ¼ndüm neyseki yapmadı.
O kadar gereksız laf ve kufurden sonra babam sonunda ewe gırmeyı basardı we arkasından kapıyı kapadı..Fakat 3 sanıye gectı gecmedı kapı tekmeldı kapının arkasındada ben wardım ıcersı hep cam oldu. ben cok korkmustum. Sonrasında ne olcagını bılmıodum we kapının arkasındakı merdıvenlere oturmus korkudan titreyerek beklıodum babam tekrar geldı
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19 Jun 2006 Mon 02:20 am |
Hello,
First of all I hope everthing will be alright for you.
And I spotted many improper translations in the Part A. I corrected them.
Take care.
Part A rewritten:
Okuldan ayrılmam için aylardır bana baskı yapan ve eninde sonunda okulu bana bıraktıracak olan kızları biliyorsun. Bizi ziyarete geldiler de.
Dün gece kanapede uzanıyordum, yeni uyanmıştım ve dışarıdan bağırma, çığlık ve küfür sesleri duydum. Hemen ön kapya koştum ve kızlardan 3'ünü gördüm ve babam kızların gitmesi icin uğraşıyordu kızların hepsi sarhoştu ve babama beni dışarıya göndermesi için bağırıyorlardı, böylece bana "dünyanın kaç bucak olduğunu" gösterceklerdi. Hallerinden hiç bir yere gitmeyecekleri belliydi. Babamı onları uzaklaştırmak için fiziksel yola başvurmak zorunda bıraktılar. içlerınde başı çeken ve daha önce anneme beni bir gün okuldan alırken sataşmış olan bir kız vardı .Bu kız sadece 15 yasında ve bu yastakı bir kızın böyle olabilmesi inanılmaz. Biliyorum Turkiye'de buna benzer olaylar asla olmaz. o yüzden beni anlayabilmen için en kotu durumu düşÃ¼nmen lazım. Herneyse, babam kızları uzaklastırdıgı zaman kız babama "hadi hadi bana vursana" diye bağırmaya başladı ve babamın dediği tek şey "buna değmez" oldu..Kızın yüzünde içime işleyen ve asla unutamayacağım bir gülümseme vardı ve babam için çok korktum. Kızların bıçak taşıdıklarını biliyordum ve babam bıçaklanacak diye çok korktum.
Daha sonra kaltak babama saldırmaya başladı, babam en sonunda dayanamayıp kızı karşı komsunun çitlerıne fırlattı. Fakat kız hemen ayağa kalktı. Gözlerime inanamadım! Eğer ben babam kadar öfkeli görünen birisinin arkamdan geldiğini görseydim hemen ordan kaçar giderdim. Kızın bu gücü nereden bulduğunu bilmiyorum ama aynı şey 3 kez tekrarlandı. Galiba kıza kavga etmek yetmıyor. Bir Ben okuldayken onalardan biri bana saldırsaydı bende cevabını verirdim ve böylece caymalarını sağlayabilirdim diye düşÃ¼nüyordum. Bunu hayal edebiliyor musun? Gerçekten çok yanılmışım.
Kızın elınde yarısı içilşmiş bir vodka şişesi vardı ve o kadar sarhostu kı, sanki sadece kendi alemindeydi. Benim dışarı çıkmam için hala bagırıp duruyodu. Fırsatını bulur bulmaz babamı gecıp benım ustume saldıracağını düşÃ¼ndüm. elındekı sısyle vuracağını bile düşÃ¼ndüm neyseki yapmadı.
O kadar gereksız laf ve bir o kadar da küfürden sonra babam sonunda eve girmeyi başardı ve arkasından kapıyı sıkıca kapadı..Fakat 3 sanıye gectı gecmedı bana bir adım mesafede olan kapı bir tekme darbesiyle açıldı ve içerisi hep cam oldu. Çok korkmustum. Sonrasında ne olcağını bilmiyordum ve açık kapının arkasındaki merdivenlere oturmus korkudan titreyerek bekliyordum. Babam arkaya koştu ve bu işi yapmış olduğunu düşÃ¼ndüğü kızı yakaladı. Onun kollarında çok sıkı tutuyordu ve büyüzden kız kaçamadı.
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19 Jun 2006 Mon 03:07 am |
Rehi miss_ceyda,
I re-read other translations sent by you. There were many improper and wrong translated parts in them. I made the whole translation by scaning and correcting the whole translation sent by you miss_ceyda. I tried to correct up the wrong and defective sentences (there were MANY!) I tried to correct it as accurate as I can.
impulse's version of whole translation:
Okuldan ayrılmam için aylardır bana baskı yapan ve eninde sonunda okulu bana bıraktıracak olan kızları biliyorsun. Bizi ziyarete geldiler de.
Dün gece kanapede uzanıyordum, yeni uyanmıştım ve dışarıda bağırma, çığlık ve küfür sesleri duydum. Hemen ön kapya koştum ve kızlardan 3'ünü gördüm ve babam onların gitmesi için uğraşıyordu. Kızların hepsi sarhoştu ve babama beni dışarıya göndermesi için bağırıyorlardı, böylece bana "dünyanın kaç bucak olduğunu" gösterceklerdi. Hallerinden hiç bir yere gitmeyecekleri belliydi. Babamı onları uzaklaştırmak için fiziksel yola başvurmak zorunda bıraktılar. İçlerınde başı çeken ve daha önce anneme beni bir gün okuldan alırken sataşmış olan kız da vardı. Bu kız sadece 15 yaşında ve bu yaştakı bir kızın böyle olabilmesi inanılmaz. Biliyorum Turkiye'de buna benzer olaylar asla olmaz. O yüzden beni anlayabilmen için en kötü durumu düşÃ¼nmen lazım. Her neyse, babam kızları uzaklaştırdığı zaman kız babama "hadi devam et, vur bana vur bana" diye bağırmaya başladı ve babamın dediği tek şey "buna değmez" oldu..Kızın yüzünde içime işleyen ve asla unutamayacağım bir gülümseme vardı ve babam için çok korktum. Bu kızların bıçak taşıdıklarını biliyordum ve babam bıçaklanacak diye çok korktum.
Daha sonra kaltak babama saldırmaya başladı, babam en sonunda dayanamayıp kızı karşı komşunun çitlerine fırlattı. Fakat kız hemen ayağa kalktı. Gözlerime inanamadım! Eğer ben babam kadar öfkeli görünen birisinin arkamdan geldiğini görseydim hemen oradan kaçar giderdim. Kızın bu gücü nereden bulduğunu bilmiyorum ama aynı şey 3 kez tekrarlandı. Galiba kıza kavga etmek yetmiyor. Ben okuldayken onalardan biri bana saldırsaydı bende cevabını verirdim ve böylece caymalarını sağlayabilirdim diye düşÃ¼nüyordum. Bunu hayal edebiliyor musun? Gerçekten çok yanılmışım.
Kızın elinde yarısı içilşmiş bir vodka şişesi vardı ve o kadar sarhoştu ki, sanki sadece kendi alemindeydi. Benim dışarı çıkmam için hala bağırıp duruyordu. Fırsatını bulur bulmaz babamı geçip benim üstüme saldıracağını düşÃ¼ndüm. elindeki şişeyle vuracağını bile düşÃ¼ndüm. Neyse ki yapmadı.
O kadar gereksiz laf ve bir o kadar da küfürden sonra babam sonunda eve girmeyi başardı ve arkasından kapıyı sıkıca kapadı..Fakat 3 saniye geçti geçmedi bana bir adım mesafede olan kapıya bir tekme darbesi geldi ve içerisi hep cam kırıklarıyla oldu. Çok korkmuştum. Sonrasında ne olcağını bilmiyordum ve açık kapının arkasındaki merdivenlere oturmuş korkudan titreyerek bekliyordum. Babam arkaya koştu ve bu işi yapmış olabileceğini düşÃ¼ndüğü kızı yakaladı. Onu kollarında çok sıkı tutuyordu ve büyüzden kaçamadı. Babam polis geldiğinde onu tutklamalarını istiyordu. Bu sırada annem polisi aradı o esnada kız son olayı kendisinin yapmadığını haykırıyordu. Babam elebaşı kıza baktı ve O nun geçtiği her yerin koyu bir lekeyle kaplandığını farketti. Çok koyu bir lekeydi fakat kan olduğu belliydi. Babam diğer paçozun gitmesine izin verdi ve hemen erkek arkadaşlarını ver arkadaşlarını aramaya başladılar. Kısa bır zaman içinde etrafımıza kızın arkadaslarından 20 kişi toplanmıstı daha sonra polis ve ambulans geldi. Kızın tekmelediği cam çok kalındı ve kız ayağıyla cama vurduğunda tamamen kırılmadı ve ayağını dışarı doğru çekmek isteyince ayağında çok derin bir kesik oluştu. Ön kapının önü onun kanıyla ve cam kırıklarıyla kaplanmıştı. Kan izleri sokağa kadar ulaşıyordu. Bu kadar çok kan olduğuna inanamıyordum. Sanki bir cinayet işlenmiş gibi duruyordu. Tüm komşular camdaydı ve hıç birisi iyi olup olmadığımızı sormak için yanımıza bile gelmedi. Sonra adli tıptan geldiler, kendimi bir filimde gibi hissediyordum. O kadar büyük bir şoktaydım ki tüm bunların olduğuna bile inanamadım.
Ben ve babam tekrar gelebilirler diye sabaha kadar uyumadık. Polis burada durmayı kabul etmediğinden tekrardan kötü birşeyler yaşanabilirdi. Turkiye’ye gelmeyi cok istiyorum artık burada duramam. Keşke annen tüm bu sorunları yaratmasaydı, en fazla 5 gün sonra orada olurdum..!! Şimdi benim Turkiye'ye gelmek istememin nedenlerinde bir diğerini anlayabilyor musun? Annene cok teşekkür ederim, bu yaz burada bana kötü birşeyler olabilir!. Eğer bir gün boynum kırılır veya bıçaklanırsam sakın şaşırma!! Kendi evimde bir mahkum gibi hissediyorum! (This last sentence is the translation of "I feel like a prisoner in my own home")
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19 Jun 2006 Mon 03:39 am |
Bloody hell!
I'm away for a few days and all hell breaks loose. Ceyda, I cant say anything that the others haven't said already. God Bless you.
If the police are telling you they cant do anything, then you must go to your local council. You can get a thing from them called an ASBO (Anti Social Behaviour Order), basically this is a court order which prevents people behaving in this way, if they do, they get taken to court and can go to prison, yes even if they are only kids. If you want to know more about this pm me.
also I cant actually understand why the police are doing nothing, this amounts at the very least to criminal damage and their are some very serious laws about harrassment.
You could also get a civil injunction against the ringleaders, again PM me if you want to know more about this. Ceyda, there is a lot you can do about this, maybe you are just not going about it the right way. Remember I am a lawyer and work with the police, PM me and I will help you.
Kisses for you, if all else fails canim, I live just down the A13 from you, you can come and stay with me!
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19 Jun 2006 Mon 04:02 pm |
Quoting Lyndie: Bloody hell!
I'm away for a few days and all hell breaks loose. Ceyda, I cant say anything that the others haven't said already. God Bless you.
If the police are telling you they cant do anything, then you must go to your local council. You can get a thing from them called an ASBO (Anti Social Behaviour Order), basically this is a court order which prevents people behaving in this way, if they do, they get taken to court and can go to prison, yes even if they are only kids. If you want to know more about this pm me.
also I cant actually understand why the police are doing nothing, this amounts at the very least to criminal damage and their are some very serious laws about harrassment.
You could also get a civil injunction against the ringleaders, again PM me if you want to know more about this. Ceyda, there is a lot you can do about this, maybe you are just not going about it the right way. Remember I am a lawyer and work with the police, PM me and I will help you.
Kisses for you, if all else fails canim, I live just down the A13 from you, you can come and stay with me! |
The girl is now in hospital.. she will be arrested and then put on bail until the court date. I still dont feel safe though. Maybe there is nothing the police can do, i dont know. I would like to look further into the matter when my head is a bit clearer and my final two exams are out of the way. Thank you for your post Lyndie, it really does mean a lot to me.
And you know, hehe, thats the 2nd offer ive had to go and stay with someone from TC hehe
BLESS YOU ALL... im glad that you were all here when i needed you.
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19 Jun 2006 Mon 04:34 pm |
Miss Ceyda would just like to wish you the best & hope that everything will become better for you - am so sorry to hear about what you have been through You are in my thoughts and my prayers.
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19 Jun 2006 Mon 09:23 pm |
hopefully my family and i will be able to escape from here soon and then none of us will have to worry 
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22 Jun 2006 Thu 02:34 am |
we had another window smashed in and the police are still saying that they cant do anything!! :'(
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22 Jun 2006 Thu 02:47 am |
Miss Ceyda,
What country do you live in? I am so angry to hear that these girls are terrorizing you. In my country they would be arrested put in Juvenile Detention and a restraining order would be slapped on them. They almost sound like a gang. Hopefully, your judicial system will come down hard on them. What goes around comes around, you can bet on that. In the meantime stay safe, but don't let them take your freedom away. Keep doing what your doing, or in the end they will have won. I don't know you, but you sound like a good person. I like to believe good people come out ahead.
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22 Jun 2006 Thu 03:53 pm |
england.
the police are saying they cant arrest her because she is under age... they need her mum to be present for her to be arrested, but funnily enough she too has gone missing and neither of them are answering the door or the telephone..!! the police therefore cant or wont do anythng..!!
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22 Jun 2006 Thu 08:35 pm |
who wants to see the bitch who has done all of this..??
i have contacts arakdaşlar baksanıza hehe
http://www.piczo.com/xXxlaindonlaurenxXx?g=15124957&cr=2
http://www.piczo.com/xXxlaindongemzxXx?g=10452879&cr=3
read the guestbooks, "never do nuffin to hurt no1.. " haha thts a joke
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22 Jun 2006 Thu 11:11 pm |
She seems she's a cute good girl, but still there's something bitchy on her face Yeah, she has the potential.
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22 Jun 2006 Thu 11:22 pm |
Hey, I was wandering through the pages, and I saw a girl called Lauren. She looks like she's 15, and as well her bf! And she had a baby last year! What's this! It's so easy to have a baby there like dolls?!
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23 Jun 2006 Fri 12:23 am |
Quoting mltm: Hey, I was wandering through the pages, and I saw a girl called Lauren. She looks like she's 15, and as well her bf! And she had a baby last year! What's this! It's so easy to have a baby there like dolls?! |
Getting a baby is pretty easy everywhere in the world It more has to do with an irresponsible attitude of the girls in question, which i find not that hard to imagine, keeping Ceyda's story in the back of my mind!
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23 Jun 2006 Fri 12:37 am |
Quoting Deli_kizin:
Getting a baby is pretty easy everywhere in the world It more has to do with an irresponsible attitude of the girls in question, which i find not that hard to imagine, keeping Ceyda's story in the back of my mind! |
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Yes, I know that having a baby is easy but there're some very free teenagers in especially west, I cannot understand their parents as well. In fact they're not free, they have irresponsible parents as you mentioned.
Their little daughter discovers the sex, and while having sex around one day she gets pregnant, it's so normal, she wants to have that baby,after 9 months she gives birth, and the father is not so important, they're not probably going to get married, and the girl goes on her life as usual, her mother is proud of her daughter. I'm not against sex, but at least if they're gonna leave their daughter so free at that age, then they should teach her something called safe sex!
I wouldn't want to be among those girls! Ceyda,try to get out of there as quickly as possible
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23 Jun 2006 Fri 01:23 pm |
yes.. that is the plan...
did you see the RCF gang?? all the pictures of all those guys?? well, they are all after us too... :S
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23 Jun 2006 Fri 04:44 pm |
Quoting Deli_kizin:
Getting a baby is pretty easy everywhere in the world It more has to do with an irresponsible attitude of the girls in question, which i find not that hard to imagine, keeping Ceyda's story in the back of my mind! |
i was talking to this boy who works across the road from my bf and his friend was with him, she is just 16 and pregnant. i asked her who the dad was and she said 'i dont know, ive got lots of boyfriends'
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23 Jun 2006 Fri 06:59 pm |
Quoting oceanmavi: Quoting Deli_kizin:
Getting a baby is pretty easy everywhere in the world It more has to do with an irresponsible attitude of the girls in question, which i find not that hard to imagine, keeping Ceyda's story in the back of my mind! |
i was talking to this boy who works across the road from my bf and his friend was with him, she is just 16 and pregnant. i asked her who the dad was and she said 'i dont know, ive got lots of boyfriends' |
hehe where do u live?? essex??
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23 Jun 2006 Fri 08:36 pm |
Quoting miss_ceyda:
hehe where do u live?? essex??  |
no, lincolnshire
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23 Jun 2006 Fri 09:31 pm |
Quoting oceanmavi: Quoting miss_ceyda:
hehe where do u live?? essex??  |
no, lincolnshire |
essexism is spreadin then..
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19 Aug 2006 Sat 05:53 pm |
Quoting susie k: Ive just found this thread. its awful wahts happened to miss ceyda but unfortunately it shows the change in times.
The police just are not interested unless someone is murdered a lot of the time. They have so much paperwork to do they do not have time to catch the criminals!
I hope that you listened to Lyndie and got an ASBO I believe fully that this is the best line of action.
That girl will hopefully of torn her achilles tendon which I can assure you would be extremely painful and take a long time to heal - good enough for her!
But I guess such a loser will just drown her sorrows in yet another bottle of vodka.
If they come round again try and video them anything will helpX |
yes, we went through the ASBO thang but the police said she couldnt be issued withone until she had received her final warning, she was supposed to receive that but then it wasnt issued so last night..
after all my turkish friends left my 16th bday party..
they returned... throwing another huge rock at a window !!!
luckily we have installed "unbreakable glass" there so there is not really any damage to the property but now it can so blatantly be seen how they can get away with ANYTHING!! so thts why they are carryng on.... i wish so much that the police would just do somethng because im startng to go so crazy here... imagine that the rock had hit my 2 year old sisters bedroom window.. imagine her layng in her little bed covered in glass, screaming from fright... pah.. .allah allah... deliriom... what a place is this, when they can just get away with whatever they want... its like the police are actually on their side u kno and by behaving like this, are encouraging them to do more and more...
but until what... do i actually have to be sliced up by one of them for somthng to be done because thats how it seems to me... the police cam here last night and spent an hour writing down their names AGAIN.. it must be the 50th time we have given their names, dont tell me that they dotn have those names on the system... a whole hour was wasted there in which these serseri's could have actually been found and arrested? arent we meant to trust in teh police..? arent we meant to feel safe knowng that the police are there when we need them? im guessing so... why is it though that i always find that my family and myself are suggesting ways to the police of how this can all be ended..?? do we have to actually do their job for them too? what? i mean omg i dont understand...
last night after the police left, saying that they "dont know" what they are going to do now.. i looked at the gazebo from the window and read aloud the text on the balloons... "Happy 16th Birthday"... yah, wateva... a great day was just ruined...
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20 Aug 2006 Sun 04:29 pm |
lovely fairy tale u have going on maybe you should look into getting it published ??
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20 Aug 2006 Sun 04:34 pm |
Quoting oli: lovely fairy tale u have going on maybe you should look into getting it published ?? |
I am sure Miss C will appreciate your support
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20 Aug 2006 Sun 07:01 pm |
Quoting oli: lovely fairy tale u have going on maybe you should look into getting it published ?? |
whatever... inandırmak zorunda değilim canım..
and another thing, "need help talking to turkish people" pah.. u really think ur gonna get any help with an attitude like this? vlla ya hayret bşisin... hehe
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20 Aug 2006 Sun 07:02 pm |
Quoting miss_ceyda: and another thing, "need help talking to turkish people" pah.. u really think ur gonna get any help with an attitude like this? vlla ya hayret bşisin... hehe |
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20 Aug 2006 Sun 07:11 pm |
Quoting miss_ceyda: Quoting oli: lovely fairy tale u have going on maybe you should look into getting it published ?? |
whatever... inandırmak zorunda değilim canım..
and another thing, "need help talking to turkish people" pah.. u really think ur gonna get any help with an attitude like this? vlla ya hayret bşisin... hehe |
Ehi!
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21 Aug 2006 Mon 02:50 am |
miss_ceyda, have just caught up on this post.
i hope u are doing ok. no one should be put through something like this.
also, had a look on those website links u gave, in my honest opinion, those girls look like skanks
the question i wanna know is... where are their parents?
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21 Aug 2006 Mon 01:27 pm |
Quoting miss_ceyda: Quoting oli: lovely fairy tale u have going on maybe you should look into getting it published ?? |
whatever... inandırmak zorunda değilim canım..
and another thing, "need help talking to turkish people" pah.. u really think ur gonna get any help with an attitude like this? vlla ya hayret bşisin... hehe |
ahhhh the world through teenagers eyes ....... so imaginative.....
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21 Aug 2006 Mon 02:30 pm |
Quoting oli: lovely fairy tale u have going on maybe you should look into getting it published ??
ahhhh the world through teenagers eyes ....... so imaginative..... |
Maybe you have forgotten what it is like to be young - or do you just take pleasure from ridiculing 16 year old girls? If you don't believe what Miss Ceyda is saying, then why comment? Don't you think she is going through enough right now without your sarcasm?
It is so easy to be smug and superior and forget what it feels like to be a teenager. It can be hell, and the suicide rate of teenagers in the UK has reached the highest level ever. You should be ashamed of yourself and your lack of compassion...
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21 Aug 2006 Mon 03:42 pm |
Let's ignore him.. then he will feel what it's like NOT to get help
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21 Aug 2006 Mon 06:27 pm |
maybe the suicide rate is so high because there all delusional ...???? or is it just her...?
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21 Aug 2006 Mon 06:28 pm |
Quoting oli: maybe the suicide rate is so high because there all delusional ...???? or is it just her...? |
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21 Aug 2006 Mon 06:30 pm |
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21 Aug 2006 Mon 11:24 pm |
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22 Aug 2006 Tue 10:42 am |
Yeah, There are so many girls around here who are actually thát young, and having kids.. it's terrible to see!
Most of them are covered in tattoo's and piercings as well.. I do like those things, but I'd rather see some white skin as well :-/.
I'm also really worried about my brother getting into that things.. Life is too short to waste it like this! Especially in Holland it's too easy to waste your life. He doesn't even need someone to go with him to get some drugs, he just has to walk in and ask for it!
EEKS!
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22 Aug 2006 Tue 11:15 am |
just because they have tatoos and have peircing doesnt mean that they arent good parents
never judge a book by its cover its quite sad that u think that way
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22 Aug 2006 Tue 11:52 am |
Quoting gezbelle: miss_ceyda, have just caught up on this post.
i hope u are doing ok. no one should be put through something like this.
also, had a look on those website links u gave, in my honest opinion, those girls look like skanks
the question i wanna know is... where are their parents? |
You will never believe who that main tart's mother is.. or should I say.. what her occupation is...
She works at the school I have just finished, as a special "teacher for children who cant help themselves"..
What a joke.. Look at the irony.... haha omg...
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22 Aug 2006 Tue 11:58 am |
Quoting oli: Quoting miss_ceyda: Quoting oli: lovely fairy tale u have going on maybe you should look into getting it published ?? |
whatever... inandırmak zorunda değilim canım..
and another thing, "need help talking to turkish people" pah.. u really think ur gonna get any help with an attitude like this? vlla ya hayret bşisin... hehe |
ahhhh the world through teenagers eyes ....... so imaginative..... |
So are all of these incidents also, how shall I put it, "imagined" or exaggerated by my parents, and the neighbours, and my friends (most of which have children my age), the teachers and the police force??
Do you think that they are all delusional too or just little me???
Allahım ya... Kendine gel... Hayret dmi arkdaşlar...omg..
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22 Aug 2006 Tue 12:00 pm |
just you darling just you
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22 Aug 2006 Tue 12:02 pm |
Quoting SineNomine: Quoting oli: lovely fairy tale u have going on maybe you should look into getting it published ??
ahhhh the world through teenagers eyes ....... so imaginative..... |
Maybe you have forgotten what it is like to be young - or do you just take pleasure from ridiculing 16 year old girls? If you don't believe what Miss Ceyda is saying, then why comment? Don't you think she is going through enough right now without your sarcasm?
It is so easy to be smug and superior and forget what it feels like to be a teenager. It can be hell, and the suicide rate of teenagers in the UK has reached the highest level ever. You should be ashamed of yourself and your lack of compassion... |
Thank you for your understanding SineNomine, it really does mean a lot that people who I dont even know do actually care enough to stick up for me
Maybe our little friend here has forgotton what it is like to be a teenager, maybe so: thats possible. But why dont we all forget that.. Forget my age.. Lets just imagine then that I am 25-30 whatever.. But then hey.. does that actually make ANY difference whatsoever to how I am feeling...
I really doubt it...
And yes SineNomine this person should be ashamed of themself.. Im guessing that they are very much like these no hopers who are terrorising my home, otherwise who could say anything against what Im saying..??
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22 Aug 2006 Tue 12:05 pm |
Quoting oli: maybe the suicide rate is so high because there all delusional ...???? or is it just her...? |
There are lots of people who ARE delusional, WE ARE ALL AWARE OF THAT... not just teenagers...
But I dont really class myself as one of those although when you have found something to justify what you are saying I will admit it jnm And you can lock me up ok.. Hadi hadi işine bak şmdi... Bring us all back your proof oki
Omg.. Im actually guessing that this member is about 12... Olabilir mi arkdaşlar??
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22 Aug 2006 Tue 12:07 pm |
Quoting susie k: Just looked at their piccies aswell, its such a shame that these girls are wastingtheir lives doing this. They must be very stupid. I wouldn't be surprised if by the time they are 18 they've got a kid and a smack or crack habit. what a waste of life. |
HAHA are you kidding.. they didnt even wait for 16!!!
Most of them have babies themselves.. unbelievable I know...
And are drugged up most of the week... They were even asking my father for "Weed" the other week...
You are so right.. WASTE OF LIFE.. I would be so disappointed if I was God.
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22 Aug 2006 Tue 12:08 pm |
Quoting Chantal: Yeah, There are so many girls around here who are actually thát young, and having kids.. it's terrible to see!
Most of them are covered in tattoo's and piercings as well.. I do like those things, but I'd rather see some white skin as well :-/.
I'm also really worried about my brother getting into that things.. Life is too short to waste it like this! Especially in Holland it's too easy to waste your life. He doesn't even need someone to go with him to get some drugs, he just has to walk in and ask for it!
EEKS! |
Yes, I think you can even go into the Police Station and ask for it right?
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22 Aug 2006 Tue 12:11 pm |
Quoting oli: just because they have tatoos and have peircing doesnt mean that they arent good parents
never judge a book by its cover its quite sad that u think that way |
There is nothing wrong with tatoos and piercings when there is like, one or two..
But then think of it like this..
You are in Turkey, have a few tatoos and piercings.. and female... Imagine the reputation that you will earn yourself...
Even in England some people class this as very cheap...
And yah, dont ever ever judge a book by its cover.. Ah there was silly "teenage" me thinking that the way a person represents themself shows what kind of a person they are...
Im guessing thats delusional too? hehe
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22 Aug 2006 Tue 12:22 pm |
ummmm she is too pure to lie here dude..pls believe her...
kiz simdi mutlu oldunmu ? hehhe nassin? ben surunuom buralarda
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22 Aug 2006 Tue 12:31 pm |
Quoting ramayan: ummmm she is too pure to lie here dude..pls believe her...
kiz simdi mutlu oldunmu ? hehhe nassin? ben surunuom buralarda |
thanks ramayan fena değilm sn nslsın.. n zmndan beri görüşemioz ya!!
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22 Aug 2006 Tue 12:39 pm |
AND THEN LAST NIGHT.. SOMETHING ELSE HAPPENED...
IT WAS AROUND MIDNGHT :S (IM GUESSING THIS LOOKS REALLY MADE UP NOW.. I WOULD THINK SO)
anyway we saw some young guy literally running all around our house.. basically circling it!! :S babam went out after him and he ran back into a house... which turns out to be the same house another guy ran back into a few weeks ago after doing the same thing!!
Anyway, there we are again.. my mum totally freaking out... Me again getting stomach pains coz I cant take s**t like this.. and my poor dad out in the street, my 12 year old brother going after him trying to be brave..
And then we pushed the panic button again! And then the police arrived.. again..
And they walked up to the house where this weirdo went back into and then came back.. When they came back they said that on the way to the house they had informed the main police officer who is dealing with this case and he had told these two officers to STAY AWAY FROM THAT HOUSE, DONT EVEN KNOCK ON THE DOOR as its UNDER INVESTIGATION...
how weird is that... its getting like stranger every day you know :'(
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22 Aug 2006 Tue 12:54 pm |
Quoting miss_ceyda: Quoting SineNomine: Quoting oli: lovely fairy tale u have going on maybe you should look into getting it published ??
ahhhh the world through teenagers eyes ....... so imaginative..... |
Maybe you have forgotten what it is like to be young - or do you just take pleasure from ridiculing 16 year old girls? If you don't believe what Miss Ceyda is saying, then why comment? Don't you think she is going through enough right now without your sarcasm?
It is so easy to be smug and superior and forget what it feels like to be a teenager. It can be hell, and the suicide rate of teenagers in the UK has reached the highest level ever. You should be ashamed of yourself and your lack of compassion... |
Thank you for your understanding SineNomine, it really does mean a lot that people who I dont even know do actually care enough to stick up for me
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Yaa.. Ablası... thank you for your understanding.
Ehi!
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22 Aug 2006 Tue 01:32 pm |
Quoting miss_ceyda: Thank you for your understanding SineNomine, it really does mean a lot that people who I dont even know do actually care enough to stick up for me
Maybe our little friend here has forgotton what it is like to be a teenager, maybe so: thats possible. But why dont we all forget that.. Forget my age.. Lets just imagine then that I am 25-30 whatever.. But then hey.. does that actually make ANY difference whatsoever to how I am feeling...
I really doubt it...
And yes SineNomine this person should be ashamed of themself.. Im guessing that they are very much like these no hopers who are terrorising my home, otherwise who could say anything against what Im saying..?? |
Miss Ceyda, I hope you did not misunderstand me. I would never patronise someone because of their age. The reason I suggested 'Oli' may have forgotten what it is like to be a teenager, is because it can be such a traumatic time of bullying and cruel behaviour which, thankfully, you see less of as you get older. Believe me, I would be terrified if such a thing were happening to me. Take care x
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22 Aug 2006 Tue 02:32 pm |
Quoting SineNomine: Quoting miss_ceyda: Thank you for your understanding SineNomine, it really does mean a lot that people who I dont even know do actually care enough to stick up for me
Maybe our little friend here has forgotton what it is like to be a teenager, maybe so: thats possible. But why dont we all forget that.. Forget my age.. Lets just imagine then that I am 25-30 whatever.. But then hey.. does that actually make ANY difference whatsoever to how I am feeling...
I really doubt it...
And yes SineNomine this person should be ashamed of themself.. Im guessing that they are very much like these no hopers who are terrorising my home, otherwise who could say anything against what Im saying..?? |
Miss Ceyda, I hope you did not misunderstand me. I would never patronise someone because of their age. The reason I suggested 'Oli' may have forgotten what it is like to be a teenager, is because it can be such a traumatic time of bullying and cruel behaviour which, thankfully, you see less of as you get older. Believe me, I would be terrified if such a thing were happening to me. Take care x |
ah canım.. i didnt misunderstand you dont worry.. i was just adding to your point
Thank you
u take care 2
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22 Aug 2006 Tue 06:05 pm |
Quoting miss_ceyda: AND THEN LAST NIGHT.. SOMETHING ELSE HAPPENED...
IT WAS AROUND MIDNGHT :S (IM GUESSING THIS LOOKS REALLY MADE UP NOW.. I WOULD THINK SO)
anyway we saw some young guy literally running all around our house.. basically circling it!! :S babam went out after him and he ran back into a house... which turns out to be the same house another guy ran back into a few weeks ago after doing the same thing!!
Anyway, there we are again.. my mum totally freaking out... Me again getting stomach pains coz I cant take s**t like this.. and my poor dad out in the street, my 12 year old brother going after him trying to be brave..
And then we pushed the panic button again! And then the police arrived.. again..
And they walked up to the house where this weirdo went back into and then came back.. When they came back they said that on the way to the house they had informed the main police officer who is dealing with this case and he had told these two officers to STAY AWAY FROM THAT HOUSE, DONT EVEN KNOCK ON THE DOOR as its UNDER INVESTIGATION...
how weird is that... its getting like stranger every day you know :'( |
YOUR RIGHT NOW IT REALLY DOES SOUND MADE UP HAHAHAH WHAT PAGE IS THIS ON??
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23 Aug 2006 Wed 06:15 am |
Don't you have restraining orders in England?
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24 Aug 2006 Thu 11:15 am |
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25 Aug 2006 Fri 06:27 pm |
And now guess what has happened..!!
My mum has just gone out to the car and come back and said that our lock has been broken!!!
It looks as though they have used a screw driver or such to try and break into the car but couldnt..?
We have just called the police again and informed them...
Ah looks like we have to dish out some more money to pay for another lock..
And I really dont know how they could have done that.. We have 3 CCTV cameras up ya know..!!
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25 Aug 2006 Fri 08:28 pm |
I'm really curious.. why aren't you just moving? You could sell your house and move to any other place in the country? If they are really terrorizing you like this, then it doesn't even matter anymore that you have to go to another school right?
oh, but isn't your family planning to move back to Turkey? Any idea when that's going to happen?
All the best wishes from me!
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25 Aug 2006 Fri 08:48 pm |
I don't think it's that simple. Presumably they have to live near to Miss Ceyda's father's workplace - and if they move somewhere nearby the problem would just follow them. Also, it would be very difficult to sell a house with this history. In England you have to declare any problems or disputes you have had with your neighbours when you sell you house (true!) and the housing market is very slow right now as it is (I should know ). Also - why should they be driven from their home?
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26 Aug 2006 Sat 06:22 pm |
Yesterday we had a crazy kid come down the road with a BREAD KNIFE to try and kill my father :'(
My dad got away with minor injury to his arm and the boy was arrested, and to my knowledge is still in custody...
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26 Aug 2006 Sat 06:27 pm |
That is horrible miss_ceyda,like living in a movie,
But i don't understand,why do they do such things with you ?
What do they want from you ?
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26 Aug 2006 Sat 10:41 pm |
I wonder what I am more shocked with: the fact that the terrible things go on and that the English police doesn't seem to do a shit about it, or the disrespectful and insulting comments of 'Oli'?
Ceyda, merak etme. Herşey daha iyi olacak. Seni güzel bir hayat bekliyor
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26 Aug 2006 Sat 11:15 pm |
Only this week we have the case of the young man who was attacked and knifed by a gang of youths seven months ago in East London and the police did very little. On Monday he was shot dead outside his home.
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26 Aug 2006 Sat 11:59 pm |
well, none of us really know what they want from us but we're guessing that they just wnt to kick us out..?
and now im thnkng that maybe i do know why this all started..!!
one day i was walkng down the corridor at school, and im not one of those girls who has to have one of their friends go everywhere with them, if i need a piss for eg ill go to the toilet myself.. anyway i thnk i was going to get a bottle of water and there was a group of these bitches just standng in the middle of the corridor as i walked through the double doors..
theyw udnt move so i had to brng myself to actualli speak to the things... i very politely said "excuse me please" and then they started to laugh at me and call me a "posh bitch" and were just copyng my voice....?? i thnk i have ytold u guys this before but now im thnkng that this may have been the first incident..
and look how far it has come...
i too, dont know what is worst though... is it the police not doing as much as they could, the CPS for not accpting half of the cases which happen in this country or maybe the schools fault for lettng it come this far when i even told them it was going to!! or maybe just me... maybe i did sound too "posh" for james hornsby high school in laindon essex.. a town full of chavs and me in the middle saying "xcuse me please" haha quite funny actually.. i shoulda said , " move ya ass bitch"
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27 Aug 2006 Sun 12:11 am |
Quoting miss_ceyda: and me in the middle saying "xcuse me please" haha quite funny actually.. i shoulda said , " move ya ass bitch"  |
haha yeah thats more like there language then u would be expecting a slap in the face because you spoke to them wrong!! u cant win around here with the girls its like it at my school too, u can never win your either speakin to them like crap and you get hit or you r polite to them and ur to posh!! its a shithole i remeber girls spoke to me lyk it before becus i asked them in the same way 'excuse me please' and they wer rude.
im sorry for the trouble your gettin!! there are some disrespect ful people!! i hope it gets sorted and i hope even more that you get to move to turkiye in the end!
just think in like 10 years time when you have a well good job and living in turkey they will have like 4 kids and on the doel!! girls these days are so immature!
I really hope your family and ur dad is ok!
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27 Aug 2006 Sun 12:31 pm |
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27 Aug 2006 Sun 07:53 pm |
Please keep your disrespectful ideas to yourself.
If you are really so desperate to share ideas that nobody really needs to hear, I'd really appreciate it if you'd watch your vocabulary a bit.
Edit: obviously my message was meant for Oli. Just in case someone might get confused
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28 Aug 2006 Mon 01:32 pm |
Quoting miss_ceyda: I would also like to know why Erdinç is ALLOWING these kind of comments in this thread when he actually deleted my posts which were not even of this nature!!! Hayret valla... |
Do you think that this post should be deleted? Well, I didn't hear you saying anything about this post:
'...u can never win your either speakin to them like shit and you get hit or you r polite to them and ur to posh!! its a shithole ... so i just turned round and said 'look if u got a fucking problem then just fuck off im not hurting anyone' hehe they never looked at me again!
...there are some assholes!!.... '
(Note that I have no problem at all with this way of speaking. I swear worse when I m in trouble)
Now...I can understand that you are worried and scared but since you post your personals here (like we all do) you should be ready to accept the bad comments as well. It's everybody's right to believe your story or not.
And every negative post, shouldn't be deleted just because it's not what you would like to hear.
I hope you ll get out of this trouble soon and your life will get back to normal again. Or, according to Oli, I hope you ll wake up soon. Whatever it is...geçmiş olsun!
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28 Aug 2006 Mon 01:46 pm |
Quoting sophie: Quoting miss_ceyda: I would also like to know why Erdinç is ALLOWING these kind of comments in this thread when he actually deleted my posts which were not even of this nature!!! Hayret valla... |
Do you think that this post should be deleted? Well, I didn't hear you saying anything about this post:
'...u can never win your either speakin to them like shit and you get hit or you r polite to them and ur to posh!! its a shithole ... so i just turned round and said 'look if u got a fucking problem then just fuck off im not hurting anyone' hehe they never looked at me again!
...there are some assholes!!.... ' |
This post was explaining somthng which had happened OUTSIDE OF TC and there was no offence to any of the TC members, so persnally I believe that it doesnt need to be deleted..
Posts which are againts TC members however, which involve what I would class as abuse, should be deleted..
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28 Aug 2006 Mon 01:49 pm |
Wake up? I bet you wish you could eh Miss Ceyda. If only it WAS all a dream eh?
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28 Aug 2006 Mon 02:04 pm |
I think it is about time the post was blocked - some of the postings are so insulting and amount to verbal abuse of this young girl.
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28 Aug 2006 Mon 02:06 pm |
Quoting libralady: I think it is about time the post was blocked - some of the postings are so insulting and amount to verbal abuse of this young girl. |
Yes it must be so comforting for Miss Ceyda - not only is she bullied and abused at home, but on this website also.
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28 Aug 2006 Mon 02:14 pm |
Quoting aenigma x: Quoting libralady: I think it is about time the post was blocked - some of the postings are so insulting and amount to verbal abuse of this young girl. |
Yes it must be so comforting for Miss Ceyda - not only is she bullied and abused at home, but on this website also. |
Dont worry really, lets just ignore all the posts that need to be ignored... They are not important and really arent worth the time of day to even read
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28 Aug 2006 Mon 02:45 pm |
Quoting miss_ceyda: Quoting aenigma x: Quoting libralady: I think it is about time the post was blocked - some of the postings are so insulting and amount to verbal abuse of this young girl. |
Yes it must be so comforting for Miss Ceyda - not only is she bullied and abused at home, but on this website also. |
Dont worry really, lets just ignore all the posts that need to be ignored... They are not important and really arent worth the time of day to even read  |
You are really right, but the post was just not acceptable as it was so disrespectful. Sophie is right that whenever you post your personal life public, you should take the consequences of the reactions. But no one should talk rude or disrespectful to another member.
I was annoyed by the 'fucked' and 'shitty' post too, because I don't like that way of talking. But it was no rude attack on someone personally.
The reason Erdinç didn't delete it, is because he is no longer a moderator in the off-topic forums. You have to turn to admin or bod to get it done, as they are the mods on this forum.
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29 Aug 2006 Tue 05:44 pm |
OK, thats all fine with me
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29 Aug 2006 Tue 11:38 pm |
My appologies for not doing anything about the disrespectful and downright rude comments that have been made by one individual. I was on holiday - but have now deleted that post and all posts that quoted it.
Please be aware that I do not read all posts made to this forum so if you believe that a post needs moderating, please send me a PM and I will take a look.
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30 Aug 2006 Wed 11:44 pm |
I agree with you oli!i may be wrong and appolagize if i am but its so unrealistic!do you live in dreams or something?its like me saying i saw a blue pig today flying past my window it made a rainbow then threw gold at me and then an angel came and granted me three wishes!!!!!!!!if im wrong my sympathy is with you but to me its like one of the books iv just read and i wouldnt usualy comment but i have actualy just read a book the same!!!!!!!!
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31 Aug 2006 Thu 12:11 am |
Quoting canse: i may be wrong and appolagize if i am |
apology accepted then. thank you
of course a lot of it does sound unbelievable, because it is truly horrendous how "humans" can really act like this.. sometimes i wonder myself if this really is life you know... what a place...
look guys, for those who dont believe me.. im gonna learn how to show a picture in your post.. so i can show you the broken window.. the smashed door.. all the blood up the road...?
would that make you feel better oli?
the pictures do disturb me and i havent looked at them for a long time for that reason.. but i will try my best just for you... ^o)
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31 Aug 2006 Thu 12:29 am |
Ops sorry posted that twice. I hate this laptop mouse - I WANT MY PC BACK FROM REPAIR !
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31 Aug 2006 Thu 12:34 am |
I think if you ever saw the pictures of the girls and especially the boys in question, you would believe, they have made a gang, and it's clear that they don't have much morals and they are very slang. I wouldn't want to share a moment with them.
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31 Aug 2006 Thu 12:39 am |
OK GUYS HERE ARE A FEW PICTURES OF SOME OF THE DAMAGE TO THE HOUSE..
IT DOESNT EXPLAIN AT ALL THOUGH, THE DAMAGE WE HAVE SUFFERED PERSONALLY...
TIKLAYIN
I WONDER IF I DREAMED THE WINDOW AND DOOR TOO... OR.. HAVE YOU ALSO BECOME DELUSIONAL??
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31 Aug 2006 Thu 01:57 am |
miss..........
i appolagize for the unthoughtful message i sent earlier i have just read through all of the posts and realized i am wrong i can actualy see this happening in england i mean we let terrorists in and wonder whats happening when we get blown up!
sorry and my thoughts are with you...............cansexx
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31 Aug 2006 Thu 03:44 am |
prenses... i don't think u should have posted that on a forum. i think u will get this post deleted.
if you have any problems with miss ceyda, please private message her and not post it on the forum.
thanks.
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31 Aug 2006 Thu 11:46 am |
Quoting gezbelle: prenses... i don't think u should have posted that on a forum. i think u will get this post deleted.
if you have any problems with miss ceyda, please private message her and not post it on the forum.
thanks.
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Well-said Gezbelle.
I'm amazed that new members fire off this way to members that have been here for such a long time. It seems like they seriously have a problem themselves, as they spend their time trying to make everybody believe Ceyda is lying.
Prenses, what a huuuge story you wrote. Don't you think it is a waste of your time trying to convince people who know Ceyda for a long time, when you actually don't believe the story ányway?
And about being decent, your story was everything bút decent.
Nobody here is judging ALL the people who get pregnant young or have an abortion, though I think one should take the responsibility nót to get pregnant. If you're mature enough to actually have sex, you should be mature enough to deal with the consequences. But these are just my thoughts.
Young pregnancy, in many (not all) cases, shows a lack of responsibility among young girls who live in situations like Ceyda described. This doesn't necessarily mean that all young mothers are irresponsible or have a bad homesituation in which their parents don't raise them well in healthy behavior. Please don't mix up two things. No one here judges people from young pregnancy. But combined with Ceyda's story, we all have a fair point of view.
If you expect any help from members on this website, Prenses, start treating them with decency.
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31 Aug 2006 Thu 11:59 am |
This thread has become one huge slanging match and I for one would be pleased to see it closed.
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31 Aug 2006 Thu 01:06 pm |
Quoting libralady: This thread has become one huge slanging match and I for one would be pleased to see it closed. |
Yes - I agree......
I have given the matter much thought over night and have decided to lock the thread as it is serving no purpose other than to generate bad feelings.
TC is about positive community and this thread is now anything but positive.
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