certainly...same here...

dont be fooled by the romacing of the turkish man. ask some people who have been married to a turkish man over here for a while, ask them what its like really. im sure they will all tell you the same if they are honest.

Hi xkirstyx you seem to know? So, what's it really like? And is it like this for everyone? Or do some of us 'westerners' find eternal happiness with Turkish men?
Is it true that we are just amenities & conviniences after marriage or is that very narrow thinking? I don't mean to offend anyone - there are bad people everywhere but it just seems from talking to other woman there are definate problems linked to what? Culture? Conditioning? - probably it cuts both ways? But it just seems so many woman seem unhappy after marrying Turkish men.

i will talk to you in private about it if you like but not on here. ok