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Dear Girls......I need your advise
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27 Sep 2006 Wed 12:50 am |
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If you are already pregnant then there are just the two choices which you have already discussed above. If it was me I would have the baby regardless of circumstances because I could not bear to get rid of a child.
One thing you dont mention is how old you both are.
In an ideal world, it is not good to be a single parent. It will be difficult in many ways and more difficult in some cultures than others. For instance, in the UK there are so many unmarried mothers with not just the one child but several. It is not good for society.
What ever you decided I wish you luck. Take care.
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27 Sep 2006 Wed 03:44 am |
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Quoting teaschip: If you decide to have an abortion, you need to be prepared to live with this the rest of your life. However, remember this decision needs to be made by you. You can't bank on a man being by your side and help raising this child. Not that your boyfriend won't, but you will be responsible for raising this child with or without him. QUOTE]
İ totaly agree with teaschip on this point,you will have to live with both decisions for the rest of your life,
So you must give it a good thought,
Wish you all the best. |
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27 Sep 2006 Wed 08:30 am |
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Dear Girls, Thank you for your all advise. I'm on my way to decide. this situation is hard and sensitive, hurt but more see the truth thing in this life.
You might wondering why I post and told about my story here, but pls belive me. for this moment I'm not dare to tell anyone around me now. 'til I decide what I want.
Now I'm about 33year and my boyfriend 27year. If I have the baby, I cant have him and if I want him, I cant have baby that what I have to choose.
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