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Finally booked a holiday to Kadir ;)
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09 Jun 2006 Fri 06:20 pm |
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congratulations deli_kizin!!! im sure you will have a wonderful time, have a fantastic holiday wont ya 
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09 Jun 2006 Fri 06:47 pm |
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Why not Deli_kizin?
You are the luckiest person in TC, have your own thread, you can go there and tell us not only about new suitcase but many more things...
Good luck.
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09 Jun 2006 Fri 07:07 pm |
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I think you are very lucky to have so understanding parents. Probably there is not even a single example of Turkish parents who would let their doughter at your age to go on holiday with a boyfriend.
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09 Jun 2006 Fri 08:18 pm |
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First of all I can feel your happiness, to have both your family and boyfriend by your side and to spend nice time with them, have their love and support is the happiest thing.
And I agree with Erdinç, though I've heard young girls go on holiday with their boyfriends, but I don't know if all of the girls' parents know this, but together both with the parents and the boyfriend must be a very rare thing. I know my parents would let me if I asked them, but I can't help, I would be too embarassed to ask them such a thing, there would be a lot of questions (forexample where to sleep  ) I would prefer having a much closer relationship with them about this, but...
it should be the other way, the nicest, which is to be able to do somethings together with all your loved ones, your parents and boyfriend without feeling any embarassment,any guilt, without having to create lies, without feeling the need to be married.
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09 Jun 2006 Fri 09:49 pm |
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Quoting bliss: Why not Deli_kizin?
You are the luckiest person in TC, have your own thread, you can go there and tell us not only about new suitcase but many more things...
Good luck. |
Ohh crap yes I should've posted it there. Can't a moderator copy these messages to there
Thank you.
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09 Jun 2006 Fri 09:53 pm |
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Quoting erdinc: I think you are very lucky to have so understanding parents. Probably there is not even a single example of Turkish parents who would let their doughter at your age to go on holiday with a boyfriend. |
Yes I realize that too. But not really about the holiday thing though, more the fact that I"m all alone. Many of my friends go on holidays with their boyfriends. But it are boyfriends that are well-known by the family by the time they go on holiday.. So holidays to Turkey with boyfriends are accepted here, but not holidays to a bf in Turkey i guess. Especially not moving there. I realize each time what an understanding parents i have, eventhough they havent' said yes yet.
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09 Jun 2006 Fri 10:04 pm |
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Quoting mltm: First of all I can feel your happiness, to have both your family and boyfriend by your side and to spend nice time with them, have their love and support is the happiest thing.
And I agree with Erdinç, though I've heard young girls go on holiday with their boyfriends, but I don't know if all of the girls' parents know this, but together both with the parents and the boyfriend must be a very rare thing. I know my parents would let me if I asked them, but I can't help, I would be too embarassed to ask them such a thing, there would be a lot of questions (forexample where to sleep ) I would prefer having a much closer relationship with them about this, but...
it should be the other way, the nicest, which is to be able to do somethings together with all your loved ones, your parents and boyfriend without feeling any embarassment,any guilt, without having to create lies, without feeling the need to be married. |
Yes, I hope it can make them see why i love him so much and how happy we are when we spend time together and that we match. Also, I hope I can make them understand that, though Turkey is entirely different, that I can find my way there when I'm careful and have my eyes opened. I just want them to see why I love Turkey so much.
Well about the where to sleep... When Kadir was here, he ofcourse had his own bedroom. Because he was not a boyfriend really, more a 'special' guest. So he got my sisters bedroom, and she came on my room with me.
When i went to Turkey in february, his house-mate Gökhan left the appartment. But my parents picked up the idea that i would sleep in his bedroom. I never dared to tell them the truth actually. But i thought it's kinda weird. If you love each other you wanna sleep together, right? I'm not even talking sexually, but just that feeling of being together? Parents must have had that when they were young too. Always surprised when they seem to want to deny their children get those feeligns too.
I do feel a bit embarassment with my parents around. I don't have such a good contact with them, as I'm usually pretty close about what i feel. When Kadir went back to Türkiye, i didn't even dare to kiss him goodbye with my parents around  But i think i will get used to it soon during holiday.
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09 Jun 2006 Fri 11:05 pm |
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Wow, I'm a bit relieved now  A dutch girl experiences the same things as me
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