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In Love with Turkish Men?
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21 Aug 2006 Mon 02:04 pm |
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love doesn't see,colour,race or nationality.its easier to feel it when u find ur soul mate.and by more communication with other cultures,love's definition become different,and i believe that internet cahnging everythings on world,with good&bad sides,thats really a wonderfull bridge between different colours,races,beliefs and cultures...
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21 Aug 2006 Mon 06:59 pm |
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Quoting Enigma: It’s well known that they can’t treat Turkish girls the same way they treat western girls… |
Then they are not that caring and sweet and loving with the Turkish girls ?
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21 Aug 2006 Mon 10:22 pm |
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"they cant treat Turkish girls the same way they treat western girls…" why do you say so? is it true??....then how do they treat turkish girls? aren't we all "women" no matter where we come from?
Greetings.
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21 Aug 2006 Mon 10:43 pm |
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I can´t say I have to much experiences of turkish men...I have only been in Turkey two times and both times it has been in a quite extreme environment - the tourism industry of Alanya. I can´t say that I am impressed of what I have seen or heard when it comes to turkish men and love...but of course I don´t want to generalize and say that all turkish men are the same. But if you are interested to read about turkish men in the tourism industry I recommend this link:
Here are some examples...
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21 Aug 2006 Mon 10:55 pm |
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21 Aug 2006 Mon 11:13 pm |
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I am most definitely not the one to judge anyone...not the turkish boys nor the touristing women...but I do recommend everyone to not just let the heart (or should I say hormons?)  talk but also the brain to work! 
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21 Aug 2006 Mon 11:34 pm |
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21 Aug 2006 Mon 11:42 pm |
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21 Aug 2006 Mon 11:49 pm |
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Quoting christine_usa: Dear Aslan,
I hear your response quite clearly. I am not a 'hormone raging' , 'alcohol drinking' vacationer. I am a teacher. I came to Turkey to study contemporary Islamikc culture in a secular context, on scholarship.
Yes, I did extend my 3 week scholarship to vacation in the Mediterranean. But I don't think I had blinders on completely.
I have to agree, sometimes, vacation, exotic smells and views on vacation lead one to fall in love. Of course!
But there is more than that. Really. I discovered a level of discourse, maturity, and intimacy in my Omer, that is generally void in the men of the USA.
By that I mean, he was articulate in stating his emotions, and clear in stating his wishes. He honored all of my boundaries (which were many)_. and really sought to know me.
So please- don't think every person falling in love is "mindless"
Regards,
Christine |
...oh, well...like I said...I am not the one to judge either way...really...don´t read what is not there, Christine! Anyone that knows me would describe me just as the 'hormone raging' , 'alcohol drinking' vacationer.
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22 Aug 2006 Tue 12:24 am |
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Quoting Aslan: I can´t say I have to much experiences of turkish men...I have only been in Turkey two times and both times it has been in a quite extreme environment - the tourism industry of Alanya. I can´t say that I am impressed of what I have seen or heard when it comes to turkish men and love...but of course I don´t want to generalize and say that all turkish men are the same. But if you are interested to read about turkish men in the tourism industry I recommend this link:
Here are some examples... |
I actually find these sites repulsive - especially the naming and shaming ones. Sometimes the ladies forget they are really the ones who need to be named and shamed. Serial Turkish boyfriend collectors!! 
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22 Aug 2006 Tue 01:26 am |
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Quoting christine_usa: Dear Aslan,
I hear your response quite clearly. I am not a 'hormone raging' , 'alcohol drinking' vacationer. I am a teacher. I came to Turkey to study contemporary Islamikc culture in a secular context, on scholarship.
Yes, I did extend my 3 week scholarship to vacation in the Mediterranean. But I don't think I had blinders on completely.
I have to agree, sometimes, vacation, exotic smells and views on vacation lead one to fall in love. Of course!
But there is more than that. Really. I discovered a level of discourse, maturity, and intimacy in my Omer, that is generally void in the men of the USA.
By that I mean, he was articulate in stating his emotions, and clear in stating his wishes. He honored all of my boundaries (which were many)_. and really sought to know me.
So please- don't think every person falling in love is "mindless"
Regards,
Christine |
Christine,
I can vouch Turkish men are just like American,German, Italian etc... Maybe you just haven't met the right American men. Regardless, you seem to have met a good Turkish man. Maybe it's the challenge all together that makes someone more appealing from another country. The challenge to learn their language, culture etc... Just a thought..
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