well femmeous,that is another post will be deleted...sorry

Dont worry,other mods will see it and would judge if im being fair or not

Ýts not about me,i wouldnt have deleted,but other members

You can pm them saying what you like,but not here. 

 Ãyi geceler Trudy

Of course you are entitled to your opinion!

 But ,i fail to understand you,do you want it to be dealt with on member´s own,an eye for an eye ,or do you want it under moderation ?!

Ý gave you both that space,and when things started getting out of hand,i deleted troubled one!

But anyway,you dont like my moderating !

When i first deleted your post,i informed admin,mods ,so i dont twist anything actually

And i left si++ posts untouched because i saw that you were offensive to him in a previous post and he replied

When you complained,i deleted all,yours ,his that not relevant to the topic

 Why am i not surprised

Actually no AE,in other cases,i wouldnt reply,and end it actually

But i guess its a good chance for other to know how things work,how do we think and try to judge things

What are the problems that we have here and in between us.

So hopfully there would be better understanding between us,mods/admins/members and not cause big problems later

Thats why i took the time to reply

 When you post offensive post,and other replies,and the story ends..i dont interfere of course unless they were a swearwords

But when the story didnt end,at that time,i try to delete the troubled posts and leave the others

When you complained that i havent deleted your opponents other post,i had to delete all the posts,yours/his relevent to that discussion,if you had noticed that.

Not all your posts were deleted at first,but at the end,all irrelevant posts to the topic been deleted.

Ýts not a personal matter dear femmeous as you wish to put it,and with deleting the posts,mods around/admin be informed,and discussed also if can before deleting

 Not because we had worest insults,swearwords,troubled posts,that would make it ok !

 Already replied to this above.

 The rule says,and what we used to do,is deleting the post without any explanation given,if you remember that what used to happen

And when/if members complains via pm´s then give the reasons

That happened with me more than one time as member

So instead we pm first ask to modify the troubled thing,that would be our first step

Ýf it hasnt been modified,yes we delete

Ý deleted his troubled post...he didnt like it and deleted all his posts...yes its his personal choice not my choice.

 OMG,i havent see all those...

Basically,i dont have to explain myself,or my reasons for deleting a post or not to anyone

But here...first.

Rule no.9

Personal attacks or insults directed towards other users will not be tolerated. Basically if you don´t have anything nice to say then just don´t say it all. If somebody posts an insulting comment do not reply to it. It will only result in starting a flame-war

Ý consider it personal attack and insult specially in handsom and armegon case,with their unfriendly history

And it also would lead to a flame war.