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I would say, there are so many old-fashioned couples where husband is the king of the family for all intents and purposes. Contrary to what you may expect, in some cases even spouses being university graduates does not change the brutal treatment wives receive from their "primitive" husbands. Many of those are arranged marriages with the families of both spouses getting involved in every aspect of the relationship. It is a sad story the gravity of which can only be truely appreciated by those who live it.
old-fashioned couples,and arranged marriages are not to blame.
Ãn my grandfather´s time,and even before it,the woman was the queen of the house,and her husband was the king.
He used even to call his wife name and add the title Haným out of respect,and note that Turkish is not our language,so the title haným to us is like being called Lady..X for example
And at those times,all marriaged were arranged,and the elders get involve in every aspect of it.
So i dont think those are or can be elements of the problem,but the problem is in the personality of those men,and how did they brought up,and how they bringing up the second generation.
So in my opinion,women has great responsibilities in correcting things by giving the right ethics to the coming generation on condition..that
They know,believe,understand the stiuation they are living is NOT the normal and things SHOULD/MUST be not like that !
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