esmer- olive skinned

zayiflik- weakness

thanks nat
inanilmaz- unbelievable

opps sorry

opps sorry

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nohut- chickpea

mendil- hankerchief

i like lyndie have three sons and one of them is gay.yes at first i was upset not for my self but for him he was very brave and extremley honest with me , but it has been very hard for him at thats why i feel sad for him. he was only 16 when he told me , and like lyndie i always knew he was different compared to my other sons .they also had to learn to except him for his differences, and i feel the both have a very mature attitude towards it , they say its a bit strange having a gay brother but he is still their brother. i would say the only person in my family that is still struggling with this is my husband sometimes he cant even look at his own son and this tears me apart , i have to support both of them at times and i feel a bit like piggy in the middle,but because i love them both i to have to try and understand their differences between them. this is now four years on and i hope one day that my son and his father can become friends again.

thanks mltm everyone here so quick to help others but thanks to everyone i know have plenty to study