you're right cyrano. My fear keeps me from developing one.

I was wondering, have you by any chance able to keep one?

Maybe, as Im pondering the idea more, one theory that could be looked at is attraction could come first between a man and woman and then being aware of their respective values and limitations they would both realize that they could only be friends.

However, keeping the friendship well, pure and healhty is another concern.

I have many girl friends. But I have never really tried developing friendship with a guy. Not even one I think. I dont know, Im afraid maybe.

However, Im always trying to speculate that this is possible without developing any further or intimate relationship in the future. Yes, I believe so.

Met several guys - work, meetings, everywhere but relating to them is only just skin deep. I always think - guys will never spend time with some women if they dont have any attraction or feeling towards them. So if I cant develop real one - forget it!

But Im still hopeful that one day this thing / this speculation would come into reality.

I hope....

Its good all your perception about turkish people were nice. I had a chance to meet one but unfortunately I had an unfavorable encounter. Hope my perception about turkish guy would change.