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				 04 Oct 2007 Thu 07:12 am | 
			 
			
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	 Quoting Leelu:     I hope this one doesn't offend anyone, but I am curious, is it just me or are there others who find that certain men (cough) are very moody? when I say moody I mean, pouty, always want their own way, and do not fight fair? 
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 Yes, it's not just you!   Men in general are moody a lot - it's because of their hormones (ex: viney). Of course it's not just Turkish males, though Turkish males show it differently (but also Turkish females are much more 'emotional' then American females). In general, I like the fact that Turkish males are more emotionally expressive then American males, I think it makes them mentally healthier and less passive-aggressive.  
 I wouldn't just say pouty and don't fight fair, but also just plain moody.  		
		
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				 04 Oct 2007 Thu 05:59 pm | 
			 
			
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	I disagree with you both.  I think there are some people who are moody and some who are not.  I don't think it has anything to do with male/female or turkish/non-turkish.  I think temperment is something that is hardwired into your brain regardless of where or who you are.  I know my husband is always very mellow and almost never looses his temper or gets upset.  Me, on the other hand -lets just say I am the opposite.   		 
		
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				 04 Oct 2007 Thu 07:19 pm | 
			 
			
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	I didn't say anything contradictory to what you said, however - it is important to realize that men show their moodiness slightly differently then women do - in more socially acceptable ways. If you take it into account, men and women are moody to very similar extents.		 
		
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				 04 Oct 2007 Thu 07:28 pm | 
			 
			
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	 Quoting catwoman: Yes, it's not just you!   Men in general are moody a lot - it's because of their hormones  |  
  
 
 I agree with you of course, that everyone is moody to a different and individual degree. But I am glad to hear that men also may have hormones which affect them! Instead of this being always only attributed to women...		
		
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				 04 Oct 2007 Thu 08:46 pm | 
			 
			
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	 Quoting femme_fatal: where is trudy?    our "men" specialist   
 she definitely would have said more on this    |  
  
 
 Hey, you are giving me much more credit than I deserve! I'm not a 'specialist', I just know more about men than I know about cars (which is zero)...!
 
 But femme, I think you are the right person to start a course of several lessons about 'men and their behaviour'. I think you'll be a wonderful teacher!!!  		
		
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				 04 Oct 2007 Thu 09:01 pm | 
			 
			
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	 Quoting Trudy: Quoting femme_fatal: where is trudy?    our "men" specialist   
 she definitely would have said more on this    |  
  
 
 Hey, you are giving me much more credit than I deserve! I'm not a 'specialist', I just know more about men than I know about cars (which is zero)...!
 
 But femme, I think you are the right person to start a course of several lessons about 'men and their behaviour'. I think you'll be a wonderful teacher!!!   |  
  
 
 We can call her class, "The Truth about Men".  We can have beginner, intermediate and advanced classes!  I don't think I would pass though but it would be fun to watch.   Femme - I need help...I still love men so!		
		
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				 04 Oct 2007 Thu 09:05 pm | 
			 
			
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	 Quoting Elisabeth: 
 Femme - I need help...I still love men so!  |  
  
 
    hmmm.... let us think    girl you re in a great trouble    we should help you to get you out of that disease!  but how?   
 		
		
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				 04 Oct 2007 Thu 09:08 pm | 
			 
			
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	 Quoting Elisabeth:  I need help...I still love men so!  |  
  
 ask alameda   she knows everything! but dont fall asleep while reading her advise   her boring long posts!    		
		
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				 04 Oct 2007 Thu 09:12 pm | 
			 
			
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	 Quoting femme_fatal: Quoting Elisabeth: 
 Femme - I need help...I still love men so!  |  
  
 
    hmmm.... let us think    girl you re in a great trouble    we should help you to get you out of that disease!  but how?   
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 I feel like I just joined one of those support groups, "My name is Elisabeth, and I love men....."
 
 I am just hopeless!!		
		
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				 04 Oct 2007 Thu 09:17 pm | 
			 
			
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	 Quoting Elisabeth: We can call her class, "The Truth about Men".  We can have beginner, intermediate and advanced classes!  I don't think I would pass though but it would be fun to watch.   Femme - I need help...I still love men so!  |  
  
 
 Are the levels based on what a student knows or about what she can handle? 		
		
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				 04 Oct 2007 Thu 09:40 pm | 
			 
			
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	 Quoting Elisabeth: 
 
 I am just hopeless!!  |  
  
 and im helpless!  		
		
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				 04 Oct 2007 Thu 09:41 pm | 
			 
			
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	 Quoting Trudy: Quoting Elisabeth: We can call her class, "The Truth about Men".  We can have beginner, intermediate and advanced classes!  I don't think I would pass though but it would be fun to watch.   Femme - I need help...I still love men so!  |  
  
 
 Are the levels based on what a student knows or about what she can handle?  |  
  
 she? me?  		
		
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				 04 Oct 2007 Thu 09:45 pm | 
			 
			
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	 Quoting femme_fatal: she? me?    |  
  
 
 No dear, that innocent student that you'll teach....		
		
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				 04 Oct 2007 Thu 09:47 pm | 
			 
			
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	 Quoting Elisabeth: 
 Femme - I need help...I still love men so!  |  
  
 
 This is my problem also!!   I still love men, is there anything that can be done to cure it?   
 is there a cure may have been a better question to ask ..  		
		
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				 04 Oct 2007 Thu 10:09 pm | 
			 
			
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	leelu & lisa
 do you love men (ina plurlas sense of them)? not a man? 
 if so, you must be maniacs    		 
		
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				 04 Oct 2007 Thu 11:31 pm | 
			 
			
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 Well, I for one have loved many men...just not at the same time.  I think the one I have now will be the last - I am getting lazy     		
		
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				 05 Oct 2007 Fri 12:18 am | 
			 
			
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	 Quoting Elisabeth: 
 Well, I for one have loved many men...just not at the same time.  I think the one I have now will be the last - I am getting lazy       |  
  
    		
		
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				 05 Oct 2007 Fri 07:36 am | 
			 
			
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	 Quoting Elisabeth: 
 Well, I for one have loved many men...just not at the same time.  I think the one I have now will be the last - I am getting lazy       |  
  
   I think that is my problem .. I'm getting lazy ..  		
		
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				 06 Oct 2007 Sat 12:43 pm | 
			 
			
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	 Quoting Elisabeth: 
 
 Well, I for one have loved many men...just not at the same time.  I think the one I have now will be the last - I am getting lazy       |  
  
 
 Loved or lusted??  Don't mistake the two!      I can't imagine life without one or the other!! (or both    )		
		
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				 06 Oct 2007 Sat 08:23 pm | 
			 
			
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 No. You are responsible this complete month, schedules have changed.		
		
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