how come turkish men fall in love so easly..why do they want to marry so quick..are they only after something from you or what is it ..

wow ,

1) they want to go abroad
2) they think every tourist r rich and make them rich, happsy etc etc..
3) they will have a goob job ..

4) or they fall in love as soon as see girls..

in that order?

or they r mad to do that...

well said

I think Pinky probably missed the word "some" turkish men fall in love easily! I can agree with her to some extent from some of the stories I have read on various other sites.
I have had experience of this but he was British. He was a complete pest and it was nearly a problem to get him to understand. In the end I just had to be cruel cos he just did not get the message. How can anyone love someone the first time they meet or am I just a cynic!

What about the Turkish girls then ? are they also fall in love so easy?

Or is that only in Turkey and not in another country because then they have a good job or something like that .

excellent observation chantal ,im impressed

I met a turkish guy on myspace and we had very intimate conversations,on MSN, and he later told me he loved me, I thought this to be true, until I found out he was saying the same thing to several other girls. I don't think this was because he is Turkish, it was because he is a GUY. They know to say what you want to hear. I have met several other turkish guys who are very good friends now, so don't assume because they say they are in love that it's because they are Turkish, it's because they are guys being guys. Girls can be the same way.....

thanks everyone for replying to me..i dont think turkish men are bad at all they are lovely people probably the most respectible people ive ever met..i am just trying to find out a bit ye no..i have been with a turkish bloke only for two weeks and he says he loves me,,but i cant understand so soon..we get on really well together and stuff but how do i no if to beleave him or not..tell me..thanks

Yes HomeSick, you read my thoughts.
I was just thinking to say same thing when started reading the thread. .
Love is something big which comes with time being together with the person you fall in love at first.
Turkish guys are romantic and passionate like every man in the world. I think in every nationality guys are same. Love is same everywhere I think. Why we just think about Turkish guys and not others.(maybe because this is TC?)
Yes there are many guys all over the world who is looking for the things Duskahvesi told (unfortunately it is true) but I hope they are exceptions.

to say and repead often i love you and to love really from deep of heart,both not the sameand we men mostly easy to say this magical 3 words,i think one of weak side we men's nature?

And somebody please move this thread to a proper section of the forum

seninle ayni fikirdeyim

opps not with that, but what you said before

It is ok to be on unproper thread.
We all get penalty soon. But I think it is not very bad thing we do here, just "translate" to the real language the meaning of "Love".
HomeSick, thank you for the compliment

Men think functionally, this is the most important point, I think...

Women are more interested in style, color, size, feeling etc.

For example;
Usually in Turkish houses, you can see a showcase cabinet. That is full of glasses, plates, spoons, forks etc. They are there in order to show you! The creator of this style is always women! I have never meet a man who have a showcase in his house full of plates, spoons etc. Because men think that they are to eat, not to show

By the way, in Turkish families, designers are mostly women! Men can live a house without a special design for style, but i am sure women cannot!!! I saw this in my mom too Even though everything is ok about their places, she always want a new challlange... I ask her why she wants a new design, she does not really have a logical reason. It is just about the style in her mind. My father never asks the reasons like: "why is this tv here, why not there?" or "why should we change the color of our room, it is good for me". Because he know that it is meaningless to ask anything about style to his wife He never asks... Immediately, he starts to action! If mom asks for a new color, he starts to make calculations about new paints, and other materials. He never offers a color, because he knows that it would not make sense for my mom

Another clear example;

No men want a flower as a gift, because flower is not functional...

Having a black, old and dirty tv (but works with many channels) is always preffered, instead of having a new, colorful, clean but just some (1 or a few) channels...(FOR MEN)(I think it is reverse for women)

One more thing to remember:
Red is a color to show itself, and women who want to show herself use it, but i don't think that men do the same...

Look at the numbers of styles of shoes which men have and women have...

How many types of clothes do men use? I think we can count them with our fingers.... But what about women?(I cannot count them sorry, do not ask me)

maybe I wrote some exaggregration, maybe something is depends on culture, lifestyle of the country etc. But that's the reality... If men wants to be good with their partners, they must shut their pretty mouths while the topic is style or color or another thing what is not linked directly with logic.

(by the way i am male)

Regards to caliptrix...

i want to ask, is this a species of men kind?

coz the things you said nearly not matching with me and my brother and my father

gifts are not sth that you recieve to use or work on it later...
its called only gift a flower, a stone, a leaf... whatever it is... we just use it to remember our memories, like a photo.

That was cynical. Good point 'homesick' about initial love and that growing as you are together. Also good point about American men (and women) being afraid of love and marriage. If an American guy or woman tells you he loves you after a few days, he is considered PSYCHO and you drop them immediately. Or you figure they are saying that to get you to have sex with them.
I let is slide for my fiance who said he loved me after about 6 days. Because he didn't have good English and a different culture. I have had a lot of trouble accepting that he really loves ME because he doesn't know me that well due to the language problems. He said he knows what he needs to to love me. That makes sense with what HOMESICK wrote. If both people have love for the other and patience and dedication, there is no reason a 'love at first sight' can't work. As long as both people end up being relatively healthy people (I mean mental health).

cato
donno why, but i prefer to socialize with men.
they are so much interesting in relationships, we can endlessly talk about politics, wars, economy, history, religions, cars, computers.
women are boring! they talk about shopping, disease, raising children, meals, cakes, detergents (vanish or domestos?)

no not really.. i prefer the things that u listed as men's topics

turkish men when fall in love so easly said
seni cok seviyorum , not i love you
cause the first very expressive

You seem to all miss the irony - if ALL these women agree, then surely it proves that ALL women are not boring and do not talk about domestic subjects, boyfriends or beauty products

Well I'm half and half to be honest. The elderly women I see that stop in stores and talk to each other talk about their kids, and about the house being a mess and what they plan to eat for dinner etc, where as the elderly men talk about how nice a certain country is and the obvious football! but they always find something new to talk about I think.

Like this elderly man was talking to me about Iraq and said he worked over there many years ago and that though the media post this "load of rubbish" making them (Arabs)sound like they are the devil's army etc when they are actually "some of the kindest people I have met on this Earth" which made me smile and then to make me laugh he said "also, the best thing is that they know how to look after old people like me"

But then there are some women I know that are like that too. One is a massive football fan and loves to get along with the blokes and have a good old chat and she really makes me laugh. So I think it's just a matter of who you know I suppose.

It's kind of funny that guys who do nill at home, see themselves as if they were in the center of the universe and only entertain themselves talking about politics or football all the time, cause they never did home shopping or were genuinely involved in their children's lives are being praised for it! It's a nightmare!