As of lately I have been seeing too many translation requests that are just too sad to read from too many women here with either boyfriends or husbands that have left them. I could only guess of course that all these men are turks and from the sound of most of them they are so cruel! What could make these men leave their loved ones and even some with children in such a way that these poor dears are so heart-broken that they can't seem to see the sun anymore?

If only there was a way to ease their pain and suffering I would gladly give them some kind of moral support. Believe me I have been there too and the sun does comes out and shines on you with hope. Remember this, no one is more important in this life then you are. So ladies take care of yourself and be strong.

Not just turks, all kind of men leave their gfs, they are cruel!! Sometimes I doubt if they have any heart.

Well I am new here and I agree...I look through the translations and there does seem to be a lot.

I've asked for my fair of translations but my husband is away doing his national service. That is hard enough sometimes but I hate to read of women who have just been abandoned. I can't imagine it. Hopefully there are a lot of strong women here who have a lot of support and can overcome this!

I think that often some of these people are not in serious relationships. They go all in for something that was already doomed. It's obvious that they don't even bother trying to learn the language. But there are some individuals whom I feel sorry for, who doesn't deserve the treatment they are getting, but I'm not going to mention any names.

Just wanted to say that it isn't all black and white.

Strangely enough women also leave their husbands and even children, but men dont tend to bleat about it so much.

Of course I also agree that there are men and some women all over the world that leave their loved ones in such a devastating way, but I was mostly surprised at the number of translation requests in TC about such men leaving their loved one. It's so sad

I agree that everything isn't simply black and white. Granted that some relationships may have started on shakey ground but it does not make the upset any less for these women (and of course men!).
I don't think you can judge whose in serious relationships and who isn't just from messageboards and you can't generalise. Whether these women were in doomed relationships from the start or not, they're still hurting and need some kind of support I feel.

Don't let your image get distorted: most relationships that you read about on this site started as holiday romances between two people who don't have a language in common and live miles apart. Those kind of relationships tend to expire quicker than others.

Exactly what I thought...it's a learning curve for them & an experience but quite a hard one. It's still sad to see the number of women asking for help on these boards no matter what kind of relationship they are in, or have been in. All we can do is answer any questions and send them good wishes!