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What kind of person would you fall in love with, if you ever did? Post Opinions!
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19 Sep 2007 Wed 05:18 am |
For me, to introduce this subject. If I were ever to fall in love with someone, he would most likely fall for a foreign man. Foreign men(I'm from USA so most other countries I mean when I say foreign) are more romantic, have a lot of good values, have respect, and many other things. Few are found in my meetings over here. Mainly the reason I do NOT believe in love any longer. Feel free to ask me more, and ad all your own info and opinions of course.
EXPRESS YOURSELVES
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19 Sep 2007 Wed 05:32 am |
before i respond, how old are you?
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19 Sep 2007 Wed 05:49 am |
Please look through old threads... such topics have been discussed extensively in the past, for example: Ideal person to be in love with.
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19 Sep 2007 Wed 02:02 pm |
Not by everyone obviously.
Hopefully it could be a bit less superficial than the qouted thread...!
But to make things clear: do you want to know from others "what person to fall in love with" or to discuss "does love exist or not?"
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19 Sep 2007 Wed 02:12 pm |
are you guys 13-14?
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19 Sep 2007 Wed 02:50 pm |
Quoting KeithL: before i respond, how old are you? |
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19 Sep 2007 Wed 02:52 pm |
Teen forum crap...
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20 Sep 2007 Thu 03:36 pm |
Quoting AEnigma III: Teen forum crap... |
are my threads stıll not good enough for you to return on yet AEnigma
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20 Sep 2007 Thu 05:19 pm |
Quoting ahalliwell: Quoting AEnigma III: Teen forum crap... |
are my threads stıll not good enough for you to return on yet AEnigma |
Nah! Actually at least yours are better than this salakness!
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20 Sep 2007 Thu 05:34 pm |
Quoting AEnigma III: Quoting ahalliwell: Quoting AEnigma III: Teen forum crap... |
are my threads stıll not good enough for you to return on yet AEnigma |
Nah! Actually at least yours are better than this salakness! |
big babies playground talk
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20 Sep 2007 Thu 05:35 pm |
Quoting AEnigma III: salakness! |
What a great fusion word! Gonna steal that from you!
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20 Sep 2007 Thu 05:37 pm |
Quoting Trudy: Quoting AEnigma III: salakness! |
What a great fusion word! Gonna steal that from you!  |
I have lots of Turkland fusions!
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20 Sep 2007 Thu 05:46 pm |
Quoting AEnigma III: Quoting Trudy: Quoting AEnigma III: salakness! |
What a great fusion word! Gonna steal that from you!  |
I have lots of Turkland fusions!  |
shes making a new turkish dictionary for english girls that love turkish guys trudy it will be the best seller soon in england
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20 Sep 2007 Thu 05:48 pm |
Quoting turquoise: Quoting AEnigma III: Quoting Trudy: Quoting AEnigma III: salakness! |
What a great fusion word! Gonna steal that from you!  |
I have lots of Turkland fusions!  |
shes making a new turkish dictionary for english girls that love turkish guys trudy it will be the best seller soon in england |
Can't wait for the Dutch-Turkish edition....
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20 Sep 2007 Thu 05:54 pm |
Quoting Trudy: Quoting turquoise: Quoting AEnigma III: Quoting Trudy: Quoting AEnigma III: salakness! |
What a great fusion word! Gonna steal that from you!  |
I have lots of Turkland fusions!  |
shes making a new turkish dictionary for english girls that love turkish guys trudy it will be the best seller soon in england |
Can't wait for the Dutch-Turkish edition....  |
so that means you are another one of the girls that loves turkish guys huh? 
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20 Sep 2007 Thu 06:47 pm |
Quoting turquoise: big babies playground talk |
Big Baby, Cutey Princess?
I can see that I have been too nice for too long..... time for Ghost to return to haunt you all?
Quoting Gabbriy: EXPRESS YOURSELVES |
Gabbriy you are a strange kind of person
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20 Sep 2007 Thu 06:57 pm |
Quoting AEnigma III: Quoting ahalliwell: Quoting AEnigma III: Teen forum crap... |
are my threads stıll not good enough for you to return on yet AEnigma |
Nah! Actually at least yours are better than this salakness! |
awww çok tşk the ghost return ?
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20 Sep 2007 Thu 08:37 pm |
Quoting turquoise: Quoting Trudy: Quoting turquoise: Quoting AEnigma III: Quoting Trudy: Quoting AEnigma III: salakness! |
What a great fusion word! Gonna steal that from you!  |
I have lots of Turkland fusions!  |
shes making a new turkish dictionary for english girls that love turkish guys trudy it will be the best seller soon in england |
Can't wait for the Dutch-Turkish edition....  |
so that means you are another one of the girls that loves turkish guys huh?   |
Nope, I just like funny and silly words. But I'm certainly not an English girl. (I wasn't called a girl anymore for ages.... thanks Turquoise )
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20 Sep 2007 Thu 08:38 pm |
Quoting AEnigma III: Quoting turquoise: so that means you are another one of the girls that loves turkish guys huh?   |
Substitute the word "guys" for "food" and you may be close  |
Me too! But.... no English tea with the food!
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20 Sep 2007 Thu 08:53 pm |
Quoting Trudy: Me too! But.... no English tea with the food!  |
Hehehe no problem with me! I only drink Chinese Green Tea and strong black coffee
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20 Sep 2007 Thu 09:01 pm |
Quoting AEnigma III: Quoting Trudy: Me too! But.... no English tea with the food!  |
Hehehe no problem with me! I only drink Chinese Green Tea and strong black coffee  |
Japanese green tea and please add sugar and milk to the coffee.
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20 Sep 2007 Thu 09:21 pm |
why dont u let that person to take her answer u "matured" babies?
i dont think what she wonders has to pass from ur approval..
please stop sabotaging the threads...
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20 Sep 2007 Thu 09:35 pm |
Quoting oeince: why dont u let that person to take her answer u "matured" babies?
i dont think what she wonders has to pass from ur approval..
please stop sabotaging the threads... |
very well said!
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20 Sep 2007 Thu 09:37 pm |
Quoting izah: Quoting oeince: why dont u let that person to take her answer u "matured" babies?
i dont think what she wonders has to pass from ur approval..
please stop sabotaging the threads... |
very well said!
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+10000
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21 Sep 2007 Fri 12:27 am |
Quoting femme_fatal: Quoting izah: Quoting oeince: why dont u let that person to take her answer u "matured" babies?
i dont think what she wonders has to pass from ur approval..
please stop sabotaging the threads... |
very well said!
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+10000  |
oh well,this is a serious thread so i should have posted my opinion..
ummm i donno what kind of person do i fall in love with but i never fall in love with a person who asks that question
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21 Sep 2007 Fri 12:28 am |
Quoting turquoise:
ummm i donno what kind of person do i fall in love with but i never fall in love with a person who asks that question |
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21 Sep 2007 Fri 01:49 am |
Quoting turquoise: oh well,this is a serious thread so i should have posted my opinion..
ummm i donno what kind of person do i fall in love with but i never fall in love with a person who asks that question |
+1000000000000
Turq, love your posts! Too bad you didn't wanna join my gang.
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21 Sep 2007 Fri 05:28 am |
Haha. I didn't know that people would respond to this so fast. Nyways, it's fine if some people say off-subject things. I don't mind ^ ^ People gotta live a little, right? lol, but not live too much.
I am 16, and yes I am still young, but more mature than most. And I'm not saying so because of pride.
I have been through online relationships, sought them out in person, seen others' relationships, and much more. Besides, no one in person has ever asked me as such, at least not those that I would ever like. lol. And I'm NOT shallow, so please don't think that. Umm.. Oh and for those that said I was weird and stuff, thankyou! ^ ^ I love bein the weirdo of the party!
Umm...what else, lemme see. Oh! What I meant at first
(the begining of the post)was I was saying for everyone else to say how they feel about love personally, and about how they feel about what I think of it. I meant to give your opinions and share about yourselves as well!
Ok lata then
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21 Sep 2007 Fri 09:00 am |
Oh dear god! Why don't parents monitor their children's online activity!!
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21 Sep 2007 Fri 09:36 am |
girlee
you made me laugh
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21 Sep 2007 Fri 09:42 am |
Quoting girleegirl: Oh dear god! Why don't parents monitor their children's online activity!!
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Hear, hear!
Some remarks to the OP: why should we give our opinions on a nitwit topic like this? Because a 16-year old teen gives us permission to do so? Wow! I'm happy to hear I am allowed.
And, read back your own statement about your English please, can you tell me where in a dictionary I can find words like 'lata, lemme, nyways'? Using this chat language in a forum is exactly what some of us mean: shallow.
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21 Sep 2007 Fri 10:03 am |
Quoting girleegirl: Oh dear god! Why don't parents monitor their children's online activity!!
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cuz they cant even monitor each other
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21 Sep 2007 Fri 10:21 am |
Quoting catwoman: Quoting turquoise: oh well,this is a serious thread so i should have posted my opinion..
ummm i donno what kind of person do i fall in love with but i never fall in love with a person who asks that question |
+1000000000000
Turq, love your posts! Too bad you didn't wanna join my gang.  |
sorry kitty, i like to bang but dont like to gang
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21 Sep 2007 Fri 04:45 pm |
Quoting Trudy: And, read back your own statement about your English please, can you tell me where in a dictionary I can find words like 'lata, lemme, nyways'? Using this chat language in a forum is exactly what some of us mean: shallow. |
+ 1/2
I dont think the usage of shortning one's way of writing is shallow. I'm sometimes guilty too, just for the sake of typing quick.
But I think that in a forum, one should always try to type properly. We are not all fluently English around here and with this multi-cultural/multi-lingual community, we must try and make it understandable for all.
I feel very 'who am I to tell you', since I am just a small 4 years older, but if you want to be taken serious and be seen as 'mature', the way you have described yourself, using normal language and omitting ^^^ would do a great job!
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22 Sep 2007 Sat 08:31 am |
Oh, I am very sorry. I did not relize that I was using my words casually as I do with other good English speaking people. I deeply apologize and I will try my best to not put slang in my typing. I think I may have forgotten what site's forum I was on, so I believe I got caught up too much at trying to make things fun and such. I hope you all can forgive me for that. And as for the subject, you don't have to type here. It's always fun for subjects that are different. This can be a serious discussion, or we can make it really fun. Anyways...continue-
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22 Sep 2007 Sat 08:37 am |
Quoting turquoise: sorry kitty, i like to bang but dont like to gang |
I KNEW you'd do this!!!! Damn... I should stop complimenting people, it has negative effects on them.
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22 Sep 2007 Sat 11:04 am |
Quoting catwoman: Quoting turquoise: sorry kitty, i like to bang but dont like to gang |
I KNEW you'd do this!!!! Damn... I should stop complimenting people, it has negative effects on them. |
daaaaaaaaaaaaaaaammnnn! yeah gang has negative effects on me
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28 Sep 2007 Fri 07:33 am |
what about gangs now?
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28 Sep 2007 Fri 08:25 am |
 
Quoting girleegirl: Oh dear god! Why don't parents monitor their children's online activity!!
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28 Sep 2007 Fri 10:26 am |
Quoting femme_fatal: Quoting izah: Quoting oeince: why dont u let that person to take her answer u "matured" babies?
i dont think what she wonders has to pass from ur approval..
please stop sabotaging the threads... |
very well said!
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+1000000
I think it's good to know what you want. If you don't know what kind of person you want, how will you ever find him/her???
It's like buying a car... "What car do you want?" Says Salesperson.
"Umm, I don't know." You say.
"Well, I guess it doesn't matter then. How about that SUV over there?"
"Let me ask my mother. Hmm, I guess I'll take it."
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29 Sep 2007 Sat 12:53 am |
Quoting Gabbriy: If I were ever to fall in love with someone, he would most likely fall for a foreign man. |
Are you actually saying you fall for gay men who fall for foreign men?
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29 Sep 2007 Sat 01:07 am |
Quoting Deli_kizin: Quoting Gabbriy: If I were ever to fall in love with someone, he would most likely fall for a foreign man. |
Are you actually saying you fall for gay men who fall for foreign men?  |
huh? is it attractive to the girls? 
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29 Sep 2007 Sat 09:07 am |
Quoting turquoise: Quoting Deli_kizin: Quoting Gabbriy: If I were ever to fall in love with someone, he would most likely fall for a foreign man. |
Are you actually saying you fall for gay men who fall for foreign men?  |
huh? is it attractive to the girls? 
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I have a gay friend at work .. and he's great .. I can go to lunch with him and not have to worry about being hit on .. only thing is if there was a fight .. I'm not sure who would be the man .. giggle .. would I have to protect myself? .. or would my gay friend protect me ..
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29 Sep 2007 Sat 08:40 pm |
I'm sorry, that's not what I meant. I meant If I fell in love with a man, he would most likely be a foreign man.
No, I am perfectly straight.
And you are right, time will tell. I may have been selfish to say that I was very mature in the first place, for I would not be able to say so for myself. Only others may findit so.
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29 Sep 2007 Sat 10:09 pm |
Quoting Gabbriy: I'm sorry, that's not what I meant. I meant If I fell in love with a man, he would most likely be a foreign man.
No, I am perfectly straight.
And you are right, time will tell. I may have been selfish to say that I was very mature in the first place, for I would not be able to say so for myself. Only others may findit so. |
When maturity will stop concerning you, that will be a sign of maturity.
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30 Sep 2007 Sun 02:11 am |
Also, is it possible to choose who you want/will fall in love with? In my opinion that is not love. That is who you may have a "crush" on at the age of 16 but when it comes to real love, you love them for who they are, not who you want them to be, otherwise you are not loving them for the actual person they are but instead because of who you are attracted are.
One thing you do learn in life: Looks are not everything
Also, how can you consider the type of people you fall in love with? I mean, you say you like most foreign boys but what happens when a loving boy who is the same nationality as you comes along? Hence, I would consider actually getting to know the person before you "fall in love" with them.
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01 Oct 2007 Mon 02:03 pm |
Either way, I would most likely not fall in love with either a foreign man nor one of my same nationality.
I may be young, yes. But for some reason adults do not believeit that at about the age 16 that one cannot have that much knowledge or that many experiences, thus they are considered lower. Does that seem fair?
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01 Oct 2007 Mon 02:29 pm |
Quoting Gabbriy: Either way, I would most likely not fall in love with either a foreign man nor one of my same nationality.
I may be young, yes. But for some reason adults do not believeit that at about the age 16 that one cannot have that much knowledge or that many experiences, thus they are considered lower. Does that seem fair? |
Huh? It is not about being 'lower'
I do believe you have many experiences.
I think you got here some opinions, to use or not to. It is up to you to decide. And thus you are not 'lower' you are a self-responsibel person in concerning this.
If you do not want to fall in love, then don't. But why did you started a thread in what kind of person would you ever fall in love with?
Experiences do have their own value and contribution.
But what is the most important is the way we manage to get some conclusions out of our experiences...
And at 16, as much experiences you would have, you have still much ahead of you in life to find out and value.
For example at 16 may be characteristic to state i would fall in love with a foreign man, than, couple of days later to say i would most likely not fall in love with either domestic, or foreign man. Which is a contradiction. So, at this age contradictions happen more frequently. It is not about being lower, again, it is about some of us here have also experienced the age of 16, with or without as much experiences... Like you experienced the age of 12, for example.
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01 Oct 2007 Mon 03:24 pm |
We have all been 16 at one time and just like our parents, grandparents and great grandparents we tend to learn by our own mistakes. Even though our parents warn us or tell us by experience the rules of life, we each have to discover it ourselves. If you are the rare case Gab, that listens to everything your parents & religion teaches you, then more power to you.
We all have dreams of our futures and plans, however life can be rewarding and disappointing at times. Prepare for your future but also be realistic if your path in life takes a detour. Keeping to your values and morals you will be tried over and over. If religion is your rock, keep it close to you.
You will never be able to predict who you will fall in love with. Love is a mysterious thing. However, you can look for cetain attributes in a man like caring, humorous and giving.
I don't think anyone here is claiming that at 16 you have no knowledge or experience. I believe what people are trying to point out is, you have more knowledge and experience to gain if you believe you know the man you would fall in love with, will be a foreigner or not.
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02 Oct 2007 Tue 10:47 pm |
Quoting Gabbriy: I may be young, yes. But for some reason adults do not believeit that at about the age 16 that one cannot have that much knowledge or that many experiences, thus they are considered lower. Does that seem fair? |
That is only because they have been sixteen too, and know that things are so 'changeable' at that time, and how different they look upon things now.
But as was said before, if you were really mature, you would stop being concerned about maturity. It even seems as if youre worried whether it's clear to others or not. Who cares?
It has nothing to do with 'adults' seeing you as 'lower'. All they do is remember their days of that age, and laugh at how they though they had figured it all out.
They dont call it 'Sweet sixteen' for nothing, dear.
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A second thing you might want to give a thought. Do you really think it is possible to have a 'type' to fall in love with? Don't you think it is something that either just hits you at first sight (and have had no chance to actually think about it), or you fall for someone you've known for a long time, and only yet have come to see things you didnt see before?
It is risky to think what type of boy you would ever fall for. Because the only thing it could possibly lead to, is affection for someone just because they meet the standarts you had set up in your mind rationality before.
Maybe your eyes will be set on all the foreign boys at a party, just because you qualify them as 'your type'. But then you take the risk of overlooking that one sweet american boy who might just have all inside him what really matters to you. But you forget to look at him.
There may be a lot of rationality (needed) in relationships and marriages, but love itself is a matter of the heart.
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03 Oct 2007 Wed 12:29 am |
Quoting Deli_kizin: Teaschip in a more mature way
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tea when did you get mature so quick?
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03 Oct 2007 Wed 08:19 pm |
Quoting femme_fatal: Quoting Deli_kizin: Teaschip in a more mature way
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tea when did you get mature so quick? |
I dunno! :-S
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03 Oct 2007 Wed 11:22 pm |
I think that nobody is taking this thread seriously !!
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03 Oct 2007 Wed 11:26 pm |
Quoting Dilara: I think that nobody is taking this thread seriously !!
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thank GOD!
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09 Oct 2007 Tue 01:36 am |
I never had a sweet 16.... heh anyways. This thread was not meant to find out about love really, just to find out why others feel so strongly about it. People try to persuade me daily that love exists even for me, but I've yet to see something to truely persuade me. And in being so broken, it's hard to feel that way about someone or even the subhect anymore. I used to be an extremely passionate person, that was sadly addicted to sex love romance and everything that comes with it(I'm still a virgin, but I'm still breaking out of the addiction even though it's hard to feel much anything anymore)
So yeah, hope u all had fun....I'm guessing there's not gonna be hardly any if at all more ppl here, so I guess just continue on my newest threat should be on the first page last time I checked. I guess this post will end?
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