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A Turkish husband
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20 Jan 2009 Tue 12:46 am |
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I first would ask your friend why she would want to get involved with someone she barely knows to begin with who is already calling her names. "cold woman". Because she didn´t want to hold hands. I wouldn´t either if I had never met the guy...so don´t think you did anything wrong.
I happen to think Turkish men are more forward than most men I have met....not sure why. I wouldn´t try to change or earn the other status as you mentioned. Just be yourself and if he likes you for you great. Otherwise, don´t waste your time on someone who maybe a little aggressive and forward if this makes you feel uncomfortable. You should have to EARN anything....Good Luck..
thank you!
she just did not expect for that verdict... She also thought about turkish men as of more forward  , but that was just too much  )
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20 Jan 2009 Tue 12:51 am |
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i would wonder whom i married...
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20 Jan 2009 Tue 12:53 am |
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Edited: You should NOT have to earn anything....
really, she did not want to earn anything
she would still behave the same - it is just her nature
I just wanted to know (theoretically) - what could be done to be named nice woman
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20 Jan 2009 Tue 12:58 am |
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thank you!
she just did not expect for that verdict... She also thought about turkish men as of more forward , but that was just too much )
Well, we all learn from our experiences. Again, your friend did nothing wrong. So tell your friend to be herself and she should never feel pressured to do anything she isn´t comfortable with. And if a man makes her feel that way....then he is not the right one. Instead a descent man will do everything in his power to make you feel comfortable and not guilt you in return. Hope that makes sense.
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20 Jan 2009 Tue 01:01 am |
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really, she did not want to earn anything
she would still behave the same - it is just her nature
I just wanted to know (theoretically) - what could be done to be named nice woman
Well, it´s hard to say not knowing this man. But sounds like he wanted affection. from her...but again this doesn´t make you a "nice" woman maybe in his eyes..... Sounds like he had more expectations from her...physically.
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20 Jan 2009 Tue 01:20 am |
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I first would ask your friend why she would want to get involved with someone she barely knows to begin with who is already calling her names. "cold woman". Because she didn´t want to hold hands. I wouldn´t either if I had never met the guy...so don´t think you did anything wrong.
I happen to think Turkish men are more forward than most men I have met....not sure why. I wouldn´t try to change or earn the other status as you mentioned. Just be yourself and if he likes you for you great. Otherwise, don´t waste your time on someone who maybe a little aggressive and forward if this makes you feel uncomfortable. You should have to EARN anything....Good Luck..
hehe inresting, meeting someone after few talks...huh but it happen and maybe this guy had some imaginations about her as a goodness or so..., his problem
That girl could be just simply shy at the first meeting, and that why she acted this way...
But if he thinks about her at the first meeting "cold" person, that is not good..
they say "the first impresion is very important and stays for ever"...
Good luck!!
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20 Jan 2009 Tue 01:26 am |
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How can someone be "cold" for not wanting affectionate physical contact with someone they´ve just met....? Hopefully she has dumped the guy already, I doubt she will be missing out on anything
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20 Jan 2009 Tue 01:34 am |
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How can someone be "cold" for not wanting affectionate physical contact with someone they´ve just met....? Hopefully she has dumped the guy already, I doubt she will be missing out on anything
+1
Actually how DARE he judge her like THAT ´´calling her cold´´ for this ?!!!
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20 Jan 2009 Tue 01:34 am |
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Well, it´s hard to say not knowing this man. But sounds like he wanted affection. from her...but again this doesn´t make you a "nice" woman maybe in his eyes..... Sounds like he had more expectations from her...physically.
i think it is just her reflexions and introspections
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20 Jan 2009 Tue 01:44 am |
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hehe inresting, meeting someone after few talks...huh but it happen and maybe this guy had some imaginations about her as a goodness or so..., his problem
That girl could be just simply shy at the first meeting, and that why she acted this way...
But if he thinks about her at the first meeting "cold" person, that is not good..
they say "the first impresion is very important and stays for ever"...
Good luck!!
in fact they say we need just 10 second to gain first impression. nothing should be even said
she just wanted to meet new person as she though they could be friends. and she warned him several times that nothing special there - just frindship
as for me it would be strange if she fell into his arms after few minutes
all of us have imaginations about others. at least i think that meeting just lightened the reality in quickl manner
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20 Jan 2009 Tue 01:54 am |
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How can someone be "cold" for not wanting affectionate physical contact with someone they´ve just met....? Hopefully she has dumped the guy already, I doubt she will be missing out on anything
))))))))))) she wont for sure
i am afraid that she would never meet her online friends in real life anymore ))))
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