Have you ever passed through such a painful and sad experience?How did you cope with it?When did you eat and sleep normally again?
Why people get separated more and more recently..or is it because its happening with me and everywhere around me seems to me so?
I didnt mean to spoil the beautiful Christmas evening of all TC members,sorry guys.Just in case somebody is in the same boat I would be happy if you share some experience.Thank you.and again sorry for the gloomy topic,just cant help..

omg derya,i'm so sorry to hear this
My heart is with you Canım.

But think about it this way,if it was going to happen,then better it happen early than later.
And if it happened,then he is not the right one for you,and thank your lucky star it happened,so you can join with your one.
There is one there,some where,is waiting for you to be whole,and to make you whole too.
Maybe sound like a fairy tale thing,but its not.
There is one really for you Canım,for everyone of us.
Some don't meet at all,and think its just a fairy tale,
Some are more lucky,meet but either in the wrong time,or in the wrong place.
But at least they pass in each other life some how.
Others,are the luckiest,and they meet in the suitable time,and the suitable place.

İ know its painful,but as they say, when ever HE close a door,HE open a window.
So be sure there is one Canım,just find your right window.

Thank your lucky star,and pray to ALLAH,you be one of the luckiest ones.

Thank you VERY VERY much,my friend,with all my heart.Your reply found me crying.You are right in every single word you said.Maybe its not the best time of the year but better end of the torture than a torturous end.
We all find our way in life and I hope that he will find his one too.As for me I will get by somehow..thank you so much,you are giving me strength to be a survivor!
I appreciate a lot,CANLI!

No need to thank Canım,we here are friends,somehow we are,even we didn't meet,but we share.
Friendship,somehow same like love,is about sharing to some extent.

So cry Canım,as much as you want,crying wash your sorrow away by the time,and will give you peace.
But cry with a believe that everything inşallah will going to be fine,and everything is going to the best.

And just pray to ALLAH,we say,ALLAH is god of hearts,and he knows what is inside each one heart,and give us for what is in our hearts.
So pray for HİM,and be sure,you inşallah will find peace,and will find your window too

OOF people you have to love this girl CANLI! words of wisdom yet again canım
I definatly know why I voted for you in the 2006 forum.

As for my answer to this post, I am not in the same boat as you Derya but I have a LOT of troubles in my life at the moment and they won't go anytime soon I know that.
But what keeps me going is to look what you have got still. I don't have much but what I do have is very precious. The one person I have left in my family I am always thanking Allah for.
I am in a relationship, but it is very hard because he is stuck in the USA and I am stuck in the UK but when we have troubles we can talk to each other about them. But just because you don't have "him" around any more does not mean there is no one left to care, for a start we, the people of TC care, and we are always here for you

Take care canım and I hope that the new year brings you happiness

Thank you all for giving me your support.Surely I did some mistakes,I had and still have some problems.As hexagon00 said maybe I am a sick person.Maybe he is right.But its not the place and the time when I should explain details about the way things are.The only thing I will say is that yes,I lied,but I didnt cheat because my heart is loving. But I have never been rude or evil to anybody.I didnt want things to end up like this.But eventually they ended so the only thing one can do is NOT to nurture bad feelings and keep the good memories.
In this beautiful Christmas day I asked God to forgive me and to make me wiser.and my soul is at rest,because I know that God forgives.
Merry Christmas to everybody and thank you for being so nice and responding to people`s trouble!

Nehir kendi mecrasında akar.
Said by the most wise man i know,and its so true.

Wish you both patience,and wish from ALLAH,to calm the winds,and the volcano which is boiling inside .
And find the peace,which may lead to forgivingness,and understanding,if there is any !