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10.       duskahvesi
858 posts
 03 Apr 2005 Sun 05:04 pm

it would be "could not put"..
sorry again mistake...

11.       Mina
9 posts
 03 Apr 2005 Sun 07:17 pm

Soooooooo very true!

They can easily fall in love and fall out of love as they can easily say "I love you" without any regrets!

I should know from experience since I have been with a few of them and was even married to one

So guard your heart ladies

12.       bambino
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 03 Apr 2005 Sun 09:45 pm

People, why do you think that everybody says such things about Turkish men? Are they different people? people who are not capable to truly love someone or at least be honest? Do you think that their culture created environment for them that would primarily teach them how to lie? If that's the case then I feel very sorry for those people. They don't know what they have been taken away.

13.       Seticio
550 posts
 03 Apr 2005 Sun 09:59 pm

No it's not only about Turkish guys. I could say the same about Italians, Spanish and Egyptians...
But of, course, it doesn't mean taht every man is the same. People are different and there are great boys among Turks (I hope so...)

14.       duskahvesi
858 posts
 03 Apr 2005 Sun 10:37 pm

seticio,
do u have any experience about those nationalities?

15.       Seticio
550 posts
 03 Apr 2005 Sun 11:06 pm

Well, I know some Italians... They are really horrible. Another disantwantage about Italians is that they don't wash themselves....
My sister and I hosted one Italian girl. inspite her pink clothes, during two weeks stay she went to bathroom only twice. I know it's not about the topic, sorry for that.
I have friend who had egyptian boyfiend...
I'm not saying all of them are in this type, mut, unfortunately, most of them...

16.       Xesc
64 posts
 03 Apr 2005 Sun 11:11 pm

Well thus it's a world characteristic, hehehe, i also disagree (if we are exceptions, the world is full of exceptions)....the question is to try the appropiate person, because, if there is "fast" guys, it's true that also there are "fast" girls, deilmi?

17.       Seticio
550 posts
 03 Apr 2005 Sun 11:14 pm

I agree. I'm a very critical person, if speaking about boys (maybe that;s why most of them are afraid of me )

18.       Seticio
550 posts
 03 Apr 2005 Sun 11:18 pm

Ok, I'm writing what I'm writing, but truely I like u all guys :*

19.       Lyndie
968 posts
 06 Apr 2005 Wed 01:11 am

I have a theory about Turkish boys.

It seems to me that girls on holiday meet (and fall in love with) Turkish boys on holiday. These are the boys I am considering in my theory.

Firstly, the Turkish boys who work in tourist places are often very far from their homes and loved ones. Not always obviously, but mostly. They are also working maybe for up to 7 or 8 months away in the summer. They get lonely (well who wouldn't)- they don't get to meet many Turkish girls in the tourist places and if there were any Turkish girls then their brothers, fathers, uncles etc would be keeping them well away from boys who work in the tourist industry! So..

there you have lots of lonely testosterone charged boys and the only girls they get to meet are tourists.

Secondly, these tourists are only there for an average of 2 weeks. Its pretty obvious (to me anyway) that the reason foreign girls fall for the Turkish boys is that apart from the fact that they are all so handsome, they are also charming and romantic. They have to be because they haven't got long to forge a relationship (average 2 weeks remember).

Thirdly, sex is a driving force. When they go home in the winter to their families, there will be no sex! generally their families would not approve of their lifestyles in the summer so they have to make the most of it while they are away.

when they say 'I love you' they probably mean it at the time, but you have to consider what 'i love you' really means and does it mean something different to the Turkish boys and the tourist girls - I'd say yes it does. Doesn't mean they are lying just means something a bit different. Although of course boys are boys the world over and 'I love you' can simply be the means to an end and you all know to what I am referring!

If a couple manage to go the whole distance relationship thing (very very difficult) then maybe the meaning of 'I love you' changes. There are clearly many Turkish men with non Turkish wives who are quite happy together and who met on holiday.

Turkish boys are handsome, charming and romantic and passionate. I think they mean it (sort of)when they tell you they 'love' you, but don't expect it to be the kind of enduring love that will last once you are out of sight, because they will be in the same lonely position when you go home and will soon be looking for a new girlfriend to 'love'. Anyway, that's my theory for what its worth.

20.       Seticio
550 posts
 06 Apr 2005 Wed 01:33 am

Ur theory is absolutely true, in my opinion, but I didn't meet Turks in such places. They wanted for example go to Poland, so they were looking for Polish girl (u must know that to go to Poland, Turk must get special visa and be oficially invited by a Polish living in Poland) Their testosteron level was obviously veeery high
However, I know also much different Turkish boys, who are normal like everyone and they are really great as just people!

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