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turkish men and attitudes to women
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27 Nov 2005 Sun 08:10 pm |
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If a Turkishman's wife worked, then she would have her independence. She would not be relying solely on her husband. This is where he would not feel the main provider. He would also not feel the respect of a male, that the stay at home housewife would give.
Personally, I think he would feel he would lose the macho husband image being protective and providing for his wife and family.
I don't think it would go down with the Turkish culture where they lived and he would probably feel inferior to his surroundings. The culture is very important to prove he can provide for wife and family. The male seemingly still has to some degree dominance in the household. And, as someone stipulates, what is expected is the wife, to be quiet and allow him to have his male friends.
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27 Nov 2005 Sun 08:21 pm |
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Can someone tell me how to do the quote thing-is it by cutting and pasting!
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27 Nov 2005 Sun 08:28 pm |
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Quoting oludenizdollz: Can someone tell me how to do the quote thing-is it by cutting and pasting! |
No, it's under the avatar of the person whose post you want to reply to.
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27 Nov 2005 Sun 08:33 pm |
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it just says "quote" see...? 
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27 Nov 2005 Sun 08:33 pm |
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Quoting mltm: Quoting oludenizdollz: Oh - that would be no good for me-I like my man to cook and clean and sometimes I like to go out with my girlfriends and get very drunk and then come home late and demand that he wake up and satisfy my needs!!
This would not go down well with the Turkish male then???? |
oooooohhhhhhh  Definitely not! 
But maybe there would be still a hope. Maybe you can find one or two that would accept you as you're in the whole country 
Or maybe you can find more if he just needs your money
But this could be the answer of "How to lose your Turkish boyfriend as soon as possible?
Actually a lot of men (especially the younger ones I find) like to experience a little "domination" as long as they're not still wearing their pinny when their friends come around!!! |
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27 Nov 2005 Sun 08:35 pm |
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Quoting oludenizdollz: Quoting mltm: Quoting oludenizdollz: Oh - that would be no good for me-I like my man to cook and clean and sometimes I like to go out with my girlfriends and get very drunk and then come home late and demand that he wake up and satisfy my needs!!
This would not go down well with the Turkish male then???? |
oooooohhhhhhh Definitely not!
But maybe there would be still a hope. Maybe you can find one or two that would accept you as you're in the whole country
Or maybe you can find more if he just needs your money
But this could be the answer of "How to lose your Turkish boyfriend as soon as possible?
Actually a lot of men (especially the younger ones I find) like to experience a little "domination" as long as they're not still wearing their pinny when their friends come around!!! |
AYYY AFERİN SANAAA  hehe |
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27 Nov 2005 Sun 08:37 pm |
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Quoting Deli_kizin: Now we still don't know that their attitude agaisnt women is, do we? Modern men, speak up! |
This is an " older man" speaking up here and I think the last six posts in this thread have exposed the attitude of the "modern woman" far more eloquently than I could.Holding doors open (mltm)in this present feminist society is not often appreciated.
Modern woman speak up!
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27 Nov 2005 Sun 08:43 pm |
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Quoting Joey: Quoting Deli_kizin: Now we still don't know that their attitude agaisnt women is, do we? Modern men, speak up! |
This is an " olden man" speaking up here and I think the last six posts in this thread have exposed the attitude of the "modern woman" far more eloquently than I could.Holding doors open (mltm)in this present feminist society is not often appreciated.
Modern woman speak up! |
Oh Joey - don't get me wrong I love it if a man holds the door open for me just as i hold the door open for people-this is mutual respect.
I like it when my man cooks for me,pours my drink for me, runs my bath for me, scrubs my back for me all of that - I just don't want to be financially tied to him or in a position where I have to accept being treated like crap because society will condem me for leaving if the relationship is not meeting my needs. Surely men do not really like having doormats for partners.
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27 Nov 2005 Sun 08:45 pm |
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Quoting oludenizdollz: Quoting Joey: Quoting Deli_kizin: Now we still don't know that their attitude agaisnt women is, do we? Modern men, speak up! |
This is an " olden man" speaking up here and I think the last six posts in this thread have exposed the attitude of the "modern woman" far more eloquently than I could.Holding doors open (mltm)in this present feminist society is not often appreciated.
Modern woman speak up! |
Oh Joey - don't get me wrong I love it if a man holds the door open for me just as i hold the door open for people-this is mutual respect.
I like it when my man cooks for me,pours my drink for me, runs my bath for me, scrubs my back for me all of that - I just don't want to be financially tied to him or in a position where I have to accept being treated like crap because society will condem me for leaving if the relationship is not meeting my needs. Surely men do not really like having doormats for partners. |
sadly, i think that some of them do...
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27 Nov 2005 Sun 08:48 pm |
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Well Miss C-I'm a woman who likes to be on top--in more ways than one!!
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27 Nov 2005 Sun 08:56 pm |
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I know someone who is married to someone....and the man basically needs a wife who cooks like Delia Smith, looks like Liz Hurley, drinks like a fish, 'goes' (I am being polite) like a rabbit and has a dad with a motorbike shop! Her reward should she exist would be to be married to someone who likes to keep all the money and hand it out when it suits hm. Never thanks or praises her for the good things she does, but shouts and screams and complains if something goes wrong, only bathes once per week and just comes and goes as it pleases him....
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