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i dont think we should start with blaming him..
sometimes it just doesnt work.. and it doesnt have to be someones fault.. i am sure Kelebek is a nice girl.. and her boyfriend too.. but thats life..
maybe he is scared of where this relationship is going.. maybe he just felt like he need more experience in life.. or maybe its just sex he wants for now.. i dont know.. but there is a always a reason.. it may not seem very clear all the time.. but can you blame a person for these reasons?
i dont think he started seeing that woman thinking that she is a slut.. sorry to say this, but sometimes some people have this need of trying different things.. noone can say that the other woman has less than Kelebek.. comparing people by which is better and which is worse is not always possible..
there is a common idea that men like the dirty girls more.. but its not always true.. its about what you want to experience.. what makes you feel happy or fulfilled..
but according to my opinion, when a man says that he is not good enough for you, that means wants something more that he thinks he can not ask you to.. sometimes its a nice way to say, "i want different things".. and sometimes it is coming from the motive to protect you and keep you clean as your image in his head..
but you re still young Kelebek.. and mostly it doesnt work with your first love.. because people are curious.. and they wonder if there is more outside than what they have now..
this may look cruel to you, but when you find some other man to love, you ll get recovered.. and think how lucky you are.. 
Quoting mltm: I don't know but sometimes boys do such silly things. They say that they love you, which you believe so much, you give your heart, but then suddenly without any real reason, he changes and acts as if he was not the one that told you he loved you. And you are left like a fool. I just don't understand this as well, what suddenly makes them change so much? Weird... I think they have a lot of things in their heads. |
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