i dont understand wad u mean but...just remember rule....and smile

lol i know

Kelebek: we have all experienced this sort of love and the man has played away, when we were in our teens.

The good thing is, you are very young, and there are plenty of young single men, who would only be too willing to love and cherish you, for the person you are.

It will be his loss, and he will regret it. As he has not appreciated the love you gave him.

He might be feeling he wants a taste of the high life, then will probably settle down easily later as they usually do. He is still very young and needs a life at the moment.

Try and find it in your heart to move on, and explore new horizons. Don't dwell on him too much. If you meet someone else, he might be devastated. Go out and meet new persons. This will be the best direction.

Kelebek, both of you are very young and can't know what the future will bring you. You are also still changing as a person as you're growing up and becoming more and more mature, and remember that men mature much later then we do!

It might have been true love, but your ex bf is not a man yet, he's just a boy, so it's hard to expect from him to be stronger and deeper in his thoughts. Unfortunately, it looks like his life went the wrong way... .

why do u always care about ages.. of course it could be when a girl who is 20 year old is dating with a man of 50 but.. if the difference is uner 7-8 years of age it's not a big problem... i can understand you had a good relation which is important 4 u and because of that u have a such opinion and u ask a 21 year old boy whether if he can go out with aged 27.. this is love nobody know what can happen...

kelebek honey please do me favor ok.......dont beg him to come back dont tell him you will change, dont let him tell you he will change....listen gods honest truth we all have that one true love that one soul mate that will be with us forever.............the one who breathes new life in us and makes us see the world differently. That is the greates gift any of us who have experienced it know about. My exhusband was and will always be my one true love my soulmate BUT.......if he hurt you knowing that his behavior has changed and he has moved on then most likely he will continue this path for a while. Does it make him a bad person? Yes for hurting you no because we are all human and we all make stupid mistakes....whether Turkish, Italian, Polish, or American we all know the joy and pain of love....he obviously lost the best thing that has happened to him,eventually he will figure this out....but please feel the hurt feel the loss but dont wait and dont see if he will change.......keep busy, find things to do.....your heart will feel broken, you rsoul with feel empty and the tears which you cry could create your own river BUT then comes new life and new hope and new friends like I have met here and although I have been alone for 4 years now it is better than the pain of wondering if he ever was coming back, if he ever was telling the truth and all the what if's that went along with it. You are an amazing girl you are young and you have a lot to give in life..........like i am told on a daily basis there is someone else out there for us....sometimes it doesnt make that pain any easier and the void from the hurt smaller but it is a sparkel of hope and just as we thank Allah every night for bringing us that special someone , there is a reason that someone is not in our life anymore either. I now am starting my own business, coming to Turkey this February to venture out, and ready to find new love again when it is the right time....Know this: you are a good person and you have a big heart and believe it or not there is always room for more love to give and to get. Be patient and be strong and Allah will be with you always. Opiyorum Milly