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As far as I have seen so far, the main motivation why majority of our members want to learn Turkish is a Turkish boyfriend. Here is the girls section then, tell what you like and what you don´t like about your Turkish boyfriends. We guys won´t read, feel free 
You have finally taken the truth, it is true, most people on here are chicks (girls) that has had an episode of some kind of love with a Turk (including me . I fell inlove with a Turkish dude once and after that I just know I will marry a Turk. Honestly, I can´t see myself marrying anything but a Turk
What did I like about my Turkish man?
*He loved me for me!
* He was EXTREMELY warm hearted and almost empathetic, which is something really special.
*He was EXTREMELY protective and JELOUS, which was nice at most times. The best part was when we would walk down Eminünü and some Turkish people (mostly men) would stare at me, because it is rare to find Africans in Turkey. My boyfriend would puff up and give all of them a look that said "what are you looking at?"
*He loves family and children, which is something I truelly find sacred
*Religiouslly stable person. Not fanatical but not too relaxing either. He is a firm person
*Charming! EXTREMELY charming "ay gülüm, bugün çok güzelsin", "çikolata sevgilim"
*He claimed me!! The first week of us dating I met the family!! It shows honesty
*He would literally feed me I learned to love that
*He cried a lot too, very emotional person. I remember us watching the news, and we saw reports on the Palestine-Israel situation, the report showed some children suffering ect. He burst out in tears. He has a good heart.
*He was physically hot!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Damn, he was one fine man.
*The best of all, he kissed beautifully. I will never forget, our first kiss was near the Ayia Sofia. It was a rainy day, he was holding the ambrella. He just grabbed and kissed me in the middle of the street. The street was full of people, trumb running buy and taxis packing up. He kissed me right there in the middle of the rain, in the middle of the street and EVERYONE was watching. Now that was the most beautiful thing I have ever had.
What didn´t I like about him.
* Stubborn!!!!!!!
*Controlling
*Jelous. We had like a million fights about him needing to calm down and stop being so jelous. Ofcourse, I lost most of the fights.
*Difficult at most times. If he wants to see me now, he wants to see me now.  . Or he would send a friend to go do shopping with me so that no other men must come talk to me.
*Clothing!! Everytime I would get a preeching that I am not dressed modest enough. In Turkey I was dressed very modest, but also very fashionable. But I still got a preeching of how my boobs are "exposed" HE WAS CRAZY
*CRAZY!!
What have I learned from him
*Love like you have never loved before.
*To receive love and enjoy it as much as you can
*I really want to get married and have meles children in Turkey
*I learned to be patient with him, after all he never did me harm. He was the most supportive man in the world.
*I also become a bit jelous too. I found myself hating some of the girls who kept looking at him. He was very attractive young man.
*I learned to not care what people say. So what if he was Turkish and I am African? That didn´t matter to us.
I also learned words like
"Allah sabır ver!" "Allah cezani vermisin!!" "la havle vela kuvete" "hala hala" When we had our fights those words were used much often
But most of the time. I heard "esmer meleğim" , "canim", "zimcik", "eşim", "seni çok seviyorum yaa", "tamam, ağlama canım" and other special words
TURKISH GUYS ARE SWEET AND REALLY LOVELY. BUT VERY DIFFICULT TOO BUT WE STILL LOVE YOU
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