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Boyfriend and SEX??
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11 Dec 2005 Sun 10:11 pm |
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so is that the only thing these girls can do to make their bf happy??.. is that what ur saying??
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11 Dec 2005 Sun 10:14 pm |
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Quoting miss_ceyda: so is that the only thing these girls can do to make their bf happy?? |
Making your bf or gf happy is all about respecting them - just as it is with anyone in your life, not just partners!
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11 Dec 2005 Sun 10:14 pm |
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that sounds better bod... respct is very important...
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11 Dec 2005 Sun 10:21 pm |
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Quoting miss_ceyda: that sounds better bod... respct is very important... |
No......
Respect is not important - it is ESSENTIAL!!!
I was at a workshop yesterday about sexuality and flirting and one of the points I made is that there is no way I would share my bed with someone if I wouldn't share a conversaton with them - regardles of how cute they might be!!!
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11 Dec 2005 Sun 10:37 pm |
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Quoting bod:
No......
Respect is not important - it is ESSENTIAL!!!
I was at a workshop yesterday about sexuality and flirting and one of the points I made is that there is no way I would share my bed with someone if I wouldn't share a conversaton with them - regardles of how cute they might be!!! |
you are absolutely right Bod.
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11 Dec 2005 Sun 10:38 pm |
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Indeed Bod!
And tho sex may be a bit taboo to talk about in Türkiye.. i think between lovers, it should be normal to discuss those.
But on the other hand.. sometimes you don't discuss, sometimes you just roll in things and then it just happens  It's not like 'Oh well ehm.. what about tomorrow evening, 9 o'clock? Your bed or mine?'.
I forgot who started this discussion  But if i were you I would just let time do its duty and wait what future brings. If you think he is taking too long to make love with you, you can either ask him if he wants to wait after marriage or what else is holding him back.
Good luck!
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11 Dec 2005 Sun 10:51 pm |
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hehe.. i like the way u say "good luck" at the end there hihi
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11 Dec 2005 Sun 10:56 pm |
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Quoting bod: Quoting miss_ceyda: that sounds better bod... respct is very important... |
No......
Respect is not important - it is ESSENTIAL!!!
I was at a workshop yesterday about sexuality and flirting and one of the points I made is that there is no way I would share my bed with someone if I wouldn't share a conversaton with them - regardles of how cute they might be!!! |
You make this lioness purr, bod!
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11 Dec 2005 Sun 11:03 pm |
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Quoting miss_ceyda: hehe.. i like the way u say "good luck" at the end there hihi |
Yes.. well i am just saying Because i've never heard of a young Turkish man who didn't wanna have sex !
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12 Dec 2005 Mon 04:06 am |
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....ummmmmmmm....gırrrrrrrrr..yes bod said everything.....respect...memnuniyet...(ceyda)im sorry for u... ...and a child.....
formule of happiness:you ,me,child
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12 Dec 2005 Mon 04:19 am |
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Quoting ramayan: Quoting miss_ceyda: any advice for people in that position though.. i know lots of people who are in a predicament like this... |
yes here an advice.....if you dont make someone happy u wont be happy...so i think dis is enough .... |
I dont believe this to be true. FIRST the only way to make someone else happy, is to be happy yourself. You must be comfortable with who you are, know what you want and be happy with how you live life before trying to engage another person in it. You cant possibly be with someone on the assumption that life is only happy with another...because you must live with yourself always, regardless of what happens.
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