me and my boyfriend have meet already 4 SIX months...when he first met me, he told me that i was SEXY!!
and now, we are together, but he never talks about SEX with me, i am wondering he talks about the issue with some1 else (i mean another girl) instead of me??
if a turkish guy does regard some1 as his gf, will he talk about SEX openly with that person, or just leave it after marriage??
actually, what i want to know is the attitude for turksih guys on SEX??
alo...is there some1 can help??

the boys would better answer this.
it depends I think.
but since sex is still a bit like taboo here, it's not so openly talked. parents don't talk about sex to their children, in schools they don't teach us about this subject. so, sex is seen a bit like a dirty thing.
maybe he isn't talking about sex with you, because he thinks that you would be disturbed and he wants to take it slow and he tries to tell you that he's really serious with you, and it's different to say that you're sexy and to talk about sex.

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ok.. so what about if ur intending to marry a guy.. and he keeps dropping hints about the idea of sex... should the girl wait until they are married or not??

any advice for people in that position though.. i know lots of people who are in a predicament like this...

so is that the only thing these girls can do to make their bf happy??.. is that what ur saying??

that sounds better bod... respct is very important...

Indeed Bod!


And tho sex may be a bit taboo to talk about in Türkiye.. i think between lovers, it should be normal to discuss those.
But on the other hand.. sometimes you don't discuss, sometimes you just roll in things and then it just happens It's not like 'Oh well ehm.. what about tomorrow evening, 9 o'clock? Your bed or mine?'.

I forgot who started this discussion But if i were you I would just let time do its duty and wait what future brings. If you think he is taking too long to make love with you, you can either ask him if he wants to wait after marriage or what else is holding him back.

Good luck!

hehe.. i like the way u say "good luck" at the end there hihi

....ummmmmmmm....gırrrrrrrrr..yes bod said everything.....respect...memnuniyet...(ceyda)im sorry for u......and a child.....
formule of happiness:you ,me,child

As for him not bringing up sex i think its because he really has feelings for you and wont try to offend you in any way. If all he wanted from you was sex he would have already tried to open that door, but since it seems he has not, i feel he likes you more than you may know.

i know a boy who cant get closer to her girlfriend cos of that she had an other relationship before him..

i am sure he is gay- run while you can

Um from recent personal experience...if u want to know something or tell something....jsut say it as you think of it. if he is offended well at least you know there are some cultural differences you can either accept or sort through.

anyway.. im sure that every case or should i say relationship, is different and everyone should go at their own pace eh?

Nobody can read another's mind and no one else can totally understand the relationship between two people except them - so it is really irrelevant what any one else thinks - it is between the two of you alone. You must ask him the questions and wait for the answers. Time will tell

best thing you have to do is you have to talk this issue with your boyfriend.

normally guys dont talk about sex to their gf unless the girl is kinda more vocal.but it dun mean we talk to some one else.(yeah may be to our guy friends).may be u try to crack a bit of joke then one leads to another.some guys are bit worried about what you will think if he does.as far as me sex is one of the important issue.may be u feel the same way.try to crack him up a bit then see.good luck