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Turkish boyfriends
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09 Jul 2007 Mon 08:06 pm |
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if your turkish boyfriend was cheating is it right that their friends wouldnt tell you? is it also ok for a turkish guy to have a turkish and english girlfriend?
Just something i was thinking about. hope someone is able to help me.
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09 Jul 2007 Mon 08:09 pm |
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Why analyse it - just dump him ! 
Yes, it is USUAL, if he is using you and following the normal pattern of tourist workers. He will get what he can out of you, then marry a Turkish girl!
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09 Jul 2007 Mon 08:13 pm |
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Quoting lilchels1990: if your turkish boyfriend was cheating is it right that their friends wouldnt tell you? is it also ok for a turkish guy to have a turkish and english girlfriend?
Just something i was thinking about. hope someone is able to help me. |
If its "his friends" and they are male, there's a strong probability that they wouldn't tell you. Is it a surprise?
There's not anything that's right for the turkish guy, it depends the moralities. Some would find it ok, some wouldn't. And also it depends how much you count for him.
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09 Jul 2007 Mon 08:17 pm |
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i wernt talking about it for my boyfriend. i know someone who has a turkish and an english girlfriend and they know about eachother. i thought that was weird. no my boyfriend hasnt asked for a mobile all he wants is chocolate. my boyfriends friends are protective of me and my boyfriend gets jealous easily if a boy comes near me and says turkish girls are a problem for him. i doubt he is cheating 
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09 Jul 2007 Mon 08:19 pm |
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Quoting lilchels1990: i wernt talking about it for my boyfriend. i know someone who has a turkish and an english girlfriend and they know about eachother. i thought that was weird. no my boyfriend hasnt asked for a mobile all he wants is chocolate. my boyfriends friends are protective of me and my boyfriend gets jealous easily if a boy comes near me and says turkish girls are a problem for him. i doubt he is cheating |
All turkish boys get jealous easily it's more about ownership than love
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09 Jul 2007 Mon 08:27 pm |
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ive been with him nearly 2 years..... i think maybe i would know by now if he was cheating.
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09 Jul 2007 Mon 08:29 pm |
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Quoting lilchels1990: ive been with him nearly 2 years..... i think maybe i would know by now if he was cheating. |
I didn't imply he was! Does he know you posted your picture here?
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09 Jul 2007 Mon 08:32 pm |
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Interesting topic... After I get to know my male turkish friends, I realise that they can be quite emotional. I don't mean this in a bad way but from where I come from it can get quite overwhelming. After I get to know my special male friend it got intensed. I wasn't even allowed to add his friends on msn but I allowed him to add my friends. To me its pretty normal but not to him. He admits that he gets envious easily. I would hate to think that all turkish males are the same, that'll be stereotyping but I've been to different forums to read about turkish males and the issue of jealousy are always pointed out. Guess I have to set foot on Turkey to really find out. 
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09 Jul 2007 Mon 08:34 pm |
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Quoting mltm: If its "his friends" and they are male, there's a strong probability that they wouldn't tell you. Is it a surprise?
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I agree (now THATs a surprise!) - I dont think this is anything Turkish - it would be the same whatever nationality they were!
Your question seems strange - if your English friend knows that her boyfriend has another girlfriend, why the hell is she still with him? 
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09 Jul 2007 Mon 08:52 pm |
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Everyone that's in love can become jealous, and if my bf does not get bothered when another male (not every male ofcourse) approaches me , it makes me disappointed and frustrated, but I admit that many turkish males sometimes get over jeaolous and it becomes very annoying.
My ex bf used to check my mobile phone everytime we met, if he found a number that he did not know, he would question it, and even take the number to call it, if I refused to give him my mobile, he would get extremely angry, and if I wanted to check his mobile phone, he wouldn't give it to me. He wouldn't want me to chat, he would want to know my msn password to check the people I added, on the contrary he would not give me his. He wanted to have his private but he did not respect my private. These kinds of double standards about jealousy are signs that he would not find anything wrong if he cheated you.
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