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20.       femme_fatal
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 10 Jul 2007 Tue 09:56 pm

Quoting catwoman:

Quoting mltm:

Maybe, after having tested various girls from all over the world, they realized in the end that turkish girls were the best Sometimes, it takes time to see it


I'm not sure if it's more naive or arrogant? :-S


it is BOTH of backward mentality.

21.       mltm
3690 posts
 10 Jul 2007 Tue 10:22 pm

Quoting femme_fatal:

Quoting catwoman:

Quoting mltm:

Maybe, after having tested various girls from all over the world, they realized in the end that turkish girls were the best Sometimes, it takes time to see it


I'm not sure if it's more naive or arrogant? :-S


it is BOTH of backward mentality.



HA HA HA

Maybe I do it intentionally.

22.       mltm
3690 posts
 10 Jul 2007 Tue 10:25 pm

Quoting aenigma x:


Yes, where else could they find a guaranteed virgin



You talk as if you made a virginity test to all the turkish girls.
And it's not all about virginity, they see that they have more common things with the girls of their own country.

23.       aenigma x
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 10 Jul 2007 Tue 11:02 pm

Quoting mltm:

And it's not all about virginity, they see that they have more common things with the girls of their own country.



Ouh sorry Meltem, actually I learned about this "tradition" from posts (by Turkish members) on this webesite

No doubt its yet another subject you would prefer to deceive us about as it conflicts with your "modern Turkish girl" image?

24.       mltm
3690 posts
 10 Jul 2007 Tue 11:24 pm

Quoting aenigma x:


No doubt its yet another subject you would prefer to deceive us about as it conflicts with your "modern Turkish girl" image?



Why would I want to deceive you?

I just wanted to make you notice that even though if you asked turkish men, the majority would say that they prefer to marry a virgin, it's just a preference, and in fact in the end there're a lot who do not marry with. They just hide from the society. In turkish society, the couples do not live together before marriage, but it does not mean that every couple stay away from sex.
I know as a turkish girl that there're a lot of young turkish girl who sleep with their boyfriends, yet they never go around talking about it, they hide it from their families and neighbours, and between friends they can very well pretend that they are virgins.

25.       catwoman
8933 posts
 10 Jul 2007 Tue 11:27 pm

Quoting mltm:

I just wanted to make you notice that even though if you asked turkish men, the majority would say that they prefer to marry with a virgin, it's just a preference, and in fact in the end there're a lot who do not marry with.
I know as a turkish girl that there're a lot of young turkish girl who sleep with their boyfriend, yet they never go around talking about it, they hide it from their families and neighbours, and between friends they can very well pretend that they are virgins.


Mltm finally spit out the truth about Turkish modern ideas! I feel so sorry for those boys and girls that have this mentality... The cult of virginity belongs to 7th century.

26.       femme_fatal
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 10 Jul 2007 Tue 11:28 pm

angime
why dont you believe her?

27.       mltm
3690 posts
 10 Jul 2007 Tue 11:40 pm

Quoting catwoman:

The cult of virginity belongs to 7th century.



I don't think it dates that old. Tell me in the beginnings of 1900s or even in the 1950s-60s in europe sex was not a taboo thing?

Societies evolve slowly. Today we can find turkish men who prefer to marry a virgin, but could marry with a non virgin. There are turkish men for whom virginity is not personally very important, but they say that it's important just to suit the society. And lastly there're turkish men although relatively rare who without any worry of society view say openly that for them virginity has no importance. I think this is already an evolution, until they completely understand that virgin girl is not equal to decent girl.


28.       bydand
755 posts
 10 Jul 2007 Tue 11:42 pm

I see the gang of three are out in force tonight

29.       aenigma x
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 10 Jul 2007 Tue 11:43 pm

Quoting mltm:

I think this is already an evolution, until they completely understand that virgin girl is not equal to decent girl.



+10000000000000000000

30.       aenigma x
0 posts
 10 Jul 2007 Tue 11:47 pm

Quoting bydand:

I see the gang of three are out in force tonight



Interesting to note your views about Turkish boyfriends

The "gang of three" you so love to keep referring to is nothing more than people who share opinions on some topics, but not all.

I know nothing about about Femme Fatal () and have only occasionally PM'd with Catwoman, so we are no more of a "gang" than you and Meltem were yesterday

Still, nice to see you back with your sarcastic one-liners.

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