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Being not married and having a child
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16 Jul 2007 Mon 06:48 pm |
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Quote: Quoting aenigma x: Quoting geniuda: sure the biggest fault on dad ,and so why passed that for its clear and known by everyone and really big shame or lack of self respect for a man,to leave her with a baby.. |
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Shame on BOTH of them for NOT using contraception! |
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16 Jul 2007 Mon 06:52 pm |
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Quote: Quoting MrX67: Quoting aenigma x: Quoting geniuda: sure the biggest fault on dad ,and so why passed that for its clear and known by everyoneand really big shame or lack of self respect for a man,to leave her with a baby.. |
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Shame on BOTH of them for NOT using contraception! |
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It was not intended to be a joke. I was following on from my post above. Why would you think it's funny? Sorry, but having a baby is a lifetime commitment, not some kind of joke. If you are old enough to have sex, you are old enough to make sure you PLAN a baby and don't let "accidents" happen.
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16 Jul 2007 Mon 06:59 pm |
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i think noone of us can't guess feelings of this kind kids,so really very important topic even more then conraception ....to make a baby very easy if you don't have any phsical problem but to creat a strong personality only posible a great harmony of dad&mum,hope its enough reason to be more serious..?
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16 Jul 2007 Mon 07:00 pm |
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Quoting MrX67: i think noone of us can't guess feelings of this kind kids,so really very important topic even more then conraception .... |
How can it be MORE important? If people were more responsible, we would not have to worry about the feelings of these chlidren. It's pretty basic stuff.
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16 Jul 2007 Mon 07:01 pm |
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Quoting aenigma x: I am afraid I have to disagree with you, for once Karekin!!! I think there is no excuse for "accidents" these days - its just selfishness and lack of responsibility that causes them (with only a very few exceptions).
Its one thing to be in love for a while and spend time together, but quite another to bring a human being into this world. It should be planned and both parents should think very hard about it. A baby not some kind of "seal" to a relationship, it's at lifetime commitment.
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p.s. how dare you disagree with me, see if I joing your gang! 
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16 Jul 2007 Mon 07:05 pm |
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Karekin!I think you are mistaking what I am saying - clearly, from what you say, your children were planned (it makes no difference if you are married or not, as long as both parents want to bring a human being into this world).
I feel very strongly about all these unplanned pregnancies as I used to work in this area and was sick of hearing about "my boyfriend didn't like using them" or "I can never remember to take pills" coming from parents who were so inept at caring for their children that they were on child-protection registers.
It makes my blood boil!!!!! 
PS I dare! 
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16 Jul 2007 Mon 07:05 pm |
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Quote: and how come a kid can get enough love without dad or mum?? |
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16 Jul 2007 Mon 07:10 pm |
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to have a kid,i think the one of most important decide in life which have to think about it thousands of time again and aagain be4 done,for creat a more peacfull,happily and loving generations...
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16 Jul 2007 Mon 07:13 pm |
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Quote: Quoting karekin04: and how come a kid can get enough love without dad or mum?? |
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16 Jul 2007 Mon 07:14 pm |
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i believe that happy societies based on happy families only with exceptions even.
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16 Jul 2007 Mon 07:15 pm |
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Quoting aenigma x: Karekin!I think you are mistaking what I am saying - clearly, from what you say, your children were planned (it makes no difference if you are married or not, as long as both parents want to bring a human being into this world).
I feel very strongly about all these unplanned pregnancies as I used to work in this area and was sick of hearing about "my boyfriend didn't like using them" or "I can never remember to take pills" coming from parents who were so inept at caring for their children that they were on child-protection registers.
It makes my blood boil!!!!!
PS I dare! |
My story is to bizarre to even share but it really doesn't fit in any scenerio
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