If you mean my own personal independence...like you are making a slam against my relationship. I have too much independence if anything. I have never been married for my 33 years and if I don't do it now, I will never have children. Plus it gets lonely after a while. I have a house, furnishings, car, dog, Masters degree, job... ALL BY MYSELF. I don't NEED a man I'm choosing to get married for the love and stability that comes from a partnership and to have a child. I still don't understand your comment based on some line he wrote on his MSN messenger.

Thanks for being helpful Marion. I still don't understand what AlphaF is talking about and hopes he/she explains him/herself.