bak canım beni anlamanı umuyorum ben işyeri satın almak istiyorum bu iş toplam 50000$ yarısını banka verecek kredi ama kalan yarısını vermem gerek buna gücüm yetmez eğer bana yardımcı olamazsan ben bunu başaramam tek başıma. sen kaç para bulursun diye sordum ama sende hiç para yok buda iş almamızı imkansız hale getiriyor .ev için yine en az 10000$ gerek kiralar bodrumda çok pahalı ev eşyalar gerek çok masraf gerek bütün bunlar beni aşar yani yapamam eğer sen yardım etmezsen .beni sakın yanlış anlama sen bu güne kadar yani bu yaş a kadar hiç bir şey yapmadınmı senin hiçmi sosyal güvencen yada emeklilik olmadı anlamıyorum. bu konuda bana yardımcı olamazsan para konusunda evde kiralayamam işyeride satın alamam çünkü buna gücüm yok bu kurduğumuz bütün hayaller boşa gider . bu durumda ben germany gitmek zorundayım because mart ayını beklemek boş because mart ayı da bir şey olmaz boşuna zaman kaybetmek istemiyorum . beni anla ve bağışla ve affet canım because sende para yok bende para yok çok zor olur onun için bu aşkımız yazık para için yok olacak beni anladın umarı canım ama seni asla unutmayacağım bebeğim

i don't understand much but i think he is asking for money. or maybe he is saying you are having difficulties with money, and him too... because of the word bank there and credit something... i guess other advanced TC can help you with this...

Look darling I hope you understand me. I want to buy a business. The total cost is 50000$. Half the bank will give me credit for but the other half I have to pay. I can't do this in my own strength. If you do not help me I can't succeed on my own. I asked you how much money you could find, but you don't have any money. This means it is impossible for us to buy this business. For the house we need at least 10000$. Rents in Bodrum are very expensive, we need furniture, there will be lots of expenses. These are all too much for me, in other words I can't do it if you don't help. Please don't misunderstand me. Haven't you done anything up to now, meaning up to this age, don't you have any social security or pension fund, I don't understand it. If you don't help me in this way I can't rent a house becasue of money, and I can't buy a business because I don't have the financial strength, and all of the dreams we made will be worthless. If this is the case I have to go to Germany, because it is no point waiting for March because nothing will happen in March and I will have wasted time waiting. Understand me and forgive me my darling because you don't have money and I don't have money it will be very hard. So it is a shame but our love will be destroyed because of money. I hope you understood me, my darling. But I will never forget you my baby.


Ohhh. I think you can understand him OK. Tell him not to waste YOUR time until March. Let him go to Germany now and find someone with a pension there!

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at least he is straight forward

Dear Astry1, Sorry but i have been reading the messages you have been posting and just cannot bear to sit back and say nothing any longer. I am begging you to please stop trying to convince this awful 'man' to be with you. You are losing all self respect and that is one thing a person should never do no matter how much they love someone. Can't you see what he wants and what he doesnt want? He wants money and he doesnt want you because you dont have any. I dont mean to sound harsh but you have to stop pleading with him. He is trying to emotionally manipulate and blackmail you because he knows how much you want to be with him. Open your eyes and find someone who will love you for what you have/havent got. Please stop wasting your time on this horrible, unkind person. My husband saw his message and he said just one thing - "disgusting". So please ask someone to formulate a message in Turkish telling he should be ashamed of himself... its like he is selling himself. And not for a cheap price either! I wish you well anyway. S