Turkish Translation |
|
|
|
|
|
e to T please
|
| 1. |
12 Dec 2007 Wed 04:15 pm |
|
darling another idea I thought of is for me to get a small business loan when I am in England small enough for me to pay back every month but still enough to be able to renta house or start the business, there it much easier to do something like that. or I will get a credit card again.whatever I will find a way for us to be together.. I suppose your family hates me for being a different culture or older than you? whatever their reason I wish they could siomply understand and be happy for you that you have someone who truly cares.I love you very much I have no doubts about us at all.
|
|
| 2. |
14 Dec 2007 Fri 07:31 pm |
|
If anyone cares at all about this woman, PLEASE DO NOT TRANSLATE this one for her. It would be cruel to her in the long term. She knows not what she says, only what she wants.
Astray, how old are you anyway? are you a 16 year old teeny bopper or a 61 year old with dimensia??
|
|
| 3. |
14 Dec 2007 Fri 08:19 pm |
|
Well thank you for your concerns! I guess I take people at face value and see the good in them! and love makes you blind so they say anyway!
|
|
| 4. |
14 Dec 2007 Fri 08:23 pm |
|
well at least Astry's dudu gives decent reasons for breakup...Mine said I love sex too much so he can't be with me :s
|
|
| 5. |
14 Dec 2007 Fri 09:59 pm |
|
we have decided not to break up just see how it goes..he really does care you know inspite of how you all percieve him to be.
oh wow first time I heard a man say too much! most like as much as they can get!
please can someone translate anyway!
I know my head is on the chopping block but I am now addicted to love!
|
|
| 6. |
14 Dec 2007 Fri 10:20 pm |
|
Quoting Delidolu: well at least Astry's dudu gives decent reasons for breakup...Mine said I love sex too much so he can't be with me :s |
:-S maybe he trained to be a monk.))
|
|
| 7. |
14 Dec 2007 Fri 11:01 pm |
|
Quoting portokal: Quoting Delidolu: well at least Astry's dudu gives decent reasons for breakup...Mine said I love sex too much so he can't be with me :s |
:-S maybe he trained to be a monk.)) |
or maybe a monkey trainer?
|
|
| 8. |
14 Dec 2007 Fri 11:11 pm |
|
Quoting shama-uk: Quoting portokal: Quoting Delidolu: well at least Astry's dudu gives decent reasons for breakup...Mine said I love sex too much so he can't be with me :s |
:-S maybe he trained to be a monk.)) |
or maybe a monkey trainer? |
first case for amorality, second for stupidity, neither would have been fit for Deli Dolu.)))
|
|
| 9. |
15 Dec 2007 Sat 12:42 pm |
|
Well his first reason was religion (though I had told him I don't mind converting into a muslim and after learning everything there is to learn abt his religion)
Second was the sex thing ("You like sex too much and I can't be with u all the time,because of distance")
Third was the "different dreams" (he is a pilot I want to be an author)
Decent enough I guess!!!
|
|
| 10. |
15 Dec 2007 Sat 01:30 pm |
|
Quoting Delidolu: Well his first reason was religion (though I had told him I don't mind converting into a muslim and after learning everything there is to learn abt his religion)
Second was the sex thing ("You like sex too much and I can't be with u all the time,because of distance")
Third was the "different dreams" (he is a pilot I want to be an author)
Decent enough I guess!!! |
Absolutely. He sounds like a genuinely decent person - though i do think he has missed out on a great relationship with you. At least you have kept your sense of dignity and not chased him like some crazy women on this site. I am not surprised us Western women get a bad name. Some just wont take no for an answer or refuse to read the flashing warning signs. It is because of them that Dudu's exist at all. Some women are old enough to be their dudu's grandmother. What in the hell do they think a boy who is barely out of nappies would want from them? Electrical goods and a bit of money and then its "Adios askimcanimbenimsevgilim". And then the next desperado turns up on a 2 week package holiday and the Dudus are on a roll again for another few months. Good little business men, no?
|
|
| 11. |
15 Dec 2007 Sat 01:35 pm |
|
I love your posts Shama! You always seem to say what I am thinking 
The other thing that really bugs me is the "fairwell messages" sent by these women (that rarely are the last) which go along the lines of "I will always love you, my life is nothing without you, but I just can't do this anymore....".
I suppose that they are sent in the hope that he will suddenly change his mind just because she "will always love him".
What they actually do his push him away even further and leave you with zero pride left!
|
|
| 12. |
15 Dec 2007 Sat 03:34 pm |
|
Quoting AEnigma III: I love your posts Shama! You always seem to say what I am thinking 
The other thing that really bugs me is the "fairwell messages" sent by these women (that rarely are the last) which go along the lines of "I will always love you, my life is nothing without you, but I just can't do this anymore....".
I suppose that they are sent in the hope that he will suddenly change his mind just because she "will always love him".
What they actually do his push him away even further and leave you with zero pride left! |
Thank you AIII -- And i agree 100% with you. My personal mantra is "Why would/should I give my love to you if you dont/won't give me any love back?! It's like rowing a boat with someone. You think you are both putting in an equal amount of effort into rowing the boat to paradise only to turn around to see Mr Dudu sitting behind you with his feet up, having a fag while you are sweating your guts out to keep the boat going. So my advice to anyone is if you find that you are the only one rowing the boat - find the strength to throw the bugger off in the deep end -- without a life jacket. A relationship is only a relationship when there are 2 committed people in it striving for the same thing. Anything less is just a farce. For me, there is no such thing as love-at-first-sight. A person's CHARACTER is what is important and that will determine your future. Going only for someone's PERSONALITY is not enough. Afterall, anyone can put on a show for a while but its hard to hide your true character for very long. Ok, that's enough preaching from me for the time being xx
|
|
| 13. |
15 Dec 2007 Sat 03:38 pm |
|
Quoting shama-uk: It's like rowing a boat with someone. You think you are both putting in an equal amount of effort into rowing the boat to paradise only to turn around to see Mr Dudu sitting behind you with his feet up, having a fag while you are sweating your guts out to keep the boat going. So my advice to anyone is if you find that you are the only one rowing the boat - find the strength to throw the bugger off in the deep end -- without a life jacket. |
+10000 nicely put!
|
|
| 14. |
15 Dec 2007 Sat 05:27 pm |
|
Quote: Quote:
Decent enough I guess!!! |
Absolutely. He sounds like a genuinely decent person - though i do think he has missed out on a great relationship with you. At least you have kept your sense of dignity and not chased him like some crazy women on this site. I am not surprised us Western women get a bad name. Some just wont take no for an answer or refuse to read the flashing warning signs. It is because of them that Dudu's exist at all. Some women are old enough to be their dudu's grandmother. What in the hell do they think a boy who is barely out of nappies would want from them? Electrical goods and a bit of money and then its "Adios askimcanimbenimsevgilim". And then the next desperado turns up on a 2 week package holiday and the Dudus are on a roll again for another few months. Good little business men, no? |
he IS a genuinly decent person yes....decent enough to block and delete me from his msn and NOT reply to my "happy birthday" sms but anw...As for the Western women well,it's norml I think for them to fall in love..I mean what else is there to enjoy after having a family and a broken marriage and an ex-husband who is a jerk?Let them live,it's not a big deal as long as tey are happy I think it's worth it.
|
|
| 15. |
15 Dec 2007 Sat 05:51 pm |
|
Quote: Quote: Quoting Delidolu:
Decent enough I guess!!! |
Absolutely. He sounds like a genuinely decent person - though i do think he has missed out on a great relationship with you. At least you have kept your sense of dignity and not chased him like some crazy women on this site. I am not surprised us Western women get a bad name. Some just wont take no for an answer or refuse to read the flashing warning signs. It is because of them that Dudu's exist at all. Some women are old enough to be their dudu's grandmother. What in the hell do they think a boy who is barely out of nappies would want from them? Electrical goods and a bit of money and then its "Adios askimcanimbenimsevgilim". And then the next desperado turns up on a 2 week package holiday and the Dudus are on a roll again for another few months. Good little business men, no? |
he IS a genuinly decent person yes....decent enough to block and delete me from his msn and NOT reply to my "happy birthday" sms but anw...As for the Western women well,it's norml I think for them to fall in love..I mean what else is there to enjoy after having a family and a broken marriage and an ex-husband who is a jerk?Let them live,it's not a big deal as long as tey are happy I think it's worth it. |
Ahh now that's a revelation - he blocked you??! You were probably harassing the life out of the poor man!! But you had fun, yes?! Anyway, on reflection, you are right. I guess i have been in the legal profession for far too long - fair treatment and justice is instilled in my bones. Maybe I need to chill out..
|
|
| 16. |
15 Dec 2007 Sat 05:59 pm |
|
Quote: Ahh now that's a revelation - he blocked you??! You were probably harassing the life out of the poor man!! But you had fun, yes?! Anyway, on reflection, you are right. I guess i have been in the legal profession for far too long - fair treatment and justice is instilled in my bones. Maybe I need to chill out.. |
harassing him with a short message every two weeks where I said "hope ur alive" coz he's an F16 pilot.
|
|
| 17. |
15 Dec 2007 Sat 06:09 pm |
|
Quote: Quote: Ahh now that's a revelation - he blocked you??! You were probably harassing the life out of the poor man!! But you had fun, yes?! Anyway, on reflection, you are right. I guess i have been in the legal profession for far too long - fair treatment and justice is instilled in my bones. Maybe I need to chill out.. |
harassing him with a short message every two weeks where I said "hope ur alive" coz he's an F16 pilot.  |
Well some might consider it harassment if for every 4 texts being sent out only 1 was being responded to... Sounds as if he was a Turkish Tom Cruise. If so, I wouldn't be sorry for getting arrested under the Anti- Harrassment law. It would have been a pleasure...x
|
|
| 18. |
15 Dec 2007 Sat 06:27 pm |
|
Quoting shama-uk: I guess i have been in the legal profession for far too long - fair treatment and justice is instilled in my bones. Maybe I need to chill out.. |
Please dont "chill out" Shama - don't give up the fight!
|
|
| 19. |
15 Dec 2007 Sat 06:49 pm |
|
Quote: Well some might consider it harassment if for every 4 texts being sent out only 1 was being responded to... Sounds as if he was a Turkish Tom Cruise. If so, I wouldn't be sorry for getting arrested under the Anti- Harrassment law. It would have been a pleasure...x |
ahhhh...Much better then Tom I tell ya...Much more handsome...[ ] He DID tell me that he wants me in his life no matter what and he DID talk to me after the breakup and his best friend still talks to me everyday (btw his best friend didn't know that he had blocked and deleted me)Oh well,I guess he found a new girl there.
|
|
| 20. |
15 Dec 2007 Sat 06:52 pm |
|
Quoting AEnigma III: Quoting shama-uk: I guess i have been in the legal profession for far too long - fair treatment and justice is instilled in my bones. Maybe I need to chill out.. |
Please dont "chill out" Shama - don't give up the fight!  |
Very well Comrade I am ready to continue to fight on! Onwards and upwards! But first i need to finish the ironing (groan groan)!
|
|
| 21. |
15 Dec 2007 Sat 09:35 pm |
|
Quote: Quote: Well some might consider it harassment if for every 4 texts being sent out only 1 was being responded to... Sounds as if he was a Turkish Tom Cruise. If so, I wouldn't be sorry for getting arrested under the Anti- Harrassment law. It would have been a pleasure...x |
ahhhh...Much better then Tom I tell ya...Much more handsome...[ ] He DID tell me that he wants me in his life no matter what and he DID talk to me after the breakup and his best friend still talks to me everyday (btw his best friend didn't know that he had blocked and deleted me)Oh well,I guess he found a new girl there. |
i think his best friend looks almost as handsome and so much wiser than he.)))
|
|
| 22. |
15 Dec 2007 Sat 09:42 pm |
|
Quote:
i think his best friend looks almost as handsome and so much wiser than he.))) |
nope!best friend is not as handsome...but is a cool guy and he was very sorry abt me. No more turkish dudus for me though!My heart's still in Istanbul Trying to get it back...Can't afford losing it again Western women can have as many dudus as they want I don't want any more
|
|
| 23. |
16 Dec 2007 Sun 02:15 am |
|
Quote: Quoting Delidolu:
i think his best friend looks almost as handsome and so much wiser than he.))) |
nope!best friend is not as handsome...but is a cool guy and he was very sorry abt me. No more turkish dudus for me though!My heart's still in Istanbul Trying to get it back...Can't afford losing it again Western women can have as many dudus as they want I don't want any more  |
Here are some thoughts from a teacher of tai chi:
Be thankful to those who hurt you, because they strengthened your will.
Be thankful to those who cheated you, because they widened your horizons.
Be thankful to those who hauled you over the coals because they augmented your wisdom.
Be thankful to all those who made you stronger and completed you.
Hope this will help you to get your heart back faster.
|
|
| 24. |
16 Dec 2007 Sun 11:30 am |
|
Quote: Quoting portokal: Quoting Delidolu:
i think his best friend looks almost as handsome and so much wiser than he.))) |
nope!best friend is not as handsome...but is a cool guy and he was very sorry abt me. No more turkish dudus for me though!My heart's still in Istanbul Trying to get it back...Can't afford losing it again Western women can have as many dudus as they want I don't want any more  |
Here are some thoughts from a teacher of tai chi:
Be thankful to those who hurt you, because they strengthened your will.
Be thankful to those who cheated you, because they widened your horizons.
Be thankful to those who hauled you over the coals because they augmented your wisdom.
Be thankful to all those who made you stronger and completed you.
Hope this will help you to get your heart back faster.
|
and here some from Zen philosophy
Life is the only thing worth living for.
Better to sit all night than to go to bed with a dragon.
"Ten thousand flowers in spring
the moon in autumn,
a cool breeze in summer,
snow in winter.
If your mind isn't clouded by unnecessary things,
this is the best season of your life."
Wu-men
|
|
| 25. |
16 Dec 2007 Sun 01:13 pm |
|
Quote: Quoting kafesteki kus: Quoting portokal: Quoting Delidolu:
i think his best friend looks almost as handsome and so much wiser than he.))) |
nope!best friend is not as handsome...but is a cool guy and he was very sorry abt me. No more turkish dudus for me though!My heart's still in Istanbul Trying to get it back...Can't afford losing it again Western women can have as many dudus as they want I don't want any more  |
Here are some thoughts from a teacher of tai chi:
Be thankful to those who hurt you, because they strengthened your will.
Be thankful to those who cheated you, because they widened your horizons.
Be thankful to those who hauled you over the coals because they augmented your wisdom.
Be thankful to all those who made you stronger and completed you.
Hope this will help you to get your heart back faster.
|
and here some from Zen philosophy
Life is the only thing worth living for.
Better to sit all night than to go to bed with a dragon.
'Ten thousand flowers in spring
the moon in autumn,
a cool breeze in summer,
snow in winter.
If your mind isn't clouded by unnecessary things,
this is the best season of your life.'
Wu-men
|
Be prompt and active as the Sylphs, but avoid frivolity and caprice;
be energetic and strong like the Salamanders, but avoid irritability and ferocity;
be flexible and attentive to images like the Undines, but avoid idleness and changeability;
be laborious and patient like the Gnomes, but avoid grossness and avarice.
|
|
|