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Trust your instincts??
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23 Jun 2008 Mon 12:31 am |
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Ha ha of course! (though you could be weird too!)
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23 Jun 2008 Mon 01:18 am |
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Personally hobnob I would have mentioned to the hairdresser - perhaps he was trying it on to get some reaction - (even testing you for the b/f's sake which I think is sick as I know some turkish men wouldw do this!) I have had the same thing happen in a hairdresser - if women dont speak up then we will be treated as victims and men will take advantage more. I would have said something like 'shame on you' and personally insulted him, whether it was your boyfriend's friend or not. Then the ball is in his court, whether he would say to your b/f but I believe he would have probably been too embarassed to say to your b/f. We shouldnt sweep stuff like this under the carpet, its important we say how we feel.
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23 Jun 2008 Mon 01:30 am |
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Turkish guys are very jealous have you considered your boyfriend was testing you
I hope he is as virtuous as you
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23 Jun 2008 Mon 01:32 am |
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Quoting sonunda: Ha ha of course! (though you could be weird too!) |
Who you calling weird 
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23 Jun 2008 Mon 01:34 am |
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Silversong the exact thoughts came also to my mind: the boyfriend was testing her
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23 Jun 2008 Mon 01:39 am |
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Quoting Roswitha: Silversong the exact thoughts came also to my mind: the boyfriend was testing her |
I dont think it was a test by her bf..
I dont know any half way decent Turkish man testing his gf by letting other men touching her..
And I dont think it is a good idea to let the bf know this incident..
Because it may result in something nasty..
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23 Jun 2008 Mon 01:40 am |
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Quoting Roswitha: Silversong the exact thoughts came also to my mind: the boyfriend was testing her |
Thank you I'm glad I'm not alone in thinking this
it was his friend who did the deed
been there done that(I didn't do it had it done to me) got the t shirt
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23 Jun 2008 Mon 01:44 am |
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Quoting yarimturklass: I would have said something like 'shame on you' and personally insulted him, whether it was your boyfriend's friend or not. Then the ball is in his court, whether he would say to your b/f but I believe he would have probably been too embarassed to say to your b/f. |
I agree but a bit difficult when he is the one holding the scissors - he might have taken it out on her hair!!
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23 Jun 2008 Mon 01:44 am |
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did I mention I go to the hairdressers twice a week 
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23 Jun 2008 Mon 02:50 am |
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Yes thehandsom but they do! And we don't know if he is I a half way decent Turkish man now do we?
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23 Jun 2008 Mon 05:44 am |
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Quoting yarimturklass: Personally hobnob I would have mentioned to the hairdresser - perhaps he was trying it on to get some reaction - (even testing you for the b/f's sake which I think is sick as I know some turkish men wouldw do this!) I have had the same thing happen in a hairdresser - if women dont speak up then we will be treated as victims and men will take advantage more. I would have said something like 'shame on you' and personally insulted him, whether it was your boyfriend's friend or not. Then the ball is in his court, whether he would say to your b/f but I believe he would have probably been too embarassed to say to your b/f. We shouldnt sweep stuff like this under the carpet, its important we say how we feel. |
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