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A Turkish husband
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21 Aug 2008 Thu 12:16 am |
İ find myself agree with most that have been said here
Just take care,and put your hopes so high,and remember that,
Turkish men...STİLL men
They are not angels dear,so just be careful or else you will find yourself running from a hell you are living in made by the society,to another hell you made it by yourself
Open your eyes as many girls here adviced you,and remember to judge a man from his behaviour,from his acts,not just from his words
Best of luck in making your dream come true 
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21 Aug 2008 Thu 12:24 am |
İ find myself agree with most that have been said here
Just take care,and put your hopes so high,and remember that,
Turkish men...STİLL men
They are not angels dear,so just be careful or else you will find yourself running from a hell you are living in made by the society,to another hell you made it by yourself
Open your eyes as many girls here adviced you,and remember to judge a man from his behaviour,from his acts,not just from his words
Best of luck in making your dream come true 
Excellent point Canli, I think if you know people who know the person you are interested in, and know their friends and family you have a better chance for success. You can tell a lot about a person by seeing who they keep as friends.
Most important, when you make your marriage contract, be very specific in what you want and get it in writing. Don´t give any of your rights away because you want to get married.
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21 Aug 2008 Thu 12:28 am |
Excellent point Canli, I think if you know people who know the person you are interested in, and know their friends and family you have a better chance for success. You can tell a lot about a person by seeing who they keep as friends.
Most important, when you make your marriage contract, be very specific in what you want and get it in writing. Don´t give any of your rights away because you want to get married.
I´m taking notes and saving to my notepad 
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21 Aug 2008 Thu 01:19 am |
Hello Fatimah, Are you planning to travel to Turkey? If you want to find a good man it´s better you met him face-to-face! Because it is true that words are easily said (or typed ). Take your time, you´re young!
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21 Aug 2008 Thu 02:01 am |
I think you did make a generalization doudi, now what is wrong with other gulf countries , we are not saudi, and ask anyone who lived in the gulf.
heck I can´t even live in saudi and I´m their neighbor. 
In bahrain and kuwait girls don´t even wear any hijab if that what you think will oppress women (i think hijab is a personal choice and not oppressive in the least), women in all gulf countries can drive, they can work with men, no problems.
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21 Aug 2008 Thu 02:11 am |
I think you did make a generalization doudi, now what is wrong with other gulf countries , we are not saudi, and ask anyone who lived in the gulf.
heck I can´t even live in saudi and I´m their neighbor. 
In bahrain and kuwait girls don´t even wear any hijab if that what you think will oppress women (i think hijab is a personal choice and not oppressive in the least), they can drive, and work with men, no problems
Where in the Gulf are you Wadjas? Bahrain, Kuwait, Oman, Qatar, and the United Arab Emirates (UAE)? Are you a National?
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21 Aug 2008 Thu 02:12 am |
I´m from Qatar, yes i´m a national
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21 Aug 2008 Thu 02:57 am |
I´m from Qatar, yes i´m a national
Interesting. Qatar has gone through amazing transformation in the last 20 years! Absolutly amazing! In fact the whole Gulf has gone through amazing transformation since 1972 when the UAE was formed. I have been following their development. Well done.
I have a first edition of Wilfred Thesiger´s Arabian Sands. Have you seen it or read it?
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21 Aug 2008 Thu 03:00 am |
Interesting. Qatar has gone through amazing transformation in the last 20 years! Absolutly amazing! In fact the whole Gulf has gone through amazing transformation since 1972 when the UAE was formed. I have been following their development. Well done.
I have a first edition of Wilfred Thesiger´s Arabian Sands. Have you seen it or read it?
What has this to do with the topic of Turkish men´s suitability as husbands?? 
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21 Aug 2008 Thu 03:30 am |
Jill, don´t you think you are a bit harsh with your last comment. Why not let her express her views and opinions..............Meine Allergnaedigste!

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21 Aug 2008 Thu 04:58 am |
What has this to do with the topic of Turkish men´s suitability as husbands?? 
Well LIR, seeing as we are in a conversation with ladies from these areas, and one wants to marry a Turkish man, it is relevant.
One woman is a Yemani living in Saudi Arabia, another is from a Gulf State and there are others in different parts of the Arabian Peninsula.
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