tebrikler deli kadir...

Long time no use.

I just filled in my application form for the visa. Everything seems to become more concrete Friday morning between 9 and 12 I will be in the Turkish Consulate in Rotterdam. Pray for me

Also, earlier this evening I had a first vaccin against Hepatitis A. There, they adviced me to come for another re-vaccin of the same, also one for Hepatitis B and anotehr re-vaccin of Hepatitis right before I leave in September.. and another one for common illnesses. I HATE GETTING VACCINATED.

But it still feels good to do things for the preparation of moving to Türkiye

Hmmm, ok, I understand now.

BTW now I'm thinking that I never got vaccinated against hepatit, maybe I should sometime.

Friday morning I will go to the Embassy. I won't be online till Monday probably, but i hope i can come back with good news


The bad news is that, Kadir feels really bad about his exams. This means it is likely that he has to take the final resit in August. As I'm there at the end of July, that would be his studying time for the exam. I hope the rest of his exams go well so that he won't have to take it, otherwise it will mean we can't spend so much time together again. If I ever get to lay my hands on 'fate', i'll kick its ass

Dear friends,

Last friday, I got my Turkish visa in my passport It took some hours waiting in a big Turkish crowd with no one speaking Dutch, but i managed to struggle through and got my visa I'm very happy about this, as it gives concrete forms to my plans. Still, my parents are not sure if they want me to go. At least, they wonder where to get the money from. This is the reason I haven't been online much.. I'm working my bum off to save up at least a 1000€, to show them I'm willing to work hard for it. I just hope it all goes allright, but thought I should letyou know i got the visa.

Secondly, i had to sign a paper in which i said i was aware of the fact i cannot work in Turkey with the visa i received, but also that I have to go to the police department within one month of arrival, to confirm my stay and to pay for this. I already paid 55 euros for the visa-sticker, and I wonder what these costs are? I couldn't find them out, can someone tell me where I might find more info?
Thanks.

That is great news DK (well i already knew, but it is still great news!!! !).

I miss you here lately - welcome back. Now, as well as working hard, you need to work hard on your parents too ! Now...go to bed

Hi everybody,

Just a small update on thıs long-forgottn thread!

Sunday night I arrıved at İzmir airport! So far my first 2 days have been good. My apartment looks really fine, though I hope Kadir will help me paint the walls because I don't like them this way We bought a fridge and some other household stuff, and I hope we soon will get me a bed and a couch so that I can live there.

The view is amazing, especially at night. Then the lights on the other side of the sea at Karşıyaka seem to magically shine ahead of you!

I joıned my first İftar and had dinner at a friend last night, who all do the fasting. During the day Kadir and I take care not really to eat ın front of hıs frıends because ıt makes me (and them prbably too ) feel very uncomfortable.

In two weeks we will go to Ankara to visit his parents and brother again. I'm really curious to this city.

Well, it's already ten oclock so I better get dressed and everything so that I can wash the dishes and take some photos of the view for my parents

Haydı bai bai!

DK!!!!!! Thank you for the update . I have been wondering about you and glad to know you are ok and are settling into your apartment well.

Take care dear DK - don't be a stranger here

ELLERİME SAĞLİK ARKADAŞLAARRR!!!

Today I invited Gözde and Deniz over and I made kuzu pilavı for them and kadir and as a big surprise it actually became a real success!!!

But I wont forget the threads in which people helped me about my cooking fears Thank youuuuu!

Who is this Kadir guy? A famous pop singer or an actor...?

No, I don't. If it is not the Kadir whom everybody knows in Turkey. (It is Kadir İnanır)

How come do many people know that Kadir on here?

Kadir benim sevgilim!!

Sophie (hey where are you and HOW are you??) gave me this thread because she was annoyed that I was talking abıout him everywhere on TC hehe. Now Im sort of using it to update about my stay in Turkey.

Hope this answers all the questions.

Deli Kızın,

I will die at peace and rest in peace the day I read your post without Kadir!

deli_kizin, some girls might get jealous of your Kadir and you might have him stolen

Don't trust yourselves that much, ladies.
The woman who has been regarded as the most beautiful woman in Turkey for ages (even though she is in her forties) has had his husband stolen (stolen by an another woman who is even less beautiful than her. you might know who the woman is. It is Hülya Avşar.

Women likes stealing other women's (who are more beautiful and attractive than them) men. I think it is just to appease their female vanity by implying "Your man has prefered me to YOU. It doesn't matter how beautiful and attractive you are. He is mine from now on but not yours any longer." Men go to the gym or buy the most expensive suit or car to attract women. On the other hand women do such things as going to the gym, making up, dressing nice not to attract men only but to compete with other women.

As you know very well, ladies that the part who starts and ends a relationship whenever it wishes is women. The world turns around you. Women are superior to men in contrary to it is regarded by some. I dont think if women didn't exist there wouldn't be such things as a mercedes car or expensive suits.

Are you tellig me you have never ever had a look at (at least glimpsed)and wished to be inside a luxurious car passing by while walking on pavements? It doesn't make you a predator.

And also I haven't said anything implying that all the women are predators. In fact what I am talking about is not about the preys and predators, but about the natures of both sexes.

I have to strongly agree with aenigma_X here. This posting is a bit outrageous and certainly an outdated view. It's important to say we can't speak for "all women" or "all men". But, I don't have any friends who desire a flashy car that costs a fortune to be seen a "status symbol". I do know a flashy car is often more important and attractive to men.

Most women are now economically independent, and seek a partner, not based on superficial qualities, but rather spiritual, intellectual and emotional depth. A mercedes is easy to come by, but these qualities are not.

In terms of sharp dress. Of course both sexes like to look and feel attractive and sexy. It is a part of being human. It's a way one uniquely expresses oneself. Do we like to impress men, to be looked at and admired. Of course- who doesn't? But it's more for personal gratification and expression.

There are men and women out there who seek "expensive things" and perhaps a "token beautiful woman by thier side" because they are insecure, and feels this upgrades, or improves their poor self image- but my gosh, it is certainly not the norm in society.

I like nice things, and I work hard to earn money to buy them.

Look here This car was my step dads pride and joy and loved driving it..but because of it's lack of use he decided to sell it but when he did have it he did not show it off apart from when he took it to corvette/car shows where they would all meet up to share their interests.

And just because we had a car like this does not mean we are filthy rich or like to impress any one...like Aenigma said... my step dad also bought this car because he wanted it and worked hard for it, not because he wanted to show it off.
So not everyone buys material goods to impress another person but only for themselves (self enjoyment)

well everyone dresses how they feel comfortable and often those who wear the most revealing clothes do so because they are trying to reassure themselves that they are attractive and are trying to hide low confidence..for the same reason most women i know are happy to be ogled by men because it means they are still 'wanted' in a sense...weird but when peiople think about it when a woman wants to be noticed they normally show some cleavage or a bit of leg
anyways not sure how this is related to the original thread

Haha yes I knew about Hülya Avşar. Hear İbo proposing to her in his show as well after she made fun of him earlier that week.

To return to the subject. Qdemir, I think the reason of membership for most of the girls here is the fact they have their own love. I don't think they need mine. And İ dont think anyone has got what it takes , so I dont worry about a thing here.

Hmm, I like dressing up, and looking good when I go out. I also don't mind getting attention. No, I don't need men staring at me. But, isn't it nice every once in awhile if someone notices you. Think about this, why are some people so absorbed in brand name clothing? Is it the texture of the material or the slogan & brand name on the clothes itself? Sometimes I tend to wonder. But I am guilty of this too.

In fact I was trying to criticize men in my original post. However it has turned out to be otherwise. I am sorry if I have offended anyone. But I would like to point out that whenever men are criticized severely on here I have never get offended and take it personally.

...and you did not send that millionaire to me, kaplan... ...I thought we were true friends!!!

...lacking zillionaires...a millionaire could do...at least for breakfast...

THIS THREAD IS NOW RESUMING AS THE KADIR THREAD!
(Besides DK is ill - and she needs her thread back )

Excellent as long as they don't have a download limit and catch you! Be carefuk what you look at and carry on!!!

Good GIRL!!! Yummy! Get yourself better soon!