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100.       Queent
183 posts
 22 Jun 2009 Mon 10:59 pm

 

Quoting christine

 

 

 You tell me

 

Oh really?

When, Where and How???

101.       christine
443 posts
 22 Jun 2009 Mon 11:06 pm

 

Quoting Queent

 

 

Oh really?

When, Where and How???

 

 When!! whenever you want, Where!! on TC, How!! writting.

102.       Queent
183 posts
 22 Jun 2009 Mon 11:10 pm

 

Quoting christine

 

 

 When!! whenever you want, Where!! on TC, How!! writting.

 

Yes hmmmm not for you but for who´s in light.



Edited (6/22/2009) by Queent

103.       christine
443 posts
 22 Jun 2009 Mon 11:17 pm

 

Quoting Queent

 

 

Yes hmmmm not for you but for who´s in light.

 

 What?

104.       lady in red
6947 posts
 22 Jun 2009 Mon 11:20 pm

http://www.usatoday.com/news/world/iraq/2005-05-04-pleasure-marriage_x.ht 

http://www.memri.org/bin/opener.cgi?ID=IA29106

http://www.al-islam.org/encyclopedia/chapter6a/1.html

 

Some links to the subject above - are they all complete rubbish Alameda and QueenT? 

105.       bebeq
19 posts
 22 Jun 2009 Mon 11:22 pm

srry



Edited (6/22/2009) by bebeq

106.       bebeq
19 posts
 22 Jun 2009 Mon 11:25 pm

sometimes i laugh alot...who never read Quran comin here talkin about muslim women? at least read Quran and our prophet Muhammed(s.a.v) mesaj about isLam then only u ll understnd more about muslim women... people hear somethin and comin comment here ...Im turkish and i never saw such things as u guys talkin...

 

   In isLam women and man Same...and Quran also sayin if u not behave good to your women..u r not from us..(real mumin)

 

   our prophet got 12 wives ...but got reason....i don care  what arap doin or others ...open and read BOOK to learn..don look people bfre  u complain about..

107.       bebeq
19 posts
 22 Jun 2009 Mon 11:31 pm


THE LORD´S MERCY TOWARD WOMEN




God tells us that with the Qur’an, He brought “glory and honor” (Qur’an, 23;71) to human beings. He gives prosperity to everyone who practices the morality of Islam and follows the path that He has revealed in the Qur’an. And the only way for some women to escape all the anxieties that ignorant societies subject them to, and to gain the respect they deserve, is to be found in the Qur’an, revealed to our Prophet (saas) so that human beings could come out of darkness and enter into light.

 

In many verses of the Qur’an, God protects women and defends their rights, removes wrong ideas about women current in ignorant societies, and grants them a respected place in society. The Qur’an tells us that in the sight of God, the measure of a human being’s worth lies not in gender; but in the fear of God, in faith, moral perfection, sincerity towards God and piety (taqwa). All these verses are proofs of our Lord’s incomparable generosity toward women.

 


O Humanity! We created you from a male and female, and made you into peoples and tribes so that you might come to know each other. The noblest among you in Allah’s sight is the one of you who best performs his duty. Allah is All-Knowing, All-Aware. (Qur’an, 49:13)

 

Children of Adam! We have sent down clothing to you to conceal your private parts, and fine apparel, but the garment of heedfulness--that is best! That is one of Allah’s Signs, so that hopefully you will pay heed. (Qur’an, 7:26)


 

Elsewhere in the Qur’an, God says “Whatever good you do, Allah knows it. Take provision; but the best provision is fear of Allah. So have fear of Me, people of intelligence!” (Qur’an, 2:197). He tells us that the best quality a human being can have is piety. Therefore, it must be piety, chiefly, that gives humans their basic value and superiority in God’s sight. In the Qur’an, God says: “The men and women who give charity and make a good loan to Allah will have it increased for them and they will have a generous reward.” (Qur’an, 57:18)

 

This verse reminds both women and men that they will receive a true reward of supreme honor by living the moral life that God has directed. Women and men have different physical characteristics, of course, but this is not the reason for either gender’s superiority. In another verse, God says that wealth has become a measure of superiority in the minds of some people, but it is more acceptable to desire God’s generosity:

 


Do not covet what Allah has given to some of you in preference to others—men have a portion of what they acquire and women have a portion of what they acquire; but ask Allah for His bounty. Allah has knowledge of all things. (Qur’an, 4:32)


 

In the Qur’an, God has told us what must be done to protect and care for women in society and give them the respect they deserve. All these measures are for their sake so that women will not be harmed or oppressed.

 

In the Qur’an,God has shown humanity the true path and has vitiated the false practices of ignorant belief. According to Islamic morality, the important thing is not being born a man or a woman, but to be attached to God with deep faith and fear. Carefully obeying God’s commands and prohibitions is to try to live as best one can according to the moral teachings of the Qur’an. Such a character will be of a person’s true value in the sight of God.

 

In the Qur’an, God explains the basic qualities that anyone of faith must have, whether he be a man or a woman:

 


The men and women of the believers are friends of one another. They command what is right and forbid what is wrong, and perform prayer and give the alms, and obey Allah and His Messenger. They are the people on whom Allah will have mercy. Allah is Almighty, All-Wise. (Qur’an, 9:71)


 

As God tells us in the Qur’an, believing women and men are responsible for worshipping, living according to the moral teachings of the Qur’an, urging others to engage in good and refrain from evil, and obeying all His commands and exhortations in the Qur’an. God has promised to give to all persons, to both men or women alike, “discrimination” (Qur’an, 8:29). In return for their faith and sincerity, God will guide individuals in every field of life and bring them on the right path toward Himself. He will help them to make right decisions and behave correctly; and He will give them intelligence, understanding and perception. Therefore, intelligence is not based on a person’s gender; it comes totally from the fear of God and a sincere attachment and closeness to Him.

 

Every man or woman who acts according the intelligence derived from faith may surpass many others and can attain success in every area of life. This depends completely on the individual’s will, zeal and determination. In accordance with the precepts of Islamic morality, no people of faith will ever consider themselves to be perfect in any way. Rather, they always strive to be more intelligent, more able, more responsible, more developed in their character and more successful at leading a good moral life. In so far as hey can, they will try to develop themselves in every area. In the Qur’an, God tells that believers pray to Him so that they provide examples of good character to those around them:

 


[Believers are] those who say, “Our Lord, give us joy in our wives and children and make us a good example for those who guard against evil.” (Qur’an, 25:74)


 

A Muslim woman who tries to do her best in everything and be a fine example to everyone with her character, moral rectitude and personality will, God willing, also attain a high position in her society. She carries out her every responsibility as best she can, makes the most appropriate decisions, finds the best solutions to problems and puts the best measures into effect.

 

We can see that according to the moral practice of Islam, men and women are completely equal in society. By means of the Qur’an, the All-Merciful Allah has nullified the distinctions that all ignorant belief systems make between men and women; and He has commanded that women be given the value they deserve. All this depends totally on the strength of men’s—and women’s—faith in God as well as on their moral character and the responsibilities they assume. Therefore, women who embrace Islamic morality never need to struggle for equality with men; they enter, instead, into a moral “contest” of worthiness. In the contest of goodness, those with faith must show their best efforts to earn God’s good pleasure at every moment of their lives.

 

With this goal in mind, they contend in their contest toward goodness to become the person closest to God and most beloved and favored by Him. However, this contest is purely for God’s Will. In the Qur’an, God tells us that one of the main characteristics of believers that exalts them in this world and the next is the efforts they exert to achieve this goal:

 


Such people are truly racing towards good things, and they are the first to reach them. (Qur’an, 23:61)

 

Then We made Our chosen servants inherit the Book. But some of them wrong themselves; some are ambivalent; and some outdo each other in good by Allah’s permission. That is the great favor. (Qur’an, 35:32)


 

In another verse, God reminds us that no one--man or woman--will be treated unjustly in this world or in the Hereafter, but that everyone will get exactly what he or she deserves:

 


Anyone who acts rightly, male or female, being a believer, We will give them a good life and We will recompense them according to the best of what they did. (Qur’an, 16:97)


 

All these things are proofs of the mercy that God displays to His faithful servants. In societies that do not practice the moral teachings of the Qur’an, women are still treated like second-class citizens. But as a manifestation of His name as “the All Merciful,” God protects all women and gives them glory and due honor.

108.       bebeq
19 posts
 22 Jun 2009 Mon 11:39 pm











THE EMINENCE ISLAM ATTACHES TO WOMEN



The position of women in Islam has recently been an issue of debate. Some misconceptions arise, either from traditional practices which are thought to be "Islamic," but are not, or else from prejudices. However, the real issue is how women are regarded in the Islamic faith, and when we look at this, we see that Islam gives women great social value, freedom and comfort.

 


Women in the Qur´an

 

God´s commandments about the status of women and the relations between men and women, which have been revealed to us through the Qur´an, consist of full justice. In this regard, Islam suggests equality of rights, responsibilities and duties between the two genders. Islam is based on sympathy, tolerance and respect for human beings, and does not discriminate against women in this matter.

 

The examples of good morals communicated to us in the Qur´an are universally compatible with human nature, and are valid for all stages of history.

 

Respect for women and women´s rights fall within this. In the Qur´an God insists that the tasks and responsibilities of women are the same as those of men. Furthermore, while performing these tasks and responsibilities men and women must help and support each other:

 

The men and women of the believers are friends of one another. They command what is right and forbid what is wrong, and establish prayer and pay alms, and obey Allah and His Messenger. They are the people on whom Allah will have mercy. Allah is Almighty, All Wise. (Qur´an, 9:71)

 

God emphasizes that believers will be rewarded in the same manner according to their deeds, regardless of their gender.

 

Their Lord responds to them: ´I will not let the deeds of any doer among you go to waste, male or female - you are both the same in that respect... (Qur´an, 3:195)

 

Anyone who acts rightly, male or female, being a believer, We will give them a good life and We will recompense them according to the best of what they did. (Qur´an, 16:97)

 

In another verse, Muslim men and women are considered together, and it is stressed that both have the same responsibility and status in God´s sight:

 

Men and women who are Muslims, men and women who are believers, men and women who are obedient, men and women who are truthful, men and women who are steadfast, men and women who are humble, men and women who give alms, men and women who fast, men and women who guard their private parts, men and women who remember Allah much: Allah has prepared forgiveness for them and an immense reward. (Qur´an, 33:35)

 

In the Qur´an there are many more verses stating that men and women are exactly equal in terms of their tasks and responsibilities and their rewards or punishments in return. There are a few differences in social issues, but these are for the comfort and protection of women. The commands of the Qur´an regard the congenital differences between the two genders resulting from their creation, and suggest a system maintaining equal justice for men and women in this light.

 

Islam does not see women as objects. Therefore, it is not seen appropriate that a woman of good morals should marry a man of bad morals. In the same way, it is not permitted for a woman of bad morals to marry a man of good morals:

 

Corrupt women are for corrupt men and corrupt men are for corrupt women, Good women are for good men and good men are for good women. The latter are innocent of what they say. They will have forgiveness and generous provision. (Qur´an, 24:26)

 

Also as regards marriage, the duties and responsibilities of couples towards each other require equality. God demands that both spouses be protective of and supervise each other. This duty is expressed in the Qur´an in the following words.

 

They are covers for you and you for them... (Qur´an, 2:187)

 

Many rules and commandments exist in the Qur´an regarding the protection of women´s rights on marriage. Marriage is based on the free will of both parties; the husband has to provide economic support for his wife (4:4); the husband has to look after his ex-wife after divorce (65:6).

 

The Islamic Emancipation of Women

 

As the verses make clear, Islam brings justice to male-female relations and puts an end to harmful practices resulting from customs and traditions of pre-Islamic societies. One example is the situation of women in pre-Islamic Arab society. The pagan Arabs regarded women as inferior, and having a daughter was something to be ashamed of. Fathers of daughters sometimes preferred to bury them alive rather than announce their birth. By means of the Qur´an, Allah prohibited this evil tradition and warned that on the Judgment Day such people will definitely have to account for their actions.

 

In fact, Islam brought with it a great emancipation for women, who were severely persecuted in the pagan era. Prof. Bernard Lewis, known as one of the greatest Western experts on the history of Islam and the Middle East, makes the following comment:

 

In general, the advent of Islam brought an enormous improvement in the position of women in ancient Arabia, endowing them with property and some other rights, and giving them a measure of protection against ill treatment by their husbands or owners. The killing of female infants, sanctioned by custom in Pagan Arabia, was outlawed by Islam. But the position of women remained poor, and worsened when, in this as in so many other respects, the original message of Islam lost its impetus and was modified under the influence of pre-existing attitudes and customs. 1

 

Karen Armstrong, another Western expert on Islam, makes the following comment:

 

We must remember what life had been like for women in the pre-Islamic period when female infanticide was the norm and when women had no rights at all. Like slaves, women were treated as an inferior species, who had no legal existence. In such a primitive world, what Muhammad achieved for women was extraordinary. The very idea that a woman could be witness or could inherit anything at all in her own right was astonishing. 2

 

In fact, during the many centuries that followed Prophet Muhammad, women of the Islamic societies had a much higher social position than the women of Christendom. Karen Armstrong emphasizes that, during the Middle Ages;

 

... the Muslims were horrified to see the way Western Christians treated their women in the Crusader states, and Christian scholars denounced Islam for giving too much power to menials like slaves and women. 3

 

Anna King, a modern Muslim woman and a convert - or, better to say, a revert - to Islam, explains the Islamic emancipation of women as follows:

 

Islam first gave women their rights in a time when women were nothing but the property of men. Islam gave women the right to buy and sell on their own, own businesses and express her views politically. These were all basic rights which the American woman was not granted until relatively recently! It also encouraged women to study and learn Islamic knowledge, breaking a ban which several religions had stipulated, which forbid women to acquire any religious knowledge or touch religious texts... It also abolished the practice of marrying a woman without her consent. Thus, one would have to be very stubborn indeed to refuse such obvious facts and proofs that Islam was women´s first liberator.

 

The tendencies to see women as "an inferior species" who has no right for education and that must be totally secluded from the society arose much later in the Islamic world, as a result of deviations from the right Qur´anic path.

 

Conclusion

 

Thus we can say that the mentality that despises women, excludes them from society and regards them as second class citizens is a wicked pagan attitude which has no place in Islam.

 

In fact, devout women are depicted as good examples for mankind in the Qur´an. One is Mary, the mother of Jesus Christ. Another is the wife of the Egyptian Pharaoh who, despite her husband´s wickedness, is also described as an ideal Muslim. (see, 66:11-12) The Qur´an also describes very gentle conversations between the Prophet Solomon and the Queen of Sheba (27:42-44), and between Moses and two young ladies (28:23-26), which symbolize the civilized social relationship between the two genders.

 

Therefore, it is impossible for a Muslim to have a bigoted approach to women. In a society where true Islamic morals are practiced, immense respect and sympathy will be shown to women, and it will be ensured that they can live in freedom and comfort.

 

The fundamental rule in Qur´anic exegesis is ensuring that the derived meaning is in conformity with the integrity of the Qur´an. When this is considered, it is seen that all the rules mentioned to us by Allah regarding women form a social structure allowing them to live in the most comfortable and happiest way. In a society where all the moral values mentioned by Islam are practiced comprehensively, the social position of women becomes even more exalted than in societies that we today regard as modern.



Edited (6/22/2009) by bebeq

109.       Trudy
7887 posts
 22 Jun 2009 Mon 11:48 pm

Forgot the Surah where it says a man is allowed to beat his wife? Or the one(s) that say the testimony of a woman is worth half of a man´s? Or... Or.... All the other ones? Yes, I´ve read the Koran. I have one here at home. Next to my Bible and I must say, I like them equally - as fairy tales.

110.       bebeq
19 posts
 22 Jun 2009 Mon 11:51 pm

 

Quoting Trudy

Forgot the Surah where it says a man is allowed to beat his wife? Or the one(s) that say the testimony of a woman is worth half of a man´s? Or... Or.... All the other ones? Yes, I´ve read the Koran. I have one here at home. Next to my Bible and I must say, I like them equally - as fairy tales.

 

 Trudy why u tryin to be funny? why we came to this world? coz of worship ourgod.. and he sent us book to follow his orders...do or not do is urproblem...we all got brain...many other countries man also beat their wife´s..is it right of coz not...muslim also do non muslim also do...yes we not accept it..but if everythin is perfct whts the reason we are here for?

   this is exam lady...thts why got hell and paradice...

 

 if islam really is way of urlife...i don think u ll beat urwife...coz god see everythin we are doin...if u wan to make him happy sure we gotta do somethin good..

 

 And i cant forgt the surah...coz they teach me how to go what to do..

 



Edited (6/22/2009) by bebeq
Edited (6/22/2009) by bebeq

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