Emre my angel please marry me!

 Emre, meleðim, evlen benimle!

ahhhhhhhhhhh   sweet sweet sweet!!!

thank you - cok tesekkur ederim

 Two men want to get marry? Or is Emre a name for girls too?

Emre is a guy hehe - and gay marriages are legal in the UK

 I didnt know that...I thought are  legal just in Holland

 And in Belgium, Spain, Canada, Norway, Sweden and South-Africa. Plus some states in the US as well: Massachusetts, Iowa, Connecticutt, Vermont and Maine.

I live in the UK but Emre lives in Turkey - we have been friends ever since he was a boy - and now he is grown up and the other day we were chatting on MSN and he told me he loves me - sweet eh - now I am going to Istanbul in November to visit him and his family - I used to live there

How lovely-hope it all goes well!    

Nice! Im intrested to know what the boy”s parents are saying about this...for me is a big curiosity

B"H

Well, the Supreme Court has ruled it´s the prerogative of the individual state whether or not it wishes to acknowledge another state´s civil union; but in America they´re not quite labelled "marriages" yet, except in Hawaii, I think, though don´t quote me on that.  They´re certainly not acknowledged in the military!  I know that much!

B"H

Anywho, Mazal tov, and congratulations!  I hope you two merit G-D´s blessings and live happily ever after!

just a little, tiny teeny reminder: you two are going to go to hell..

and please accept my best wishes for you both, too hope it will just work fine until then..

Hey silence, why don´t you do as your name suggests and keep your backwards, ignorant trap shut. 

If anyone goes to hell, it is people like you who are intolerant of someone who might not fit the teeny little mold you make for people. 

in my opinion living on this planet is as being in hell also...so for what this screaming...

by the way Good luck guys...all the best for future ( only cant imagine this future in turkish livestyle)

i didnt say i am intolerant.. god is not!   i wish them good, cant you read?

but you re right about something.. i ll be there, too..

 welcome in the hell-girl world  silence....at least i will have somebody which i know in this HELL

 An intolerent God.....how wonderful and uplifting!  I can read perfectly....and I can read between the lines too.  You think you can tell someone they are going to hell and then make yourself look good by wishing them "good"???    How inane!

But that´s the inherent problem with people like you .... you spout beliefs even when you claim its not YOUR belief.  What´s the point?  You are tolerent but your God isn´t?  Pffffftttttttttttttt.....rubbish!

Followers = mindless! 

B"H

Oh, now, I´m a follower, though most Muslims might not agree since I´m Jewish, but I digress.  I wished the couple well, but I do tacitly fear what the Almighty has in store for us; does that make me mindless?  I´m just curious, because every time I see someone who is religious being attacked by a tolerant person, the tolerant person seems very intolerant of those which religious ideologies...

Whatever, hope you two can figure out how insurance and inheritance works with civil unions because I always failed that portion in my law classes.  All the best to you both and G-D  bless everyone, until we die, and then  - only then - will we see what happens.

Until then, enjoy your wedding cake and presents, and get plenty of gift receipts!

 Well, lets see....my comment was directed at the person who said that the original poster was going to go to hell but that was only because his (her???) intolerant God said so........so......does the shoe fit? 

I think that statement is a total cop out.....a way to say what they think without taking responsiblity for what they said.

B"H

10-4.

 So tell me what the boy”s family is thinking about this?

you re so much pushing it to read between the lines that you miss the lines itself.. do you think i really care about something? what god thinks? what other are doing? thats what i call "insane"..

and by the way without even noticing you re doing the same actually.. i say "the book says that gays will go to hell" and you say "intolerent people like you will go to hell".. as god is intolerent agains the gays, you are intolerent to intolerency.. yeah.. seems like i am the only tolerent person between the three of us.. god, you and i .. oh, praises to me!

and you.. you re following the largest group on earth.. those who follows noone and nothing! good girl!

hard words

     In Turkey parents hardly accept a bride from other country or religion...how they react when the boy will say ”mom, dad i want to marry with this man”.

      Seems that MIKE4EMRE avoided to answer my question!

Oh my, my dear silence!!!  I never said you or anyone else was going to hell.  Perhaps you are the one with problems reading.  If you didn´t care what God thinks then what was the point of telling this person that he was going to hell? 

As for what I believe in, you couldn´t possibly have any idea because I don´t run around shoving my beliefs down other peoples throats. 

You tell someone they are going to hell for being gay only because it´s in your bible?   Don´t you question why your God would be so intolerant and hateful?  You see, there is a difference between being a believer and a follower....followers blindly believe without don´t ask questions.   

 Well, perhaps Mike was offended by the fact that he has been told he will go to hell and just doesn´t feel like participating anymore.   

   I dont think he cares about what others are saying...but he can give us a picture of turkish society about this subject.

 And maybe he does.  And maybe he isn´t interested in using his personal life as a learning opportunity for others who ask incredibly personal questions. 

But well now, this is all just speculation by both of us isn´t it.  I guess only time will tell. 

 who is the one with problems reading now?

is that possible that i was just kidding?

i tell you that i dont care what god thinks, and you re still asking why MY GOD is so hateful? are you just playing the dumb, or just being one?

follow me if you can

   You all just start fighting because of this message???? From the first time i read it i didnt see that Silence is judjing somebody.... Dont you have sense of humor? Read it well!

sus sus sakin ol sirnirlini hakkim ol

I think

 sus sus sakin ol, sinirlerine hakim ol

ha ha I was just coming to sort that out cheers bud

 Look how this forum topic changed in a T-T  I will never get the answer for my question 

I don´t really see the humor in it.  It´s mean.  Honestly, its not anyones business where other people go or don´t go when they die (and certainly not anyones place to say). 

It just tickles me so much to know that relationships of all kinds DO happen to Turkish people.....my dear, sweet husband has assured me that there are no "gay" relationships in Turkey. 

Best Wishes Mike4Emre.....I hope his family welcomes you with open minds. 

 Oh well so I did say it.  And you know what...at least I won´t try to pretend it was a joke. 

so we both are liars? i m cool with that..

 Wow!  You are cool with being a liar and even admit to it????  All I did was forgot that I made a statement. 

one thing! you didnt forget that.. you re just blind to your own judging personality..

it was not about what you had for breakfast that we were talking about.. we were talking about your way of thinking and beliefs.. and when you say "i never judge people to go to hell", its not just about a statement but you mean you re not that kind of a person.. but apparently you are so its not just forgetting.. but its blindness, if not lying 

  Calm down Silence.....I understood what you wanted to say

we all need coffe break in here...

if somebody wish always welcome on my balcony, we could drink it together....

 Do you prefer tequila or vodka?  I hope you have cigars!

 ok..

vodka or tequilq noting matter, last weeks im tasting both... i have cigars and  nargile...so welcome...

from this moment Santa Peace ...

Ok...well you guys keep arguing....foka and I will be getting drunk and smoking cigars......

 Look, if you say you were making a joke, and I mistook what you said, I apologize.  It may have just been a bit easier if you had stated so in your original response to my comment.........but whatever. 

If it was a joke, I personally think it was tasteless, but that´s just my opinion.  

Now, I will be joining Lis and foka for some fun. 

 .............and this is the lady who was complaining about smokers????  Cigars no less

 ....FYI....it´s called "Wry Humor"