In that case give me an example in an English sentence?

Sizin dediginiz gibi bir kiz hakkinda ama karsi taraf yani Ahmet´in demek istedigi sen (biliyorsun ya,taniyorsun ya,arkadasin)Var ya........

I got it, mylo but I think that you expressed it a little incorrect.

Var ya... : I mean, I refer...

May be that will be better, eh?

You could use ´I refer´´ or ´i mean´ but ´var ya´ still has many meanings including the one I said before ´You know what I ´mean´ if you read the last word in my text it does actually say ´mean´ so that is what I said ´You know what I ´mean´? no?

sometimes this Turkish puts me inside a deadlock  

Don´t worry it does it to me