ok my first question is CONCERNING QUESTIONS

when we say did I come we say geldim mi but when we say did I deserve this we say hak ediyor muyum when do we use both these  I cant get my head around the  question bits 

 Because you use the vowel harmony:

geldim mi?

hak ediyor muyum ?

hak eder miyim ?

No thats not what I mean I mean when do we use mi mu etc and muyum miyim etc

I actually know about vowel harmony would you believe

 AAA  ..as I know you use it at Past  Tense because you put the personal ending at the verb.

geldim mi?

I think doesnt sounds good to say " gel miydim " nor " hak ediyorum mu".

so If I understand correctly mi means did and when you write muydum miydim is like asking was and were?

 -mi is more like "do...?"

Past                      geldim mi?            hakettim mi?

Present continious    geliyor muyum?     hakediyor muyum?

Present                  gelir miyim?          hakeder miyim?

Future                   gelecek miyim?      hakedecek miyim?     

As you can see there is an irregularity when it comes to past tense.

but but I understand al those but muydum does it mean was I

So "Did i deserve it?" will be what in turkish?

and "Do I deserve it"?

Thank you!

 1. Hak ettim mi ?

2. Hak eder miyim ? ( Hak ediyor muyum? )

Ex: Geliyor muydum? (compound tense)

Had I been coming?

I guees I would translate "hak eder miyim" as "will i deserve it?"

hakettim mi?DID I DESERVE IT

hakeder miyim? DO I DESERVE IT

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Look above

 so what is ,was I coming then

 well same I guess