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just like to know...
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18 Jul 2006 Tue 10:47 am |
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i was just woundering if in turkey turkish couples just live together and have kids like in europe or is that a big no because of there culture.......?
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18 Jul 2006 Tue 12:01 pm |
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thats depend to family if traditional or not,so theres always two answers about Turkish people for each question about social and cultural life
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18 Jul 2006 Tue 12:06 pm |
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you mean there is actually some families,accepting that ?
2 people live together and having kids without being married ??
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18 Jul 2006 Tue 12:10 pm |
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Quoting _Canlı: you mean there is actually some families,accepting that ?
2 people live together and having kids without being married ?? |
i know alot of people, mainly from the larger cities, some of my friends in istanbul are divorced, have kids, married again and have got more kids........
i think as times are changing, its becoming more common! but i cant see this happening in small towns or villages, i still know people in villages having arranged marriages and marrying their cousins??? 
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18 Jul 2006 Tue 12:12 pm |
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thanks for your info so i guess with a srict muslim father it will be a no no .... 
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18 Jul 2006 Tue 12:14 pm |
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18 Jul 2006 Tue 12:16 pm |
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Quoting bttgab: i was just woundering if in turkey turkish couples just live together and have kids like in europe or is that a big no because of there culture.......?
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bttgab, didn't mean that with her/his question
The question is can they live together,without being married and have kids,and people accepting them easly like in Europe ?
She/he, didn't mean they got married then got divorced,there is no marriage to start with
Right bttgab ?
Zannitim, it is a Big NO,it cann't happened there
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18 Jul 2006 Tue 12:18 pm |
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I think that "marriage" here can be misleading...
"Legal marriage" is different than the "religious marriage". There are people in Turkey (also many famous people) who are not legally married, but only make a religious marriage (Which is not legally accepted). Most of the society accepts this kind of relation.
"Living together" : It is not uncommon in big cities, People generally raise eyebrow , and many families prefer their children to be "married".
So, it is about the families, friends and neighborhood.
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18 Jul 2006 Tue 12:21 pm |
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Quoting bttgab: thanks for your info so i guess with a srict muslim father it will be a no no .... |
İt has nothing to do with strict muslim father or not strict,it is Haram in İslam to do so,forbidden
Equal to killing and stealing in Christian religion
Ofcourse those are forbidden too in İslam
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18 Jul 2006 Tue 12:24 pm |
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canin yes that is what i meant thank you for all your info to all.............how about if you get divorced who will get custody of the kids i know a family where the kids live with the dads family is that normal because it doesnt happen in europe a lot they normaly stay with there mum
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