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10.       bttgab
140 posts
 18 Jul 2006 Tue 12:24 pm

canin yes that is what i meant thank you for all your info to all.............how about if you get divorced who will get custody of the kids i know a family where the kids live with the dads family is that normal because it doesnt happen in europe a lot they normaly stay with there mum

11.       _Canlı
175 posts
 18 Jul 2006 Tue 12:25 pm

Quoting boradiz:

I think that "marriage" here can be misleading...
"Legal marriage" is different than the "religious marriage"..



What do you mean about Legal marriage,and religious marriage ?

İsn't everyone there got married accourding to his or her religion

İ mean Muslim got married accourding to İslam
And Christian got married accourding to Christianity ?

12.       sultani
141 posts
 18 Jul 2006 Tue 12:26 pm

Quoting bttgab:

i was just woundering if in turkey turkish couples just live together and have kids like in europe or is that a big no because of there culture.......?



in my personal experience, i am not married, and i have no children... but in a previous relationship with a Turk for 5 years, his family are muslims and follow their religion, because we were living together, they suggested we do imam nikah, the religious ceremony.

maybe this could be an option for some people living together but not ready to commit to a full legal marriage.

13.       sultani
141 posts
 18 Jul 2006 Tue 12:28 pm

Quoting _Canlı:

Quoting boradiz:

I think that "marriage" here can be misleading...
"Legal marriage" is different than the "religious marriage"..



What do you mean about Legal marriage,and religious marriage ?

İsn't everyone there got married accourding to his or her religion

İ mean Muslim got married accourding to İslam
And Christian got married accourding to Christianity ?



there is IMAM NIKAH and RESMI NIKAH

the first is a religious ceremony but it is NOT legal!
the second is the legal wedding.....

alot of Turks do both!

14.       _Canlı
175 posts
 18 Jul 2006 Tue 12:29 pm

well,i don't know who would take the custody Türkiye'de
,
Here it is up to the kid age,
İf the kids still young,then they stay with their Mom,
When they grow up to a certain age,Judge ask them whom do they want to stay with

15.       sultani
141 posts
 18 Jul 2006 Tue 12:36 pm

not sure about who takes custody of the children, but i know of some couples who have seperated/divorced and the children stayed with their father!!

16.       bod
5999 posts
 18 Jul 2006 Tue 12:39 pm

Quoting _Canlı:

İt has nothing to do with strict muslim father or not strict,it is Haram in İslam to do so,forbidden

Equal to killing and stealing in Christian religion
Ofcourse those are forbidden too in İslam



But not all Türkler follow İslam - in the same way as not all English are Christian!!! I am sure that there are atheists living in Türkiye.......

17.       _Canlı
175 posts
 18 Jul 2006 Tue 12:50 pm

Quote:

Quoting bod:



But not all Türkler follow İslam - in the same way as not all English are Christian!!! I am sure that there are atheists living in Türkiye.......



Yes that is true,but they are very very little there,beside the way they think is not only a matter of believing,don't forget also traditions and the way they have been raised

And maybe they don't follow İslam as they don't pray,they drink,but believes and traditions are still there

18.       bod
5999 posts
 18 Jul 2006 Tue 12:53 pm

Quoting boradiz:

I think that "marriage" here can be misleading...
"Legal marriage" is different than the "religious marriage".



The same is true in England.....
Legal marriage has to be preformed under statute law and only this marriage is recognised by the state. The statute mostly dates from 1948 and gives two types of people the power to oversee a legal marriage. Firstly there are "registrars" who are responsible for keeping the registers of births, deaths and marriages. But also all Church of England ministers are enpowered to conduct marriages.

Therefore, if you get married in a Church of England ceremony you are both legally and religiously married in the same process. However, if you get married in a different church then you are only religiously married and this is not recognised by the state. It is usual to have a registrar at the wedding service so the legal part can be done at the same time.

In England it is very common to have just the legal part and not to have a religious marriage at all. Until a few years ago this had to be done in a "registry office" but can now be done almost anywhere. Another complexity is that English law now allows "civil partnerships" which are the equivilent of the legal part of marriage but are not limited to a man and a woman. They can be between two people of the same gender. The civil partnership legislation does allow for "marriage" between three people but as yet that part of the legislation has not been enacted.

19.       _Canlı
175 posts
 18 Jul 2006 Tue 01:01 pm

''The civil partnership legislation does allow for "marriage" between three people ''

How ???
How can marriage be between more than 2 people ???
Any relation got only 2 parts ?? !! right ??

20.       bttgab
140 posts
 18 Jul 2006 Tue 01:09 pm

well bod thats news to me marriage between 3 people????????????

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