I totally agree with Dr. Amin. My long-distance-relationship is actually built on the same things he said.
It's indeed not easy, because you live 2 different lives and you cant put them together tho that is waht you long for. My boyfriend and i just made several times a day that we spent together. We drink tea together And sometimes we both rent the same film and go watch it together with the webcam on msn. It's funny. You just see another dimension of relationships. Next year i will move in with him, after i passed my exams. Then we will see the other dimension of the relationship like most people have, but i think with a different point of view: we prooved our love by our patience and we know we can fight for what we aim for.

Im not saying distance-love is more precious than other loves when they work out,because each love is precious in its own way. But when you handle the right way and a big love grows and stays, you have a strong base to rely on for the rest of your life!

k

Try google talk. It is free.

Hi guys! My babe sent me this song and it really made me feel better after reading.. check this out and maybe you can also send to your love ones from a distance!


Here Without You
by:3 Doors Down

A hundred days had made me older since the last time that I saw your pretty face
A thousand lights had made me colder and I don’t think I can look at this the same
But all the miles had separate
They disappeared now when I’m dreaming of your face

I’m here without you baby but your still on my lonely mind
I think about you baby and I dream about you all the time
I’m here without you baby but your still with me in my dreams
And tonight it’s only you and me

The miles just keep rolling as the people either way to say hello
I hear this life is overrated but I hope it gets better as we go

I’m here without you baby but your still on my lonely mind
I think about you baby and I dream about you all the time
I’m here without you baby but your still with me in my dreams
And tonight girl it’s only you and me

Everything I know, and anywhere I go
it gets hard but it won’t take away my love
And when the last one falls, when it’s all said and done
it get hard but it won’t take away my love

I’m here without you baby but your still on my lonely mind
I think about you baby and I dream about you all the time
I’m here without you baby but your still with me in my dreams
And tonight girl it’s only you and me

I’m here without you baby but your still on my lonely mind
I think about you baby and I dream about you all the time
I’m here without you baby but your still with me in my dreams
but tonight girl it’s only you and me

MERHABA AND THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR SHARING WHAT A BEAUTIFULL

SONG! I AM HAPPY FOR YOU TO FIND SUCH A NICE GUY.

TAKE CARE AND THANKS AGAIN DOLL.

BYESSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS




Peace & Love
& Happiness
2 Both of you,

Tsarevna Stacia

Kelley

Hi classmates..maybe this could help us more in taking care of our long distance relationships.

Whoever first said that absence makes the heart grow fonder never contended with the weekend airport rush. Here are some ways to hold on to your long-distance lover - and your sanity.




Steps:
1. Keep in touch daily. If large phone bills are a concern, send e-mail, letters, cards and even faxes.

2. Plan reunions to keep both of you pleased about the relationship. If your partner needs closeness, set up plans to meet often. Having a date to look forward to can help you through the rough times.

3. Reaffirm your love and commitment to one another. Try not to assume that the relationship is thriving. Listen to your partner's concerns and communicate your own before they become bigger problems.

4. Keep your partner informed about your life. You may live separately, but sharing information about your activities and friends is still important.

5. Trust in one another. Suspicion will only break the relationship down.

6. Keep the relationship a high priority. Avoid canceling reunions or putting off a phone call.

7. Focus on the future. Make plans to live in the same city eventually.


Tips:
Plan a reunion in a city other than the ones you live in. Having a weekend getaway or vacation together can help recharge the relationship and reinforce your commitment.

Find ways to reduce the costs of travel and phone calls so you can meet and talk more often.

Surprise your loved one with an unexpected visit or a bouquet of flowers to keep the passion alive.

Be patient - it may take time for long-term plans to work out.

Consider other creative means of expressing your devotion: Scrawl confessions on a mirror, fan or piece of cloth. Fire off a quick succession of postcards.

It is a lovely song, very meaning indeed. Long distance is definitely not easy as I am in one too, and I miss him very much

dear mag,

ei gurl, sshhhh...it will be ok! love conquers all so don't worry!

Guys, this is my song for my babe...it is also about being faraway from your love...like the first song it is really touching!


Here by Me
by: 3 Doors Down


I hope you’re doing fine out there without me
‘Cause I’m not doing so good without you
The things I thought you’d never know about me
Were the things I guess you always understood

So how could I have been so blind for all these years?
Guess I only see the truth through all this fear,
And living without you…

And everything I had in this world
And all that I’ll ever be
It could all fall down around me.
Just as long as I have you,
Right here by me.

I can’t take another day without you
‘Cause baby, I could never make it on my own
I’ve been waiting so long, just to hold you
And be back in your arms where I belong

Sorry I can’t always find the words to say
But everything I’ve ever know gets swept away
Inside of your love…

And everything I had in this world
And all that I’ll ever be
It could all fall down around me.
Just as long as I have you,
Right here by me.

As the days grow long I see
That time is standing still for me
When you’re not here

Sorry I can’t always find the words to say
Everything I’ve ever known gets swept away
Inside of your love

And everything I had in this world
And all that I’ll ever be
It could all fall down around me.
Just as long as I have you,
Right here by me.

And everything I had in this world
And all that I’ll ever be
It could all fall down around me.
Just as long as I have you,
Right here by me.

That song is beautiful,it's a song so many can relate to.

yeah, the songs are really touching and sentimental. Try to download and listen to it, it might make u cry!! Actually if you will notive my babe's song for me is "HERE WITHOUT YOU" and my song for him is "HERE BY ME", hehe! sort of contradicting from title but the content...to good!