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does any person fall in love???
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14 Oct 2005 Fri 03:45 am |
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does any person fall in love without seeing???
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14 Oct 2005 Fri 03:53 am |
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Yes, why not? If you're referring to physical attraction, sure it counts for something. But things like that are temporary. What counts is what a persons temperment is and your compatibility in other ways. You can get a good sense of this without seeing someone or meeting face to face. (assuming s/he is also honest of course) Unfortunately that still doesn't mean it will work.
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15 Dec 2005 Thu 03:37 pm |
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Quoting duskahvesi: does any person fall in love without seeing??? |
Yes! Much easier than when seeing the other. in real, (generally speaking)we use to hide parts of our personality. a man for example, is attractive when he reflects self confidence and strength of character. He will never mention his fears, he ll never admit that he is sensitive. He will never let u see him when he cries...
But he will open his heart to somebody who has just met online. With the safety that being anonymous provides. He will let u 'see' the beauties he is hiding well inside. And then, when u ll have fallen in love with him, his outlooks wont mean a damn thing to u.
Maybe these are all in my imagination. And i have a wild one  . But it has happened to me in the past. And i m grateful for that, because if i hadn't met him online first, i would have never wasted even one glance for him. He was not handsome, u see, but he was the most beautiful human being i ve ever met...
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15 Dec 2005 Thu 04:22 pm |
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To really know somebody you need to meet them. You need to see how they act around people, how they act when they drive, how they are in the house. You can have strong feelings for someone and love their character so far that you know. But love is a very strong word that people use too easily.
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15 Dec 2005 Thu 04:32 pm |
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Quoting xkirstyx: To really know somebody you need to meet them. You need to see how they act around people, how they act when they drive, how they are in the house. You can have strong feelings for someone and love their character so far that you know. But love is a very strong word that people use too easily. |
ofcourse you have to do all those you are mentioning above. u can never be sure if what you feel is real love until u do. but if u have the chance to know this person's inside first, then its even better. how many times haven't we turned a person down, just because he is not attractive enough? if he had a chance, maybe he would prove to be a great person to be with....
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15 Dec 2005 Thu 04:39 pm |
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Of course, when someones beauty has withered and wrinkled away, what are you left with. When finding someone to spend your life with it should be about the beauty of the heart. Im just lucky my hubby is a hottie aswell as being a wonderful man with a beautiful heart.
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15 Dec 2005 Thu 04:41 pm |
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Quoting xkirstyx: Of course, when someones beauty has withered and wrinkled away, what are you left with. When finding someone to spend your life with it should be about the beauty of the heart. Im just lucky my hubby is a hottie aswell as being a wonderful man with a beautiful heart. |
yes u are lucky 
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15 Dec 2005 Thu 04:42 pm |
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Dusk and all: Does anyone fall in love without seeing. It seems very possible with computers these days.
It is like a DREAMWORLD. Not reality!!! Getting engrossed in a book (Same concept).
Would it be the same, if were to meet up with person??????
They can be quite bizarre computers. How many females/males have more than one intense friendship. The other doesn't know?
Be very careful, everything is not as it seems!!! A lot of the time.
What is in the HIDDEN AGENDA and the ramifications.
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15 Dec 2005 Thu 04:49 pm |
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Quoting Angela: Dusk and all: Does anyone fall in love without seeing. It seems very possible with computers these days.
It is like a DREAMWORLD. Not reality!!! Getting engrossed in a book (Same concept).
Would it be the same, if were to meet up with person??????
They can be quite bizarre computers. How many females/males have more than one intense friendship. The other doesn't know?
Be very careful, everything is not as it seems!!! A lot of the time.
What is in the HIDDEN AGENDA and the ramifications.
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i was lucky enough to meet him as well. and i found no difference on what he had told me he was, though i was trying hard to find one for years.
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15 Dec 2005 Thu 05:22 pm |
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Is it possible to fall in love without seeing?.....mmmmm well - I think it can happen - you can become infatuated with someone quite quickly, which I suppose is a kind of love. Definition of "love" is different for everyone. You have to hope that the person you are in contact with is honest and sincere. If this is the case then I believe you can get to know someone's character probably better (or certainly quicker) than you do in 'normal' face to face relationships. Webcams help of course!
A big 'buzz' is the thought that without the computer you would probably never have met - this adds another dimension - intensifying feelings. Powerful stuff. The test is the subsequent face to face meeting - now that could be a different story!
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