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does any person fall in love???
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14 Oct 2005 Fri 03:45 am |
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does any person fall in love without seeing???
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14 Oct 2005 Fri 03:53 am |
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Yes, why not? If you're referring to physical attraction, sure it counts for something. But things like that are temporary. What counts is what a persons temperment is and your compatibility in other ways. You can get a good sense of this without seeing someone or meeting face to face. (assuming s/he is also honest of course) Unfortunately that still doesn't mean it will work.
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15 Dec 2005 Thu 03:37 pm |
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Quoting duskahvesi: does any person fall in love without seeing??? |
Yes! Much easier than when seeing the other. in real, (generally speaking)we use to hide parts of our personality. a man for example, is attractive when he reflects self confidence and strength of character. He will never mention his fears, he ll never admit that he is sensitive. He will never let u see him when he cries...
But he will open his heart to somebody who has just met online. With the safety that being anonymous provides. He will let u 'see' the beauties he is hiding well inside. And then, when u ll have fallen in love with him, his outlooks wont mean a damn thing to u.
Maybe these are all in my imagination. And i have a wild one  . But it has happened to me in the past. And i m grateful for that, because if i hadn't met him online first, i would have never wasted even one glance for him. He was not handsome, u see, but he was the most beautiful human being i ve ever met...
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15 Dec 2005 Thu 04:22 pm |
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To really know somebody you need to meet them. You need to see how they act around people, how they act when they drive, how they are in the house. You can have strong feelings for someone and love their character so far that you know. But love is a very strong word that people use too easily.
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15 Dec 2005 Thu 04:32 pm |
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Quoting xkirstyx: To really know somebody you need to meet them. You need to see how they act around people, how they act when they drive, how they are in the house. You can have strong feelings for someone and love their character so far that you know. But love is a very strong word that people use too easily. |
ofcourse you have to do all those you are mentioning above. u can never be sure if what you feel is real love until u do. but if u have the chance to know this person's inside first, then its even better. how many times haven't we turned a person down, just because he is not attractive enough? if he had a chance, maybe he would prove to be a great person to be with....
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15 Dec 2005 Thu 04:39 pm |
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Of course, when someones beauty has withered and wrinkled away, what are you left with. When finding someone to spend your life with it should be about the beauty of the heart. Im just lucky my hubby is a hottie aswell as being a wonderful man with a beautiful heart.
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15 Dec 2005 Thu 04:41 pm |
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Quoting xkirstyx: Of course, when someones beauty has withered and wrinkled away, what are you left with. When finding someone to spend your life with it should be about the beauty of the heart. Im just lucky my hubby is a hottie aswell as being a wonderful man with a beautiful heart. |
yes u are lucky 
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15 Dec 2005 Thu 04:42 pm |
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Dusk and all: Does anyone fall in love without seeing. It seems very possible with computers these days.
It is like a DREAMWORLD. Not reality!!! Getting engrossed in a book (Same concept).
Would it be the same, if were to meet up with person??????
They can be quite bizarre computers. How many females/males have more than one intense friendship. The other doesn't know?
Be very careful, everything is not as it seems!!! A lot of the time.
What is in the HIDDEN AGENDA and the ramifications.
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15 Dec 2005 Thu 04:49 pm |
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Quoting Angela: Dusk and all: Does anyone fall in love without seeing. It seems very possible with computers these days.
It is like a DREAMWORLD. Not reality!!! Getting engrossed in a book (Same concept).
Would it be the same, if were to meet up with person??????
They can be quite bizarre computers. How many females/males have more than one intense friendship. The other doesn't know?
Be very careful, everything is not as it seems!!! A lot of the time.
What is in the HIDDEN AGENDA and the ramifications.
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i was lucky enough to meet him as well. and i found no difference on what he had told me he was, though i was trying hard to find one for years.
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15 Dec 2005 Thu 05:22 pm |
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Is it possible to fall in love without seeing?.....mmmmm well - I think it can happen - you can become infatuated with someone quite quickly, which I suppose is a kind of love. Definition of "love" is different for everyone. You have to hope that the person you are in contact with is honest and sincere. If this is the case then I believe you can get to know someone's character probably better (or certainly quicker) than you do in 'normal' face to face relationships. Webcams help of course!
A big 'buzz' is the thought that without the computer you would probably never have met - this adds another dimension - intensifying feelings. Powerful stuff. The test is the subsequent face to face meeting - now that could be a different story!
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15 Dec 2005 Thu 05:55 pm |
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Hi, this is an interesting issue. I know people who have met on internet and they say that the difference is that you get to know each other faster than you do when your seeing somebody. They also told me hat it's not easy to meet the first time cause you know each other very well and yet you don't know because you haven't met.
Sometimes it's just ok and sometimes not......
My brother (27 y) met a girl on msn and had contact with her about a year before she came and visited him. He had talked a lot with her on the phone and they had sent their photos to each other. He really liked her.
Then one day he went to pick her up at the busstation but could't find her. After a while a girl begun to talk to him and told him that she was the one he was waiting for. My brother was shocked, it wasn't the girl on the photo at all. They went to his home but he really could't talk to her. He felt that she had been very dishounest and after that he didn't want to have any contact with her.
Sad but true.....
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15 Dec 2005 Thu 06:07 pm |
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Quoting Boop: Is it possible to fall in love without seeing?.....mmmmm well - I think it can happen - you can become infatuated with someone quite quickly, which I suppose is a kind of love. Definition of 'love' is different for everyone. You have to hope that the person you are in contact with is honest and sincere. If this is the case then I believe you can get to know someone's character probably better (or certainly quicker) than you do in 'normal' face to face relationships. Webcams help of course!
A big 'buzz' is the thought that without the computer you would probably never have met - this adds another dimension - intensifying feelings. Powerful stuff. The test is the subsequent face to face meeting - now that could be a different story!
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I think that internet relationships are not all that they are cracked up to be! A lot of them are just about sex. You can so easily get sucked in by the charm. The person gains your trust, and has you thinking that you are the only girl in the world.......you then find out that there are a string of others.
I would be very wary of any online relationships now. It is all to easy to be more open than you would, if meeting face to face. I once said to someone online 'don't ask me questions like that! You wouldn't ask me that if you had just met me in person' Just because they are hiding behind a computer, they think that they can say anything!
As for web cam, don't even go there! I think I will put mine in the bin.
Just be careful girls, as there are a lot of sharks about 
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16 Dec 2005 Fri 02:46 am |
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You have a free will and can decide whether you want to join in a chat or not. If you give your online details to a stranger then you have to accept that the consequences may not be what you wish. It is up to you to make the choice - nobody can force you.
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16 Dec 2005 Fri 12:22 pm |
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This is very true Boop, but what I am saying is, that you can chat to someone of your own free will, but find that they change very quickly. Not everyone is like that I understand, and women can be just as bad as men. I was just trying to point out that it is not all hearts and roses, there is a bad side to it.
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16 Dec 2005 Fri 12:32 pm |
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yea.....we have six senses....and eyes r one of them.....and i have seven.....last one love....
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16 Dec 2005 Fri 12:35 pm |
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16 Dec 2005 Fri 01:38 pm |
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I belive that, fall in love appears between two people at the first seeing. Without seeing is not possible in my opinion.
Internet or other msn communication tools are only a cause of meeting two people. If someting will rise between them, that will exactly come out after their meeting and knew each other.
Rest others are details..
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16 Dec 2005 Fri 03:33 pm |
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I once fell in love with a guy from Internet who was living in Sweden.I saw his photo after I was already in love.It took me 4 years to forget him..
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16 Dec 2005 Fri 06:57 pm |
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16 Dec 2005 Fri 07:05 pm |
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I once fell in love with one of the Thunderbirds (Scott) - does this count? Of course, I was 5 at the time
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16 Dec 2005 Fri 07:08 pm |
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16 Dec 2005 Fri 07:12 pm |
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Well actually, he didn't return my love. But I could see from the TV that he always gave me that "special look"...
Then at 10 I moved onto a "real man" - Tom Cruise  ..and I am pretty certain HE loves me.
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16 Dec 2005 Fri 07:14 pm |
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16 Dec 2005 Fri 07:54 pm |
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Quoting Chris123: Well actually, he didn't return my love. But I could see from the TV that he always gave me that "special look"...
Then at 10 I moved onto a "real man" - Tom Cruise ..and I am pretty certain HE loves me. |
You are mistaken Chrissy. That 'look' Tom Cruise had was only for me.
Can you fall in love without seeing someone? Maybe, but I think there is a very strong possibility that you will quickly fall 'out' of love when you meet. I don't think this has anything to do with physical appearance, but everything to do with those 'non verbal' ways of communicating, which we all have and which give away lots about our true selves.
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16 Dec 2005 Fri 08:08 pm |
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Quote: Quote: [ ..and I am pretty certain HE loves me. |
You are mistaken Chrissy. That 'look' Tom Cruise had was only for me.
Can you fall in love without seeing someone? Maybe, but I think there is a very strong possibility that you will quickly fall 'out' of love when you meet. I don't think this has anything to do with physical appearance, but everything to do with those 'non verbal' ways of communicating, which we all have and which give away lots about our true selves. |
Ooooo you are a very wise lady Lyndie My view is that the danger with talking to someone you have not met i.e. on MSN or chat rooms, is that you probably talk MORE than you would normally do, and about more serious issues. You very quickly become very bonded and feel you are in love very quickly. Sometimes this may work and when you meet the person that bond is already so strong that nothing can break it. But there is also the danger that having become so close "online" you build up expectations about that person which turn out to be false. Whatever, it is fun finding out!
BTW - Tom is mine - hands off!
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16 Dec 2005 Fri 08:11 pm |
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Chrissy, OK! YOu can have Tom - because anyway Johnny Depp now gives me that 'look' and I prefer him!
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16 Dec 2005 Fri 08:14 pm |
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Yeah, actually Lyndie, I have finished with him because Brad Pitt kept giving me wonderful smiles - just for me...
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16 Dec 2005 Fri 08:21 pm |
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That would be just before he married Angelina would it? O
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16 Dec 2005 Fri 10:38 pm |
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hello guys, i just wanted to say that i'm i love too.
but of course, impossible because i cannot see him. he is miles, miles away.
i wish i could see him just to tell him how much i like him.......
besides, he is a singer..... so i guess i need to forget him, right????? 
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16 Dec 2005 Fri 10:41 pm |
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Quoting Lyndie: That would be just before he married Angelina would it? O |
Seriously? Has he actually married her? Ohmygod - I may as well die...
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16 Dec 2005 Fri 10:41 pm |
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Yes canim, u must forget him. he is not available to you or any other girl!  Ismail YK is very cute, check him out
My Webpage
grrrr....if i were a few years younger!
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16 Dec 2005 Fri 11:07 pm |
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Quoting Lyndie: Yes canim, u must forget him. he is not available to you or any other girl! Ismail YK is very cute, check him out
My Webpage
grrrr....if i were a few years younger! |
Ooooooooo! Cute? He is a god! Ahh, how easy it is to fall in and out of love. One minute Brad, the next Ismail If Aslan is having him for dinner, I will have him for desert (with cream).
Thank you for bring him into my life Lyndie....
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16 Dec 2005 Fri 11:10 pm |
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and they say that first u have to meet somebody to fall in love with him....... 
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16 Dec 2005 Fri 11:11 pm |
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hey girls,
how do you find him so charming? Yes, he may be cute, but not so sooo much, and he's a bit KIRO hehehe 
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16 Dec 2005 Fri 11:17 pm |
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Quoting mltm: hey girls,
how do you find him so charming? Yes, he may be cute, but not so sooo much, and he's a bit KIRO hehehe |
What's KIRO Mltm?
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16 Dec 2005 Fri 11:17 pm |
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Quoting Chris123: Quoting Lyndie: Yes canim, u must forget him. he is not available to you or any other girl! Ismail YK is very cute, check him out
My Webpage
grrrr....if i were a few years younger! |
Ooooooooo! Cute? He is a god! Ahh, how easy it is to fall in and out of love. One minute Brad, the next Ismail If Aslan is having him for dinner, I will have him for desert (with cream).
Thank you for bring him into my life Lyndie.... |
...sorry, dostum...but there will not be anything left of him for you...just for me! 
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16 Dec 2005 Fri 11:19 pm |
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You are a greedy girl Hmmm.
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16 Dec 2005 Fri 11:25 pm |
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...I am not greedy! You can have Leonardo di Caprio, Jim Carey, Tom Cruise and a couple of others...there you go...take them...enjoy them...finish them..but don´t say that I am greedy!
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16 Dec 2005 Fri 11:27 pm |
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Quoting Aslan: ...I am not greedy! You can have Leonardo di Caprio, Jim Carey, Tom Cruise and a couple of others...there you go...take them...enjoy them...finish them..but don´t say that I am greedy! |
may i pls have Jude Law???
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16 Dec 2005 Fri 11:29 pm |
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....with the hat he was wearing in "cold mountain" pls
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16 Dec 2005 Fri 11:31 pm |
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...that depends...what will I have in return?
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16 Dec 2005 Fri 11:32 pm |
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Quoting Aslan: ...that depends...what will I have in return? |
a new check???
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16 Dec 2005 Fri 11:38 pm |
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...heyyy...I will need a bunch of them...you know I am trying to catch Antonio Banderas...and that Melanie Griffith is terrible...she wants a fortune to let him go!
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16 Dec 2005 Fri 11:39 pm |
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Quoting Aslan: ...heyyy...I will need a bunch of them...you know I am trying to catch Antonio Banderas...and that Melanie Griffith is terrible...she wants a fortune to let him go! |
i m only paying since i met u!
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16 Dec 2005 Fri 11:40 pm |
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Quoting Chris123: Quoting mltm: hey girls,
how do you find him so charming? Yes, he may be cute, but not so sooo much, and he's a bit KIRO hehehe |
What's KIRO Mltm? |
a difficult term
kıros don't know how to act in every where, they may say unproper things or do unproper jokes in wrong situations, they don't have a wide view of life, they don't know how to dress actually, sometimes they find it very attractive to show all their black breast hairs through their shirts, they don't know the rules of good manners, they don't know how to approach a woman in a polite way(see his lyrics), they don't read, they don't care about being cultured, they can go to a 5 star hotel and make kebap in the hotel room like İbrahim Tatlises
Ofcourse I don'T know him very well, but he looks so to me.
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16 Dec 2005 Fri 11:41 pm |
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Well, as you are all upping the stakes, can I have Oliver Martinez? I am sure I could entice him away from Kylie..
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16 Dec 2005 Fri 11:42 pm |
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Quote:
a difficult term
kıros don't know how to act in every where, they may say unproper things or do unproper jokes in wrong situations, they don't have a wide view of life, they don't know how to dress actually, sometimes they find it very attractive to show all their black breast hairs through their shirts, they don't know the rules of good manners, they don't know how to approach a woman in a polite way(see his lyrics), they don't read, they don't care about being cultured, they can go to a 5 star hotel and make kebap in the hotel room like İbrahim Tatlises
Ofcourse I don'T know him very well, but he looks so to me. |
Well, fair enough - but I don't want him for his manners, so no problem for me...
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16 Dec 2005 Fri 11:49 pm |
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...now sophie, pleeeeaaassseee...I am going to make you a star...and I am only in this for the zillionaires, remember? ...you can have loads of checks from me once I hunted some of those down!
...and Chris123, take him...he is yours...and I could not agree more...it is not the manners we are looking for!
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16 Dec 2005 Fri 11:53 pm |
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Hehehehehe Aslan, I like your style baby! You are so funny
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16 Dec 2005 Fri 11:59 pm |
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No it is my claws!!!
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17 Dec 2005 Sat 12:08 am |
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Welcome among the cat people!
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17 Dec 2005 Sat 01:36 am |
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Ahh then I am at home with my feline friends. Men must beware - we may be beautiful, cute and soft - but we have SHARP CLAWS AND BITE!
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17 Dec 2005 Sat 11:55 am |
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Quoting ramayan: Quoting ani_istanbul: I once fell in love with a guy from Internet who was living in Sweden.I saw his photo after I was already in love.It took me 4 years to forget him.. |
that means u r not forgetful one....nice...but dis is a disadvantage ...is not it????being forgetful maybe better heaaaaaaaaaaa???? |
Absolutely right!!
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01 Mar 2006 Wed 10:36 pm |
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Its me..I havent seen her but I fell in love..
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02 Mar 2006 Thu 01:18 am |
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im sorry ..i apologize everybody for the messages written here with my name...
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...so tell us now...is there a cat behind that nick of yours?