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does any person fall in love???
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15 Dec 2005 Thu 05:22 pm |
Is it possible to fall in love without seeing?.....mmmmm well - I think it can happen - you can become infatuated with someone quite quickly, which I suppose is a kind of love. Definition of "love" is different for everyone. You have to hope that the person you are in contact with is honest and sincere. If this is the case then I believe you can get to know someone's character probably better (or certainly quicker) than you do in 'normal' face to face relationships. Webcams help of course!
A big 'buzz' is the thought that without the computer you would probably never have met - this adds another dimension - intensifying feelings. Powerful stuff. The test is the subsequent face to face meeting - now that could be a different story!
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15 Dec 2005 Thu 05:55 pm |
Hi, this is an interesting issue. I know people who have met on internet and they say that the difference is that you get to know each other faster than you do when your seeing somebody. They also told me hat it's not easy to meet the first time cause you know each other very well and yet you don't know because you haven't met.
Sometimes it's just ok and sometimes not......
My brother (27 y) met a girl on msn and had contact with her about a year before she came and visited him. He had talked a lot with her on the phone and they had sent their photos to each other. He really liked her.
Then one day he went to pick her up at the busstation but could't find her. After a while a girl begun to talk to him and told him that she was the one he was waiting for. My brother was shocked, it wasn't the girl on the photo at all. They went to his home but he really could't talk to her. He felt that she had been very dishounest and after that he didn't want to have any contact with her.
Sad but true.....
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15 Dec 2005 Thu 06:07 pm |
Quoting Boop: Is it possible to fall in love without seeing?.....mmmmm well - I think it can happen - you can become infatuated with someone quite quickly, which I suppose is a kind of love. Definition of 'love' is different for everyone. You have to hope that the person you are in contact with is honest and sincere. If this is the case then I believe you can get to know someone's character probably better (or certainly quicker) than you do in 'normal' face to face relationships. Webcams help of course!
A big 'buzz' is the thought that without the computer you would probably never have met - this adds another dimension - intensifying feelings. Powerful stuff. The test is the subsequent face to face meeting - now that could be a different story!
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I think that internet relationships are not all that they are cracked up to be! A lot of them are just about sex. You can so easily get sucked in by the charm. The person gains your trust, and has you thinking that you are the only girl in the world.......you then find out that there are a string of others.
I would be very wary of any online relationships now. It is all to easy to be more open than you would, if meeting face to face. I once said to someone online 'don't ask me questions like that! You wouldn't ask me that if you had just met me in person' Just because they are hiding behind a computer, they think that they can say anything!
As for web cam, don't even go there! I think I will put mine in the bin.
Just be careful girls, as there are a lot of sharks about
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16 Dec 2005 Fri 02:46 am |
You have a free will and can decide whether you want to join in a chat or not. If you give your online details to a stranger then you have to accept that the consequences may not be what you wish. It is up to you to make the choice - nobody can force you.
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16 Dec 2005 Fri 12:22 pm |
This is very true Boop, but what I am saying is, that you can chat to someone of your own free will, but find that they change very quickly. Not everyone is like that I understand, and women can be just as bad as men. I was just trying to point out that it is not all hearts and roses, there is a bad side to it.
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16 Dec 2005 Fri 12:32 pm |
yea.....we have six senses....and eyes r one of them.....and i have seven.....last one love....
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16 Dec 2005 Fri 12:35 pm |
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16 Dec 2005 Fri 01:38 pm |
I belive that, fall in love appears between two people at the first seeing. Without seeing is not possible in my opinion.
Internet or other msn communication tools are only a cause of meeting two people. If someting will rise between them, that will exactly come out after their meeting and knew each other.
Rest others are details..
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16 Dec 2005 Fri 03:33 pm |
I once fell in love with a guy from Internet who was living in Sweden.I saw his photo after I was already in love.It took me 4 years to forget him..
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16 Dec 2005 Fri 06:57 pm |
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16 Dec 2005 Fri 07:05 pm |
I once fell in love with one of the Thunderbirds (Scott) - does this count? Of course, I was 5 at the time
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