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getting married in turkey
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14 Jul 2007 Sat 01:36 am |
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Quoting Kelebek: Anaegma x i think ur living in the planet of denial..this is how it is..us women can control the way men behave.. we are the neck..yes we let them be the head..let them talk..and make them feel like they are controlling..but we;re the neck who turns them right, left, down , up.. i am not married..and i dont have bf..but i am not worried abt when i get married..cause i know i am the neck..and can make my husband look same direction i want him too.. |
Its a shame MrX67 is married, you two would suit eachother well!
There is nothing of mutual respect for eachother in what you say. Its game playing and cannot possibily be related to loving the real person!
Its a MAN'S world Kelebek, like it or not. These type of men are condescending and patronising to women by letting them be 'ruled' by their wives in their little domestic worlds. But don't believe for a second that these kinds of men REALLY think you are in charge
Personally, I would only want a man to treat me as an equal with shared views and responsibilities, not a little domestic "boss", or "teacher" or "mother"...
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14 Jul 2007 Sat 01:38 am |
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Quoting Kelebek: Quoting aenigma x: Quoting MrX67: Quoting Kelebek: Men are the head.. us girls or women are the neck.. so we are the ones really in control.. hihihihi |
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If you both believe that then you must be living on a different planet to me.....  |
Anaegma x i think ur living in the planet of denial..this is how it is..us women can control the way men behave.. we are the neck..yes we let them be the head..let them talk..and make them feel like they are controlling..but we;re the neck who turns them right, left, down , up.. i am not married..and i dont have bf..but i am not worried abt when i get married..cause i know i am the neck..and can make my husband look same direction i want him too.. |
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14 Jul 2007 Sat 01:50 am |
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Quoting egyptian_tomb: In my opinion if you think back to when it was 'written' that a woman or both be virgins.....think about it.....
At what age were they getting married back then????
12 - 13 - 14 and so on......hey most people in the world even today ARE still virgins at that age......
Many people get married much later in life now so how can one be expected NOT to act on something as natural as sexual desires.....I just think things need to be updated....things are just not the same as hundrends of years ago.....
Hmmmmf! |
This is a very very good point Egyptian_tomb (I was going to shorten it to ET, but you might take offence  ) Nobody has answered it.....
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14 Jul 2007 Sat 01:51 am |
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Quoting mltm: Quoting aenigma x:
Same double standards, same different attitudes to men than women, same horrible name calling yes!
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Now, I'm really sorry  |
Same here in Canada too Mltm, but I do not believe for a second that every man is bad. I just think we often make the wrong choices on both sides.
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14 Jul 2007 Sat 02:00 am |
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Quoting aenigma x: Quoting egyptian_tomb: In my opinion if you think back to when it was 'written' that a woman or both be virgins.....think about it.....
At what age were they getting married back then????
12 - 13 - 14 and so on......hey most people in the world even today ARE still virgins at that age......
Many people get married much later in life now so how can one be expected NOT to act on something as natural as sexual desires.....I just think things need to be updated....things are just not the same as hundrends of years ago.....
Hmmmmf! |
This is a very very good point Egyptian_tomb (I was going to shorten it to ET, but you might take offence ) Nobody has answered it..... |
ET works for me!
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14 Jul 2007 Sat 02:09 am |
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For KELEBEK =
"... be very careful when you cause a woman cry, because God counts her tears!
A woman was created from a man's rib, not from his leg, if it had been so she would have been crushed; she wasn't created from his head either so that she won't be superior. But she was created from his chest so she would be equal;... a little beneath the arm, so that she would be protected... from the heart level so that she would be LOVED..."
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14 Jul 2007 Sat 03:27 am |
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Quoting aenigma x: Quoting mltm: Quoting aenigma x:
Not just Turkey Meltem, all over the world!  |
What about UK? Is it the same??? |
Same double standards, same different attitudes to men than women, same horrible name calling yes!
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it's the same here in australia...
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14 Jul 2007 Sat 05:34 am |
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I know about that money thing... I can't believe that they make so little money. My boyfriend is working almost 12hrs a day and 6 or 7 days a week and only makes 45dollars and it is in veterinary clinic! I make that money in just 4 hours!
Reading about all the red tape he will have to go through to come to the US I will now know that we will have to start things early.
On another note, I should be going to Turkey Sept 6th and I am very excited and nervous..
I just hope he is as sweet as he appears to be. If anything I will get to see Turkey and have a good tour guide.
Good Luck with the Visas and the marriage....
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14 Jul 2007 Sat 06:02 am |
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Quoting mltm: Do not feel yourself under any pressure MrX, assume that we are your male friends |
That's a good one! 
I love your recent comments Mltm!
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14 Jul 2007 Sat 09:35 am |
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Quoting yilgun-7: For KELEBEK =
"... be very careful when you cause a woman cry, because God counts her tears!
A woman was created from a man's rib, not from his leg, if it had been so she would have been crushed; she wasn't created from his head either so that she won't be superior. But she was created from his chest so she would be equal;... a little beneath the arm, so that she would be protected... from the heart level so that she would be LOVED..."
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vay vay vay... vallah! yok yok yok.. woman is the neck.. anladin mi!
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