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what do turkish men think of divorced foreign women?
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03 Nov 2006 Fri 01:55 pm |
Quoting susie k: From what I understand is that it is a massive disgrace to be divorced, and that if a woman touches another man after a divorce then she is at risk of losing everyone close to her. Her ex hisband will consider her his property forever and will cause untold problems for her. |
Now why does this not surprise me? What a wonderful world Turkish men have created for themselves! It seems they get everything their own way eh?
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03 Nov 2006 Fri 01:58 pm |
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03 Nov 2006 Fri 01:59 pm |
Quoting susie k: Yes. My husband was very clear about this before we got married. |
Then maybe you are right about being a Stepford Wife
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03 Nov 2006 Fri 02:03 pm |
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03 Nov 2006 Fri 02:06 pm |
And tell me...did you give HIM any rules? Offffffff ya, well as long as there are women who are happy to take a submissive role in a marriage, this sexist system will flourish.
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03 Nov 2006 Fri 02:11 pm |
Quoting susie k: I don't ever want a divorce so I don't worry!
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Nobody ever does sweetie
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03 Nov 2006 Fri 02:13 pm |
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03 Nov 2006 Fri 02:15 pm |
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03 Nov 2006 Fri 02:21 pm |
Its not just "sad" when you break up with your partner, it completely changes you and shatters your life into pieces - especially if you are not the once who decides to leave.
I would be very careful about who "controls" the finances once you get to Turkey. If you have the added "bonus" of still belonging to your ex-husband for life, then you will never be able to move on. Sometimes you need to remove your "rose tinted" specs and think about these things, however romantic you feel.
(Amended my post I dont like to talk about personal stuff!)
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03 Nov 2006 Fri 02:26 pm |
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03 Nov 2006 Fri 02:34 pm |
Not a lot of replies from Turkish men on this thread is there? :-S
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