I'm interested to know these, because maybe I will have a moment i wanna do something very special again

Here's my most special thing:

I live in Holland and my love lives in Izmir. June last year we had an incredible fight in which i totally lost control, i panicked enormously and Kadir was so right.
He didn't answer his phone anymore, woudln't reply to any of my mails and messages. I wanted to show him i deserved him and i was worth him. So on that sundaymorning i booked a plane with my dad's visa-card, told my parents i was gonna go do homework with a friend, and went on my bike to the train-station. I couldn't buy a ticket cos i didn't have money, but i went on the train to the airport. There i spoke to a German speaking Turk, who helped me to find my way at the airport. In the plane i sat next to a woman who spoke perfectly english. She gave me a warm sweater, bought food and gave me 50 euros in Turkish money.

The plane flew over Istanbul, it was beautiful. We landed in the early evening and there i called my parents. They were furious and worried. But i was in love and i cared about nothing. The German guy brought me to the busstation and bought me a bus-ticket to Izmir. I travelled 7 hours next to a woman who only spoke Turkish. She is the one who gave me the nickname deli kiz

Early in the morning i arrived in Izmir and called my love. We had an amazing day and night but i had to go back the next day. I was only 17 and my parents were furious. But it was the best thing i ever did.

And now i'm really interested to know what you did for your love. Please share. Also if you have given a nice present

Ahh I have nothing to share which could compare with your story. It made me both smile and worry for you... how crazy we are when driven by love eh? You were lucky you had some nice people to take care of you on your trip

when it comes a far love affair...hehe it brings you many new things...teach u to trust,to miss much,to worry ,to envy,to set up trips,to go kilometres....

love is love...it worths always go on dude... follow your heart

The most special thing I did for love......was to let him go

Oh my god! You really deserved that nickname "deli kız". .Maybe it was because you were seventeen, but surely I wouldn't do such a thing at that age no matter how much I was in love.

yesh ....
:-S

Dear All,

I think that love is like an illnes some time, you can't escape from it and there is no way out except the love itself. As a consequence, in my viewpoint is not a special thing that we do for love; we simply do what we think is the best or the only solution for the moment, with the passing of the years we understand if it was worthy or not, but again we couldn't understand really if it was special or not because we will be more mature and our perceptions change. Anyway, here is the lyric of a song of Leonard Cohen. For me it explain something about this topic. And i think as well that everything is relative and for me when a person says I did this for love or i did it for you, doesn't sounds well, at the end a person do what he or she want first of all for himself(herself)and there is no need to mention it. I think that a person can go far with hate, but can go further with love.



Ain't No Cure For Love

I loved you for a long long time. I know this love is real. It don't matter how it all went wrong. That don't change the way I feel. And I can't believe that time's can heal this wound I'm speaking of -- There ain't no cure, there ain't no cure, there ain't no cure for love.

I'm aching for you, baby. I can't pretend I'm not. I need to see you naked in your body and your thought. I've got you like a habit and I'll never get enough -- There ain't no cure, there ain't no cure, there ain't no cure for love.

All the rocket ships are climbing through the sky, the holy books are open wide, the doctors working day and night, but they'll never ever find that cure for love -- there ain't no drink, no drug -- there's nothing pure enough to be a cure for love.

I see you in the subway and I see you on the bus. I see you lying down with me and I see you waking up. I see your hand; I see your hair, your bracelets and your brush. And I call to you, I call to you, but I don't call soft enough -- There ain't no cure, there ain't no cure, there ain't no cure for love.

I walked into this empty church -- I had no place else to go -- when the sweetest voice I ever heard, came whispering to my soul. I don't need to be forgiven for loving you so much. It's written in the scriptures, it's written there in blood. I even heard the angels declare it from above -- There ain't no cure, there ain't no cure, there ain't no cure for love.


Regards to all.

ahh deli kizin thats such a sweet story! you must be very brave!

Where shall i start from?

Anyway, what I ve done for love, is NOTHING compared to what I m ready to do for love now... (if it will ever appear again )

In highscholl,I bought a birthday present for her in a very snowy day and I could give it to her after flu..I argued with her mom for her(1) lots of times..

Lastly,I sent a mail to a proffesor who was living in UK.. For scholarship..Because I was planning to move there for her(2)..

Everything worths for love..We can say 'Basariya ve aska giden yolda hersey mubahdir' in Turkish...

i actually find this making degrees, much more and most, stuff in a relation... coz any tiny little time can mean lots of things that you cant really imagine... i just give myself

Wow Deli What spirit you have! I wish I could write to say I have done something wonderful for love - but sadly I have not. Perhaps I am too selfish or had one to many rebuffs.

Deli_Kizin , that is one of the sweetest things I've ever read. Perhaps it's because your story is what I yearn to do, but it brought tears to my eyes. Thank you for sharing it.
I've done nothing for love except given my heart, it wasn't enough.

Well, my deed wás selfish Libralady. I felt like I could not bare to loose him, thus I had to keep him. I didn't go there to make him happy. I went there so that I would be happy from making him happy. Love has to be selfish somewhere, just not too much. Lately I'm trying not to be selfish too much, it's my new thing for love

I agree that one shouldn't make gradations in love, like Sui said. I didn't mean it that way either. It's true that the small things can mean so much. Maybe it's the big gestures that you remember. But it's the small daily things that make you happy together.

When my parents met his parents during summer, ofcourse my 'trip' was a table-subject in the restaurant. His mum asked me 'Ama sana ne yaptı peki?'.. I said 'beni terketti ya!'.. they all laughed and told me next time he'd do such a thing, I should call his mum and she would take care of it

Everybody thanks for the compliments. When I look back, it was so stupid. I could've been raped, robbed, caught by the police, Kadir could've been caught by the police for having an under-age girl in his house. Rationally speaking, it was not a good thing to do. But oh my, how glad I am I did this.

deli_kizin... that's such a sweet story. i certainly wouldn't have the courage to do something like that. i'm glad it all worked out for u both and that it keeps going and going.

deli_kizin your your so adorable! that story is really sweet but a lil bit crazy.. how could a young lady be brave like that to travel alone without nothing.. you are really in love with him. i am wishing you and him a long lasting relationship.