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Thread: Let the "East" Talk!

2821.       CANLI
5084 posts
 08 Aug 2007 Wed 11:30 pm

2nd installment

Şeker Bayramı, or Eid El Fitr as we call it,its after Ramadan,we celebrate that we stopped fasting ,and celebrate the Holy month is over.
Before it ends there are some traditions we ALL do before Bayram.
Parents taking kids to buy the Eid clothes,all to his budget,but you would find all kids wearing new clothes,poor or rich
And women got there share too,and buy new clothes
İf there is any money left for the man,he can buy for himself, lol
Then the weak before Eid,all Mothers doing only one thing
CLEANİNG the house
And the can use kids too,asking them to tidy their rooms
And all the family is under the mother mercy in this
Usually the men who can afford pay and get the cleaning lady,but still washing curtains,and...,and... never ends lol
Then we buy the Eid Sweets,is some sweets got sugar on the surface,and lots of other goodies,all to his level too.
First day in Eid,family wake up early,and who doesnt wake,he receive a call on 6 am to say Şeker Bayram Kutlo Olsun
Then men,kids in their new clothes,and sometimes women go to Bayram Namaz,'Salat'
And when they come back,Family eat sweets with tea,and have an early gathering with the big family to have breakfast
Then start family visists.
Kids are the lucky ones in those days,they take money from elder people,family,relative or friends,who happen to meet.
Women get money too from husbands,if they afford it.
Then we have another family gathering at lunch,we eat grilled fish usually
Then kids go out and by toys with their money,and NEVER give it to parents
Second day some continue visisting people who we didnt visit,third day we gather youth together,have dish part,and play some games.
Ohhh,i forgot to say,Şeker Bayram is 3 days



Thread: Let The West Talk !

2822.       CANLI
5084 posts
 08 Aug 2007 Wed 11:04 pm

Quoting libralady:


Ohh yes LL,i got what you mean,its lovely point we didnt discuss it here too,ty
İ guess its better to wear white in mourning in İslam,but we were black too in Egypt

And btw,no,pls do it again and write it long as you can get it,its really full of helpful info



Thread: Let the "East" Talk!

2823.       CANLI
5084 posts
 08 Aug 2007 Wed 10:51 pm

Quoting femme_fatal:

...........................
Let The West Talk



Thread: Let the "East" Talk!

2824.       CANLI
5084 posts
 08 Aug 2007 Wed 10:23 pm

Quoting femme_fatal:

i tell you the difference between westeners and easterners.


W&ِ ?

W.E.S.T.E.R.N - E.A.S.T.E.R.N

2 Similar words,with 2 letter is the difference.
Why do you always look at the empty half,at differences,why dont you go to some bazar too,and get some bazar education,maybe its not bad after all and start looking at the things in common ?!

Before you answer this, Forget it.



Thread: Let the "East" Talk!

2825.       CANLI
5084 posts
 08 Aug 2007 Wed 09:39 pm

İn Egypt as in any other country traditions are different from place to another .
But we all share almost same traditions to some extent.
And that be in some events.
Ramadan,Şeker Bayram, 'Eid El Fitr' Kurban Bayramı 'Eid El-Adha'a',Birth Of Mohamed SAV 'Mevlet' ,and Christmas on 7th January for Christians those are the religious events
New year
'Smelling the nature scents'Şam El nesim,and that is a Pharaoh event
And we have 3 National holidays,here,we take the day off from work.
They are 23 Jule,the revolution day,when we become a republic and not following any Crown
The 6th Oct,where we took our land back
The 25th April we took last bit of our land back to us.

İn Ramadan,family gather and have İftar together first day,and then each day,they are having İftar at another member of the family,or at friends,and if they dont go out,they invite people to have iftar with them.
Frieday is our weekend,so it be the most crowded day at Ramadan,so on that day the far members of the family,reunion with the family in big iftar.
The tables always full of lovely food,Dolma is our tradition food by its all kinds,along with Molokheya ' its vegetable we cook it and add soup to it and we eat with rice,its lovely'and they used to serve with duck for first days of Ramadan 'yuk' and chiken too,my Mom makes Steak too'Biftak',i prefer it.
After Ezan calling,its tradition to eat date 'hurma' even one or 2,and drink water or some Easterns drinks like 'Tamr Hendi,Kharoub,..'
And we make doa,one to each own,then start eating.
And after İftar finish,we eat Huşaf,'its some kinds of dried fruits,we put in juice along with hurma too,' then they drink tea,and eat sweets.
Eastern sweets in Ramadan,like Baklava,Basbosa,..ect
Then most men and some women go to pray 'taravih Salat'which is extra Salat 'namaz' we pray it only in Ramadan ,then they gather again,and chat,or watch TV, read Kur'an
İn Ramadan,people race to finish reading the whole Kur'an in the Holy month.
TV in Ramadan be full of series made only to watch in Ramadan as a celebration,not a religious series,but sometimes there is one,usually they make more than 10 to 15 new series,played by the most famouse movie stars,and they race to put it in Ramadan schadual so they be more famouse.

Then some people who like to stay late,gather again at 3 am to have Sahour together,'Which we eat at dawn before fasting' we do it in my family.
Others sleep a little then wake up before dawn to eat,or some eat early and sleep.
You would see all the city full of light,Mosques are decorated with lights whole month,so much light as same as you do in Christmas,but we keep them right after Ramadan and Şeker Bayramı finish.
Ohh some other thing,in ramadan we have something called 'Ma'idet Al Rahman' meaning the Tables of AL RAHMAN ,AL RAHMAN is a name of ALLAH .
Those tables are made by people who are putting them in the streets to make large table,for poor people,or people who are on travelling and they cant catch Ezan time at home
For anyone who want to break the fast,and those tables full of good food,some people make in their homes,some they buy,who want to buy the fruits can do,and at the end,the tables full of goodies
No one would ever be hungry in Ramadan.
We all love Ramadan,its full of Hayır''blessings' even we fast for whole day,and sometimes get thirsty,but we always wait for it from a year to another,happy when it comes,sad when it finished.

Ohh,and i forgot to tell you about Ramadan lamp,we call it Fanous Ramadan
İts coming away back from the history,now it got so many shapes.
Kids in the past use to have small Ramadan lamps,and light it with a candle,and they gather in the streets together,lighting up their lamps,and singing some songs for Ramadan
Now there is a lamp inside it instead of candles,and made of Plastic,and kids play with it inside houses and close the light and sing for Ramadan still

Have a rest and i will tell you about Bayram traditions

Fanous Ramadan



Thread: Let the "East" Talk!

2826.       CANLI
5084 posts
 08 Aug 2007 Wed 08:54 pm

Quoting mavisakal:

Quoting CANLI:

Quoting mavisakal:



in turkey lately these women are getting more modern. they are used to stay at home all day until 90 s but now you can see them everywhere. but they still dont show their hair to men.


You meant Women weren't leaving house who are wearing Hijab or Niqab ?

Ps:They shouldnt show their hair to men too if they are wearing it out of Faith.



yes i mean they were not leaving house until 90 s like my mother and aunts.

and i can not see any point of wearing it out of faith. even if they are wearing out of faith what prevents her to show their hair?


Yes,your mother is wearing Hijab or Niqab ?

Ps:i will pm about why not showing it even if she wears it out of Faith,so we dont turn it to a religious thread



Thread: Let the "East" Talk!

2827.       CANLI
5084 posts
 08 Aug 2007 Wed 08:36 pm

Quoting mavisakal:



in turkey lately these women are getting more modern. they are used to stay at home all day until 90 s but now you can see them everywhere. but they still dont show their hair to men.


You meant Women weren't leaving house who are wearing Hijab or Niqab ?

Ps:They shouldnt show their hair to men too if they are wearing it out of Faith.



Thread: Let the "East" Talk!

2828.       CANLI
5084 posts
 08 Aug 2007 Wed 08:27 pm

Quoting AEnigma III:

I have a specific question regarding the full hijab. If you meet a man, or even if you have an arranged marriage, at what point is he allowed to see your face and hair?

Also, with the advent of internet, would you be permitted to talk to someone you meet via webcam? Would you be able to exchange photographs?

Forgive my ignorance with this subject, but its something I have often wondered about


Full hijab ?you mean Niqab who is covering face too and only eyes are shown ?

Well,as i know, he sees her face once before they accept each other,and as for her hair,he is not allowed to see 'i guess' his sister or mother can,and allowed to tell him about it.
İ cant talk on their behalf,i dont meet them,but you can judge from what they do in arranged marriage.

As for girls who wear normal hijab,it depends on the girl herself,whether she allow him to see her or not.
Some dont wear hijab infront of their fience at all,as long as they are at home,and some do.
As for internet,they do while wearing hijab,and can exchenge pic if they want.
İts her choice.

As for if the man SHOULD see her hair or not,in İslam,he shouldnt,but of course he can see her face,its not hidden by hijab



Thread: Let the "East" Talk!

2829.       CANLI
5084 posts
 08 Aug 2007 Wed 08:09 pm

Quoting Badiabdancer74:

I have a specific question for you to make it easier. What is the custom of meeting (an older?) person of holding their hand kissing it and putting it to your forehead. When do you do this? Gender differences, man to woman, woman to woman, woman to man? How old is 'old' and are you going to offend anyone if they don't consider themselves old? Cem (my fiance) said it is important to do this, but I felt too uncomfortable and I didn't want to make anyone feel OLD! I am a yabanci...I don't understand!


Well,im Egyptian not Turkish
And we dont have those kind of customes anymore,we used to have it,but it ended in the big Cities,and upper Egypt,maybe it still goes like that in the south.
The son,even if he is a man kisses his Dad's hand and touch it to his forhead.
And he sit down after his Dad sit,and he cant cross his legs infront of him,he cant lay on couch or something like that infront of him
İt considered rude
He should wear formal clothes,i mean even its hot,he cant wear shorts for example infront of him,but dont wear a suit too, lol
He do this for his father and Mother,and elder people too of the family.
But he can be more comfortable infront of his Mom,considering laying,and clothes,from the thought she is kind and she would allow it.
İf we went to south,they dont expect us to do so,although they wouldnt like our norm attitude,but they ..hhmmm well, consider us yabanci to south too
Ohh,and old means,he is in the age to be your father,or close to it.
Ps:i mean he or she,both do the same,has nothing to do with genders.

Wish some of Turkish friends can help you with that tho.



Thread: Let the "East" Talk!

2830.       CANLI
5084 posts
 08 Aug 2007 Wed 07:22 pm

Quoting AEnigma III:

Come on then Canli



lol,its a hell of a job lol
You are dragging me to my own trap, lol
Fair enough Canım
İ was reading 'Let The West Talk'posts and thinking what a hell of job if someone asked me same question ,lol,
and you did it
Ok Canım,im making Lasagne here 'first time,so pls cross fingers for me,and i will rais my 2 hands 'then i will hop in



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