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a foreign wife for a turkish man
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05 Feb 2007 Mon 08:24 am |
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I would like to know the ideas of foreign women married to turkisn men. what problems they faced or still facing?So interesting to share opinions wiz females living in Istanbul. I am from Belarus and soon coming to Turkey. Thanx in advance.
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05 Feb 2007 Mon 09:07 am |
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Quoting Melnikaite: I would like to know the ideas of foreign women married to turkisn men. what problems they faced or still facing?So interesting to share opinions wiz females living in Istanbul. I am from Belarus and soon coming to Turkey. Thanx in advance.
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the usual problems that men bring with them..
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05 Feb 2007 Mon 09:14 am |
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05 Feb 2007 Mon 09:35 am |
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Actually i expected to hear experince of the ladies who moved to Turkey their first months of staying.just replying to a new topic in forum is nice but if you add something from your experience i would appreciate it much.
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05 Feb 2007 Mon 09:49 am |
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Quoting Melnikaite: Actually i expected to hear experince of the ladies who moved to Turkey their first months of staying.just replying to a new topic in forum is nice but if you add something from your experience i would appreciate it much. |
i did..i'm not living in turkey with him, we live here, men are men no matter where they come from and just because my husband acts in certain ways doesnt mean othe turkish men would do the same..do you see what i am trying to say now?
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05 Feb 2007 Mon 09:49 am |
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05 Feb 2007 Mon 11:59 am |
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Quoting robyn  :
i did..i'm not living in turkey with him, we live here, men are men no matter where they come from and just because my husband acts in certain ways doesnt mean othe turkish men would do the same..do you see what i am trying to say now? |
Robin, your case is differnt i guess. He( your husband) has to ged adopted to british life not you to turkish. He has to behave according to british life style. U mentioned once that your kid isnt even muslim. But I guess if you move to Turkey, u will be not so much independent.Correct me if im wrong.
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05 Feb 2007 Mon 12:04 pm |
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Quoting robyn : ...men are men no matter where they come from ... |
What a sexist comment!!! Men are all different and have different qualities from eachother.
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05 Feb 2007 Mon 12:05 pm |
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Quoting susie k: The best advice really is to get friendly with some Turkish girls - who must be recommended by your partner - then they will explain their customs and ways to you, it can be very upsetting otherwise because people may disapprove of you for doing something completely natural!
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Susie k, thanx for reply. Do you really belive that it is possible to get friendly wiz turkish girls?We, foreign wives, are supposed to steal "good turks" from the turkish girls? Did u manage to become friendly wiz any turkish female? especially single? I managed but only wiz married one |
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05 Feb 2007 Mon 12:05 pm |
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Quoting Melnikaite: Quoting robyn :
i did..i'm not living in turkey with him, we live here, men are men no matter where they come from and just because my husband acts in certain ways doesnt mean othe turkish men would do the same..do you see what i am trying to say now? |
Robin, your case is differnt i guess. He( your husband) has to ged adopted to british life not you to turkish. He has to behave according to british life style. U mentioned once that your kid isnt even muslim. But I guess if you move to Turkey, u will be not so much independent.Correct me if im wrong. |
yes you are wrong im afraid.he hasnt adapted to britiash lifestyle at all,he has no chance as he eats, drinks,works and socialises with only turkish ppl.n im not that indeoendent here either..i find it sad that you are in a relationship with a turkish man whilst trying to uhold these stereotypes..just my opinion and i dont mean to offend but being with any man(not just turkish) does not mean that you have to lose your independence. i just hope u realise that, we are not property or here to be told what to or not to as i am begininning to realise,
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