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a foreign wife for a turkish man
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06 Feb 2007 Tue 01:39 am |
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Quoting longinotti1: But how is what I said "stereotyping", are you saying that the translation requests are "MADE UP" by some screen writier? 
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Nice thought, but not even a screen writer could come up with some of their bizarre stories! Truth is stranger than fiction eh? 
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06 Feb 2007 Tue 01:47 am |
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Quoting Melnikaite: Quoting robyn  : Quoting Melnikaite: Quoting robyn :
i just hope u realise that, we are not property or here to be told what to or not to as i am begininning to realise, |
Robin, i didnt mean that marriage is losing right..but u have to admit that while taking a decison the husband"s opinion counts more. An i impled that wizout knwing turkish language, wizout having a job how can u be that independent..even if u love a person..Im not 18y.o..I scared that one day he will reject my request for something( like visting my parents or calling home regulary) |
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06 Feb 2007 Tue 02:08 am |
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Quoting Melnikaite: Quoting robyn : Quoting Melnikaite: Quoting robyn :
i just hope u realise that, we are not property or here to be told what to or not to as i am begininning to realise, |
Robin, i didnt mean that marriage is losing right..but u have to admit that while taking a decison the husband"s opinion counts more. An i impled that wizout knwing turkish language, wizout having a job how can u be that independent..even if u love a person..Im not 18y.o..I scared that one day he will reject my request for something( like visting my parents or calling home regulary) |
Before my husband and i got marrried we talk about what we expect from each other and things that are important to me and to him. Mine is my family(parent& siblings),my religion. I call my family every week and send them money. I told him that and i wont stop doing it even after the marriage.
Ira, just a suggestion. Why don't you talk to your future husband now and tell him your fears, apprehensions , expectations when you stay in turkey. This way you will be less afraid of the future. Thats what i did with my husband. I'm moving to Istanbul in August and I too have a lot of doubts/fears and i told my husband about it. It helped. A lot.
Good luck!
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06 Feb 2007 Tue 09:20 am |
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Quoting longinotti1: Quoting azade: Quoting longinotti1: Just read the messages women on this forum.....Watch them change |
Allah?myarabim(sp?) that's just stereotyping. What do you base it on?
I'll personally be happy to prove the odds wrong 10 or even 50 years from now |
I sincerely hope you do.
I should have be clear that I meant change for better or worse.
But how is what I said "stereotyping", are you saying that the translation requests are "MADE UP" by some screen writier?
Iyi Günler |
I think I have misundestood your previous post.
Sana da iyi günler
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06 Feb 2007 Tue 09:22 am |
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Quoting Melnikaite: Quoting qdemir:
I have never heard of anything that silly (I am sorry, I couldn't just help saying silly)
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Qdemir, u r a male.. how can u know what concern women? u have a foregn gf? u just dont know but in reality turkish girls women dislike foreign girls.. Once i was called "Rus dusmanby a woman in nikah salon!!!! |
no turkish girls i have met have EVER been rude and if anything are some of the friendliest welcoming girls you could ever meet..i think you and some others may have had some bad experiences..or maybe i was helped by the fact they didnt realise i was english until i opened my mouth 
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06 Feb 2007 Tue 09:25 am |
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Quoting sofia-gr: you're talking about very interesting things here...
well, since i have no personal experience with turkish people & society (except for 6-7 friends of mine who come from the Muslim Minority of Thrace, thus adopt easily to the "greek" environment), i would like to ask:
* do Turkish parents always want their chilren to live with them even when they get married?
* isn't a wife allowed to do not even a small job (lets say teaching foreign languages to small groups of children or something like that). i guess i'd be very difficult from a Turkish man to give his consent for his wife to work as a doctor or something, wouldn't it?
* apart from the character, personality and the education the indvidual has received, does it play an important role the place he grew up (lets say whether he was raised in Western or in East Turkey, e.g in Istanbul, Izmir, Gaziantep or Kirikkale?) |
okkes is from maras(kahramanmaras) in south east turkey..as i said before i will soon be working whilst he stays at home and he doesn't care if i work part time because we are making the best possible life for our daughter and also helping his family by sending money there.
so technically, he should be more traditional, but he's not really.not to a severe extent and it's waning off more and more
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06 Feb 2007 Tue 10:23 am |
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Quoting robyn : okkes is from maras(kahramanmaras) in south east turkey..as i said before i will soon be working whilst he stays at home and he doesn't care if i work part time because we are making the best possible life for our daughter and also helping his family by sending money there. |
So you will work part time soon and he wont work at all???
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06 Feb 2007 Tue 10:47 am |
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Quoting aenigma x: Quoting robyn : okkes is from maras(kahramanmaras) in south east turkey..as i said before i will soon be working whilst he stays at home and he doesn't care if i work part time because we are making the best possible life for our daughter and also helping his family by sending money there. |
So you will work part time soon and he wont work at all??? |
no soon i will work fulltime..but if that doesnt work out i could get a part time hob easily as i've had a few offers from old employers and yes he will give up work to look after baby ..what a change..
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06 Feb 2007 Tue 12:22 pm |
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robin!! kahramanmaras is not in soouth east turkey..it is in mediterranean region..eastern mediterranean...and bears the features of medieterranean climate at lesat in the city center...sorry for a different subject..
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06 Feb 2007 Tue 12:36 pm |
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06 Feb 2007 Tue 02:03 pm |
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As being a man, I have a wider vocabulary of insults than you do. However I won't do that (even if you have deserved) because I have respect for all women, no matter how well behaved or polite they are as being a woman, or how much self respect they have for their womanhood.
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