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WHAT IS GOING ON HERE? :-(
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08 May 2007 Tue 01:20 pm |
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Exactly what I thought...it's a learning curve for them & an experience but quite a hard one. It's still sad to see the number of women asking for help on these boards no matter what kind of relationship they are in, or have been in. All we can do is answer any questions and send them good wishes!
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08 May 2007 Tue 04:45 pm |
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DOn't waste your time caring... really. I not so long ago tried to be supportive to one of these women, I sent a pm telling her how she could do better and blah blah blah (what I said is not really the point) however, my response was simply "mind your own business and I'm not looking for advice just translations"... actually it ended up more rude then that. The shocking part is.... isn't it everyones business when you post your every conversation with your man on here?  I guess it makes me quite shocked that if you are married and have children you can't speak to one another without getting an interpreter?? Come on!!
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08 May 2007 Tue 05:40 pm |
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Quoting karekin04: I guess it makes me quite shocked that if you are married and have children you can't speak to one another without getting an interpreter?? Come on!! |
Absolutely!
And in my observation, it seems to be the same ones posting over and over and over so there really aren't that many. I just cannot understand why anyone would post such personal conversations for the whole world to see! 
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08 May 2007 Tue 06:13 pm |
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Quoting girleegirl: I just cannot understand why anyone would post such personal conversations for the whole world to see! |
Don't be cruel that much! The fact that they post their personal and private, yes sometimes even private, conversations -with your words- for the whole world to see, is not their choice and wish, but their absolute necessity. And I won't even mention that the whole world doesn't and can't know actually whose personal posts it sees!
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08 May 2007 Tue 07:20 pm |
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Quoting panta rei: Quoting girleegirl: I just cannot understand why anyone would post such personal conversations for the whole world to see! |
Don't be cruel that much! The fact that they post their personal and private, yes sometimes even private, conversations -with your words- for the whole world to see, is not their choice and wish, but their absolute necessity. And I won't even mention that the whole world doesn't and can't know actually whose personal posts it sees! |
Call me cruel and heartless too but I agree 100% with Girleegirl and it is just testment of the relationships we are talking about. The same people sharing their personal relationships with all the members of this site, and anyone else who wants to look in (you dont have to be a member to see the posts only to reply). I personally dont feel any sympathy either.
How can you have a relationship based on "getting translations" to sort out your problems, which judging by the repeat requests, never get sorted out. Why is it an absolute necessity?? And what about the man in these cases? How would he feel if he knew his private life was being posted on the internet? Most guys would say goodbye to any possible relationship there might have been.
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08 May 2007 Tue 07:25 pm |
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Quoting panta rei: Quoting girleegirl: I just cannot understand why anyone would post such personal conversations for the whole world to see! |
Don't be cruel that much! The fact that they post their personal and private, yes sometimes even private, conversations -with your words- for the whole world to see, is not their choice and wish, but their absolute necessity. And I won't even mention that the whole world doesn't and can't know actually whose personal posts it sees! |
My point is if you don't mind asking for help on such a "personal issue" also take the sympothy and advice with gratitude weather its welcome or not. You don't mind their help but you mind there comments? It's bogus. Honestly the ones that are crying about a break up aren't nearly as annoying as the thousand "I love you baby". Girls its simple... seni çok seviyorum, bebek seni çok seviyorum! Seni ozluyorum. Over and over. Its' just 2 lines I think you can remember.
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08 May 2007 Tue 07:28 pm |
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Quote: And what about the man in these cases? How would he feel if he knew his private life was being posted on the internet? Most guys would say goodbye to any possible relationship there might have been. |
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08 May 2007 Tue 07:34 pm |
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Just one (minor) problem: the girls this topic is about will not read it I guess, they only continue asking for translations.... 'Aşkım, istiyorsun'....
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08 May 2007 Tue 08:17 pm |
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Quoting Trudy: Just one (minor) problem: the girls this topic is about will not read it I guess, they only continue asking for translations.... 'Aşkım, istiyorsun'.... |
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08 May 2007 Tue 08:22 pm |
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Quoting karekin04: Very true. Oops I forgot that line that makes 3 |
Shall we ask admin to make a 'sticky' topic with these 3, so they just have to check that one and can have a 'high level conversation'?
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08 May 2007 Tue 08:32 pm |
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Quoting panta rei: Don't be cruel that much! The fact that they post their personal and private, yes sometimes even private, conversations -with your words- for the whole world to see, is not their choice and wish, but their absolute necessity. And I won't even mention that the whole world doesn't and can't know actually whose personal posts it sees! |
Uhh I don't see anyone twisting arms to get people to post here so yes, in fact, it is their choice. It makes no difference to me if someone knew who I was or not, I would know it was my post and I just couldn't bring myself to air my issues in public! It's called dignity.
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